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    I worked with a woman who was great at this! This was how she made her money, no matter how slow it was.
    Looking for your tips and techniques!! Things I’ve noticed :

    Whispering in the ear (flirty, sexual stuff and compliments) especially during dances

    Brushing softly against them with long nails /hair curtains (kind of like ASMR) especially around the ears/back of head/inner leg/neck/chest. Basically super sensitive sensual areas (no, not groin grabs lol)

    Wearing light but delicious perfume that they can only smell when they get up close (I like having a specific kind they can associate me with..scent is the single strongest memory trigger)

    Moving suuuper slow and deliberate during dances..I used to just go hog-wild with the energy/grinding/crazy tricks and while that did work to some degree, I think building up anticipation and making sure they feel every little wiggle and movement will let me stack dances quicker.

    Pretending you’re actually enjoying the dance as much as they are, making them believe that will make you big $$

    I watch the Russian girl’s asmr videos (gentle whispers or something on YouTube) and something about her voice makes you feel intoxicated , still trying to figure out what it is
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    My standby for trancing out customers was good old booze lol.

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    idk, i think for those girls it just comes naturally. you can learn a few tips and tricks but some girls just naturally have something about them that draws people in like the girl with the soothing voice. i don't think i have that quality but i wish i did!

    i use pheromone perfume but i don't think it does what it claims, just smells nice without being too harsh. there's really no magic secret to making men want you cuz every guy is different

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    The girl (stripper I was referencing) wasn’t even “classically” attractive or very charming either, no real charisma she just got up real close so I figure if she can do it anybody can ! or maybe I’m being naive and she offered a little more than the rest of us did LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by We had a rabbit like you View Post
    The girl (stripper I was referencing) wasn’t even “classically” attractive or very charming either, no real charisma she just got up real close so I figure if she can do it anybody can ! or maybe I’m being naive and she offered a little more than the rest of us did LOL
    not surprised, it's never the super hot ones. i know a few average looking girls who always gets hit on and constantly have guys buying them stuff like dinners and drinks and rides and money and gifts. they don't even have to sleep with them i don't get it. that girl probably isn't even giving extras i swear some chicks are just blessed with some kinda pussy power magic lol

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    I do this. Move slow, talk slow, all of that. But trust is #1. Do not invade their personal space without asking, speak quietly do they have to strain to hear you, do not rush them, make them ask you for a dance. This type of hustle is literally the opposite of what hustle hut will tell you to do. It's not for everyone. It's pretty niche. You have to have the personality to pull it off. You can't doubt your worth or change course at any point or the spell will be broken. Learned this strategy from a girl who was so relaxed I saw her take a nap in a customers lap in a champagne room and he was thrilled she was so comfortable with him and still tipped! She taught me her tricks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Girl Anachronism View Post
    not surprised, it's never the super hot ones. i know a few average looking girls who always gets hit on and constantly have guys buying them stuff like dinners and drinks and rides and money and gifts. they don't even have to sleep with them i don't get it. that girl probably isn't even giving extras i swear some chicks are just blessed with some kinda pussy power magic lol
    I think it's pheromones + body language.

    I've known really hot girls who didn't excel as dancers because of AWFUL personalities & then known "butterface" strippers who bank all the time because they are way focused at work & have their own "mojo" for lack of a better term.

    (It works for guys too, I've known dudes who aren't male-model hot but do get laid a lot because they have charismatic personalities.)

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    Well when you think about it, in the dance area we ALL put customers in some kind of trance (if you’re at all successful) where we get them thinking with their little heads vs big ones, and they just can’t say no cause they’re entranced and horned up.
    I’m definitely still planning on being aggressive w sales and all that, just in a different way

    I guess I’m more talking about getting them in a state where , instead of giving it all away in the first dance and making their laps sore w grinding, I do small, light (but super sensual) touch so it’s more intense and it creates anticipation and I keep upping it after every dance ..

    Idk, for me if somebody touches me in a light way that gives me goosebumps, I’m putty in their hands..light slow touch where you feel every little thing more gets me way more hot ...so I figure I can’t be the only one!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by vanessa_mtl View Post
    I do this. Move slow, talk slow, all of that. But trust is #1. Do not invade their personal space without asking, speak quietly do they have to strain to hear you, do not rush them, make them ask you for a dance. This type of hustle is literally the opposite of what hustle hut will tell you to do. It's not for everyone. It's pretty niche. You have to have the personality to pull it off. You can't doubt your worth or change course at any point or the spell will be broken. Learned this strategy from a girl who was so relaxed I saw her take a nap in a customers lap in a champagne room and he was thrilled she was so comfortable with him and still tipped! She taught me her tricks.
    I think the key here is that it makes you look more valuable to the customers. You're not "giving it all away" like the other girls are. You're classy, you leave something to be desired, and they have to work harder to earn your sexiness. It makes them feel special.

    I'm not stripping anymore, but the sexy whispers and slow moves worked for me. The ASMR stuff is so true -- you can give them tingles/get the "feel good" chemicals going in their bodies by lightly touching them, stroking their hair, etc. I'm a quiet introvert, so it's an extension of my personality, not really an act.

