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    Duh Dealing with a intimidating stripper

    I’m at a new club about 2 months and this one girl I don’t have time for her 1 because she is loud and thinks she is superior to everyone and 2 she’s constantly off her head on coke. She stares at me in the changing room and when I look back she doesn’t brake the stare she’ll come over and tell me to sit a certain way and then walk off with a sly smile. Whenever I’m in the dressing room her and her friend do be giggling in their own language and looking over at me while I’m doing my makeup and it makes me feel very uncomfortable. I’m so tempted to just record them and google translate it so I can tell her to fuck off. She stares at a lot of the new girls too and they told me because I’m the new girl not to say anything to her but I swear if I catch her staring I’m gonna lose my shit. It’s not that she stares it’s how she does it even out on the floor I catch her staring with a nasty grin on her face and it’s just weird. Regardless of who’s doing stripping longer or who’s there the longest this attitude what is the point of it next time she does it I feel like saying your always staring at me would you like me to help you with your makeup as you could use a few tips I cannot stand her I feel like punching her in the face. What is her problem? What’s with the bossy attitude and intimidating stares?

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    She's a loser. She should be focusing on herself and the customers.

    Just pass her by like if she were a fly on the wall. Not important.

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    ah man.. there are bitches like this in every club! they have always existed and will continue to exist. trust me i’ve met many myself! learn how to deal with them because they will never change.

    firstly the fact that she is so focused on you says a lot about her - if you were happy and confident with yourself surely you would just be coming to work and focusing on your hustle whilst treating others with kindness and respect. imagine what kind of things go through her head that she feels the need to act like this??

    i recommend the ‘grey rock’ method - google it.

    good luck! keep yourself looking good, feeling happy and making money. oh, and NEVER give her the satisfaction of watching you get sacked for hitting her!


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    She is jealous. That's the reason why she feels the need to act intimidating. She should be focused more on customers and making money, not petty shit with other dancers. I know her behavior makes you mad, but don't let her see that she's affecting you in any way. Bitches like that thrive on making others feel miserable because they feel low themselves. Just pretend that she's not there. She'll eventually get bored and move on to another dancer who will give her the attention, reaction, and drama that she seeks.

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    Cokeheads....lol, next time she walks up stare at her face & start rubbing one of your nostrils with no expression on your face.

    Important side note- it's never worth physically fighting with someone like this because they might have diseases from prolonged drug use. Not worth risking exposure to whatever they might have....

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    IGNORE!!! Fuck her!
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    Lol...how sad for her! Ignore her. Make money.

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    Ignore her - she's a distraction. If she's not instigating drama with you, it will soon be someone else. Stay out of the dressing room in general. There's no money to be made in there, just bitchy complaining girls.

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    Admittedly, I'm one of the intimidating ones at my club, but if I fuck with someone, it's because of their repeated shitty behavior. At the same time, the decent managers send the promising newbies over to me for advice so... I have a weird reputation.

    She's obviously getting off on the reaction she gets from you. She knows that she's getting to you and enjoys it. Pretty standard bullying behavior. Also, long term stimulant abusers often don't have a normal thought process so... Who knows what's going on in her head. It's not worth trying to figure out why.

    Don't let her get to you, as hard as that may be. Ignore her, try to stay away from her as much as possible. Consider doing your makeup at home, so you don't have to spend so much time around her to get ready. If she's not getting a reaction from you, she'll move on to someone else.

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    Fighting her effectively means ignore AND be happy. The more you stay in your emotional happy place, the less she has to react to. We already know she's a social disaster since she's using these Middle School bully tactics. Fight her by showing her she has NO impact. Grey Rock knocks them out every time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kirakonstantin View Post
    Admittedly, I'm one of the intimidating ones at my club, but if I fuck with someone, it's because of their repeated shitty behavior. At the same time, the decent managers send the promising newbies over to me for advice so... I have a weird reputation.

    She's obviously getting off on the reaction she gets from you. She knows that she's getting to you and enjoys it. Pretty standard bullying behavior. Also, long term stimulant abusers often don't have a normal thought process so... Who knows what's going on in her head. It's not worth trying to figure out why.

    Don't let her get to you, as hard as that may be. Ignore her, try to stay away from her as much as possible. Consider doing your makeup at home, so you don't have to spend so much time around her to get ready. If she's not getting a reaction from you, she'll move on to someone else.
    Nice to see you back on here!


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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Nice to see you back on here!
    Stripper Web rocks when I have a strong need to procrastinate, LOL.

    In reality, I've been so busy I rarely have the ability to sleep as much as I should, much less do anything non productive. The charmed life of a college student...

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