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    So there's a new hostess at my club and she's been a complete bitch to me and a few other dancers. Last night she said I spent too long with customers when other girls do the same, and said I spend too long in the DR, when girls are allowed to sleep in there. She'll push her friends to get dances and even cut me off from a dance so she her friend could go. How do I deal with this? It's making me feel depressed to go into work and that's not the energy I want to put out. I try avoiding her but she keeps talking to me.

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    Is her name Shannon? lol

    Go over her head and complain. & Never tip her out. F that.

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    Default Re: Dealing with a mean staff member

    Is there any way you could work on days/nights when she’s not there? That would help a lot, just not working with her at all. Have u complained about her yet? You said she’s mean to other dancers too, well you and the other dancers can all go to your manager to complain about her. If a bunch of girls are having problems with her they’ll probably do something. And next time she tries talking to you...ignore the hell out of her! Start talking to someone else the second she tries talking to you. She’ll get the hint

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    I've told the boss about her, she said if other girls complain about her she'll need a good talking to. I think it's already happened as she was a lot more easy going last night and not yelling at customers/dancers lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rosehoneyxo View Post
    I've told the boss about her, she said if other girls complain about her she'll need a good talking to. I think it's already happened as she was a lot more easy going last night and not yelling at customers/dancers lol.
    She's probably a big fan of booger sugar & amps up her attitude after every bump lol

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    Have you tried tipping her out or even try a dif club as a last resort. I know this worked in my favor when I went to audition at a dif club, got hired & then the next day went to empty out my locker at 1st club on the sly -the GM heard about what was going on somehow & then decided to correct the situation because he didn't want to lose me to a stupid situation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brandi_Lynn View Post
    Have you tried tipping her out or even try a dif club as a last resort. I know this worked in my favor when I went to audition at a dif club, got hired & then the next day went to empty out my locker at 1st club on the sly -the GM heard about what was going on somehow & then decided to correct the situation because he didn't want to lose me to a stupid situation.
    yes!!! if it keeps happening, keep nicely informing management about your concerns and let them know that it's getting to the point where you are considering trying a new club. make sure to tell them before you just quit because they might step up if they think this chick is driving away their dancers. because the dancers are the ones tipping them out and paying house fee.

    i had the exact same issue with a mean door girl and that really did the trick. i'd worked there for well over a year and she was always super super mean to me for no reason, but was best buddies with certain dancers who couldn't understand why she didn't like me. one day i came into work and she claimed she didn't know me and we already had a girl by (my name) and cussed me out in front of customers and wouldn't let me sign in. i left and came back to speak with the manager another day and told them i had to leave that night and work at their competitor club because of her crazy ass. they were not happy. didn't see her for a week or so after that and she's been nice to me ever since.

    whatever you do, don't cause a scene with her directly. be nice and do your best to be respectable in the eyes of management so they are more inclined to take your side. if you hear any other girls complain about her, try and encourage them to tell the management too. the more people complain about her the more likely anyone is to actually do anything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    She's probably a big fan of booger sugar & amps up her attitude after every bump lol
    Lol! Booger sugar! I'm going to start using that one from now on.

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    Ignore.

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    Turns out they fired her lol

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