Sorry for the silly title but "Help me be a better custie" was so boring. I don't really think I'm any of those things, though I'm sure some of the girls at my spot think I'm a time waster. I've been reading a ton here and learning a lot since stumbling upon this site a few weeks ago. In reality I think I was already a good custie, and now I've learned so much here I think I'm ready to take it to the next level. Still, I did some dumb (unintentional) shit on my last SC get away, so why not ask the pros for a checkup and tips.
Long story short I work 70 hours a week Mar-Dec (no SC, no drinking) so I can take Jan/Feb off. I meet some old friends in S FLA every Jan and sun my buns and just have a great time relaxing and partying. When that's done I sneak off to Key West for my secret week as a total SC degenerate, and I ++++ing love it!
I love the girls, period. I respect them, I respect the hustle and enjoy watching it unfold all around the club. I'm not looking for free sex, paid sex, a GF, a wife. I leave my sweat pants at home, they're not even in the state! I don't do many dances because that's not my thing as much as partying or hanging out with my group of girls. I buy a ton of drinks and tip the stage ALL NIGHT, over and over, some rain, sometimes just a few bucks, but always tipping. My last time in town I'd guess I probably threw more on the stage than anyone else every night.
So those are the pros, here's some (potential) cons:
I'm not a rich guy, I bring $500-$700 a night and usually leave with 0, but like I said I party and love to throw it on my favorite girls on stage. I only do 2 or 3 LD's a night.
I did some silly stuff: I was watching a couple seats at the bar when a girl I was just talking to got on stage. Zero chance I wasn't gonna tip her, balled up a few ones and tossed em', opps, she kinda flipped out and threw em' back. She was really cool in general and told me later she was just playing, but no, she was super pissed, anyways we made up.
I maybe later'd probably 500 times, opps. had no idea how annoying and cliche that was. I did tell a lot of girls no thanks when I was sure, but frankly I probably could have maybe later'd 100 times, and busted out the no thanks 400 more times. One girl I liked but wasn't really a part of my core group, and tipped regularly, and even got one LD from a couple days earlier I must've ML'd 50 times throughout the week. She kinda snapped on me my last night. So it dawned on me before even reading here what a dick move that was. So now I know, but.... What about when maybe later actually applies? 1 girl I ML'd a few times my first couple days turned out to be my favorite chick to hang out with.
This I'm not sure on; When a couple of my fav's were on stage I'd drop everything and pull up to the rail, obviously tipping a lot, but looking back it kinda feels like I was a puppy following them around. Jesus, this isn't PL is it? lol. More importantly this couldn't be bad for business for them, could it? They didn't seem to mind one bit fwiw.
One thing I'm confused about; There was a lot of playful sweet talk going back and forth all night, but none of my main girls tried to hustle me. There wasn't many dances, and most that did happen were initiated by me. I didn't understand it at the time, and even less so now after hours of reading the hustle hut (love the HH btw, great sub forum). I know it's not because they all wanted to be my GF and sex me nonstop OTC, lol. Was I just a wise cracking, drink buying gentlemanly safe port in a storm of ****ing pigs? Anyway, no one got rich off me but I think we had a good time and I certainly upped a few hourly rates.
ugh, this got really long and rambly, apologies, just trying to paint a picture.
Interested in any feedback or tips before my next adventure.



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