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    How do you maintain the classy and reserved personal without looking stuck up? Genuinely curious, my dancer persona is pretty girl next door.

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    I say this all the time and yet the girls who take my advice are few and far between. when you treat every customer like he's a VIP customer then eventually you end up with VIP customers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misskelley View Post
    how do you maintain the classy and reserved personal without looking stuck up? Genuinely curious, my dancer persona is pretty girl next door.
    you SMILE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Litch View Post
    you SMILE.
    Yup. Smile and make small talk. Draw attention to your assets by playing with bra strap, touching stomach. Innocently drawing there attention where you want it. I do not ask them for a dance. If I sense they're not ready I'll say I'm going to check in with the DJ maybe I'll see you later. If they want you they will say no don't go or come right back. If you're an extrovert this hustle makes no sense! You can't be naturally loud and make this work. But it's not just for butterfaces either. Ten years as a stripper I've worked everywhere and never not been hired by a club so I'm obviously not ugly LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by vanessa_mtl View Post
    Yup. Smile and make small talk. Draw attention to your assets by playing with bra strap, touching stomach. Innocently drawing there attention where you want it. I do not ask them for a dance. If I sense they're not ready I'll say I'm going to check in with the DJ maybe I'll see you later. If they want you they will say no don't go or come right back. If you're an extrovert this hustle makes no sense! You can't be naturally loud and make this work. But it's not just for butterfaces either. Ten years as a stripper I've worked everywhere and never not been hired by a club so I'm obviously not ugly LOL
    i def like this ! Great advice sometime I have a hard time with staying attached but lately I been putting myself in the vortex and I love everyone lol I just smile and nod like everything he say is right lol

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    I’ve found that when I’m sitting on their lap, I arch my back and reach around w my hand to the back of their neck and run my fingers up their scalp slowly and be kinda breathy-voiced lol..seems to work pretty well. Trying to offer an experience to kinda set my dances apart (the norm is hard-grinding-bouncing-on-your-dick stuff at my club from what I see)

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    This is my exact hustle! I learned from a girl who was ALWAYS in VIP, always selling dances, always in demand. Like the club could have four customers and ten girls and she'd have three of the customers waiting their turn to go back with her. I asked her one day for advice and she told me to flirt with them. And it was that simple, it all clicked. Before, I'd always be focused on how much I could make from a guy. Now, my concern is to get him to fall in love with me. My last shift, I had three customers wanting to take me to our most expensive VIP whereas before, I almost never sold rooms.

    Pretty much, I create an 'experience' that men can't get enough of. I wear a blend of scents so no one else ever smells like me. I talk low so men have to lean in to hear me. I sashay on stage and saunter around the club like I'm looking for the lucky boy that gets to spend on me tonight. I hardly even dance on stage but I routinely make stage money at a club that's not stage-focused. Men LOVE to spend on me. I've had men in the back for three hours who seem sad when the night is over and they have to leave me. I've had men pay the hour price (our priciest VIP room doesn't book by half-hours) at the end of the night when there's 20 minutes left just to spend that last little bit of time with me. I get crazy tips. I'm always making money now, even when the club is slow. Men clamor to give me money and I almost always have my pick of who I'd like to give me money.

    I also don't really keep regulars as I find them time consuming and emotionally draining. I work at an "upscale" club which definitely plays into this kind of hustle.

    The key things I think are:

    Eye contact. Cannot stress this enough, it is how I make my money. Look at him. Be expressive. Make him feel like he is the only person in the world with the way you look at him.

    Smile. Men get lost in a pretty woman's smile. Use this.

    Connection. This is the "trance" part. Think of the nights you made the most off of a single customer. He probably seemed hooked on you, right? And that likely changed how you acted toward him thus keeping him in this "trance". How can you re-create that with other customers?

    Dance slowly. Be a seductress. Have fun on stage and during your dances. When you dance with him, sometimes seem like you're holding yourself back. Like being with him is taking you out of your element and you have to stop yourself from going further.

    Talk without talking. I don't reveal too much about myself and I'm always shifting the conversation back to them. Make whatever they're talking about seem like you're genuinely interested, and very impressed but do not overdo it bc men can smell insincerity a mile away (especially insecure men).

    Make them feel like the man. Give them what no woman has ever given to them before which is utter adoration. I don't mean just stroke his ego. I mean make him feel like king of the universe. Do this and he will give you every dollar he can and be happy to do it.


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    Quote Originally Posted by babypoledancer View Post
    This is my exact hustle! I learned from a girl who was ALWAYS in VIP, always selling dances, always in demand. Like the club could have four customers and ten girls and she'd have three of the customers waiting their turn to go back with her. I asked her one day for advice and she told me to flirt with them. And it was that simple, it all clicked. Before, I'd always be focused on how much I could make from a guy. Now, my concern is to get him to fall in love with me. My last shift, I had three customers wanting to take me to our most expensive VIP whereas before, I almost never sold rooms.

