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    This might seem like a dumb question but in relationships i often have trouble knowing when to walk away. In my last relationship I walked away after a yr because my then bf was toxic

    Three months later I had to watch his life upgrade. He got a (section apartment, and a new gf that he didn't mind spending on. Meanwhile I had to move back home with nothing.

    Often I have trouble walking away because of the situation oh just described. What is your method for knowing when to walk away

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    Default Re: When to walk away

    Walk away when you have stopped looking out for Number 1 & are stepping in Number 2

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    Default Re: When to walk away

    Cute^, but yea when treated badly, it's best to cut your losses & move on, although not easy.

    Here's a quote

    If someone treats you badly just remember that there is something wrong with them - not you. Normal people don’t go around destroying other human beings.


    MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP

    -Eartha Kitt

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    Default Re: When to walk away

    i wouldn't know because i'm a dumbass when it comes to that.


    but i will say, don't focus on what he's doing. just move on. block him if you have to. you broke up for a reason. and sooner or later the new girl will have the same problems with him just wait. they're in the honeymoon phase. he didn't just stop being a toxic person because he got a new place.

    i went through the same thing with my ex. watched him go from living off me with no friends and no job.. to an amazing job, new house, and tons of new friends. i forced myself to fully move on and not give into his b.s. "lets be friends" thing. 3ish years later he hit me up and didn't go into detail but basically said he can't keep a relationship for more than a few weeks/months. seemed like he missed me. and i was like wow thank god i'm not still in that. because i remembered he's a cheating scamming fuckboy with no personality and a small dick so obviously he's still having relationship problems. that shit doesn't just upgrade automatically with a new place/girl/car/whatever.

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    don't be jealous of his new girlfriend because she's gonna have to deal with the same bs that you did. when I was in high school I dated this guy for 2 years and as soon as we broke up he got a new gf immediately and bought her all this shit when he barely took me out on dates while we were together. the last 5/6 months we were together I literally would sit on his couch watching him and his friends play video games so I was pretty fucking livid when I found out he bought this girl a ring and was doing all this shit for her. He got his though and then years later tracked me down on facebook to apologize and I never responded.

    I wouldn't consider a section 8 apartment to be an upgrade btw. it just shows he can't man up and pay his own bills and he needs government handouts. find a man with some real ambition who owns a business or has a successful career, see how well he treats you and then you'll be wondering why you even tripped over this guy.

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    Default Re: When to walk away

    Oh yeah for sure don’t be jealous. One woman’s trash is another woman’s treasure.

    The answer is logic, but when we are in love we seriously can not think straight- the rational part of our brain shuts down.
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