I worked with a woman who was great at this! This was how she made her money, no matter how slow it was.
Looking for your tips and techniques!! Things I’ve noticed :
Whispering in the ear (flirty, sexual stuff and compliments) especially during dances
Brushing softly against them with long nails /hair curtains (kind of like ASMR) especially around the ears/back of head/inner leg/neck/chest. Basically super sensitive sensual areas (no, not groin grabs lol)
Wearing light but delicious perfume that they can only smell when they get up close (I like having a specific kind they can associate me with..scent is the single strongest memory trigger)
Moving suuuper slow and deliberate during dances..I used to just go hog-wild with the energy/grinding/crazy tricks and while that did work to some degree, I think building up anticipation and making sure they feel every little wiggle and movement will let me stack dances quicker.
Pretending you’re actually enjoying the dance as much as they are, making them believe that will make you big $$
I watch the Russian girl’s asmr videos (gentle whispers or something on YouTube) and something about her voice makes you feel intoxicated , still trying to figure out what it is



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