    Pretty much, I create an 'experience' that men can't get enough of. I wear a blend of scents so no one else ever smells like me. I talk low so men have to lean in to hear me. I sashay on stage and saunter around the club like I'm looking for the lucky boy that gets to spend on me tonight. I hardly even dance on stage but I routinely make stage money at a club that's not stage-focused. Men LOVE to spend on me. I've had men in the back for three hours who seem sad when the night is over and they have to leave me. I've had men pay the hour price (our priciest VIP room doesn't book by half-hours) at the end of the night when there's 20 minutes left just to spend that last little bit of time with me. I get crazy tips. I'm always making money now, even when the club is slow. Men clamor to give me money and I almost always have my pick of who I'd like to give me money.

    I also don't really keep regulars as I find them time consuming and emotionally draining. I work at an "upscale" club which definitely plays into this kind of hustle.

    The key things I think are:

    Eye contact. Cannot stress this enough, it is how I make my money. Look at him. Be expressive. Make him feel like he is the only person in the world with the way you look at him.

    Smile. Men get lost in a pretty woman's smile. Use this.

    Connection. This is the "trance" part. Think of the nights you made the most off of a single customer. He probably seemed hooked on you, right? And that likely changed how you acted toward him thus keeping him in this "trance". How can you re-create that with other customers?

    Dance slowly. Be a seductress. Have fun on stage and during your dances. When you dance with him, sometimes seem like you're holding yourself back. Like being with him is taking you out of your element and you have to stop yourself from going further.

    Talk without talking. I don't reveal too much about myself and I'm always shifting the conversation back to them. Make whatever they're talking about seem like you're genuinely interested, and very impressed but do not overdo it bc men can smell insincerity a mile away (especially insecure men).

    Make them feel like the man. Give them what no woman has ever given to them before which is utter adoration. I don't mean just stroke his ego. I mean make him feel like king of the universe. Do this and he will give you every dollar he can and be happy to do it.
    Thanks!!
    Great advice.

    Thanks to all the other posters too, I wish I could “like” these but my iPod won’t let me after this weird update ugh.

    How do you deal w/ possible time wasters w/ this hustle ? Be polite but direct? Excuse yourself if he doesn’t want a dance or vip within a certain allotted time?

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    ^^ you are letting him lead... so this is tricky, you basically need to be intuitive or cultivate intuition. If he is a balls out controlling talker who I think is just trying to monopolize my time and attention and I don't like him, I just leave. Excuse me I have to go check in with DJ/ my boss/ etc... if they want you they'll come find you. Sometimes not asking makes them want you. You're hard to get. If after two or three songs I don't feel I've hooked his attention and he's following my gestures asking questions, then I usually will just make an excuse and leave. I also always only offer blocks if time by 15 minutes. So it's usually worth 1 or 2 songs of hustle time

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    ^^^ also if I sense they like me but they're super awkward/ not ready/ need a drink first... then I say, have a really great time tonight and walk off... usually after 30 seconds to two minutes. Then 15 minutes later or even after they've had a VIP with a dancer who's not as trance enducing as I am, then I pounce. Smiling shyly, are you ready for me? Very often it's a yes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by We had a rabbit like you View Post
    Thanks!!
    Great advice.

    Thanks to all the other posters too, I wish I could “like” these but my iPod won’t let me after this weird update ugh.

    How do you deal w/ possible time wasters w/ this hustle ? Be polite but direct? Excuse yourself if he doesn’t want a dance or vip within a certain allotted time?
    With time wasters, I pull myself away from them. Get a little less kind, stop looking at them so adoringly. Get a little cold, so they can sort of feel that the fact that they are not giving me money is why they will not get my time. The key here is to always make sure that you are projecting that your time is worth money. And leave quickly once you know you're not getting the sale. Doing this sometimes makes them spend immediately, sometimes they'll find you later and do a room or dances or tip just to be around you more.

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    ^ yes! Last week I has this douche nozzle playing games with me, so whenever he was like "well, idk if I want a dance like NOW" I said "ok!" Sweetly and sat down and started looking st my phone. He got butt hurt so I just went "I'm just giving you time to decide what you want, you let me know when you're ready" and went to another customer. I remained super sweet but firm.
    He ended up getting a VIP within 10 minutes, I was actually shocked, because at first he was showing all the signs of being a time wasting fuckboy
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    ^ yes! Last week I has this douche nozzle playing games with me, so whenever he was like "well, idk if I want a dance like NOW" I said "ok!" Sweetly and sat down and started looking st my phone. He got butt hurt so I just went "I'm just giving you time to decide what you want, you let me know when you're ready" and went to another customer. I remained super sweet but firm.
    He ended up getting a VIP within 10 minutes, I was actually shocked, because at first he was showing all the signs of being a time wasting fuckboy
    Yeah...I've seen a lot of guys get "compensation dances" if they feel self-conscious. It did hurt my feelings as a dancer because I wondered if they even liked me on any level, but....I got paid so the sting went away.

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