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    Hey guysssssssssssss so its me nostalgie again and im back so i started dancing almost a year ago and ive been working at this one club my home club in NEPA region and i used to make on avg 700-1000 every week almost which is not bad i guess but i ended up getting fired from there so now ive been venturing out (i have before not starting now) to different clubs and nothings really working for me plus my self esteem issues are just causing me to think while im on stage nobody likes me or thinks i look good and it makes my performance lack interest. so for the past month ive been making almost no money and ive honestly been going to jersey because im tired of the clubs in pa are just not bringing the money that i need and jersey kind of sucks as well and i dont really have the hustle or dance skills or body for black clubs where they throw alot of money (im black slim big tits big ass for my size) for some reason black guys dont give u money if they dont like you and i hate the rejection aspect of it but its basically the whole job i guess. and im having trouble finding mixed clubs cause my customers are mostly white men anyway but honestly im trying to move really soon and i barely have any money saved up and i have to keep going around to try and find another home club ive thought about traveling to miami or atlanta to work but itll just be a big investment for lodging travel and food and im scared what if i dont even make any money then it was all a waste any mixed clubs in jersey/philly area that are doing good? I just feel like im looking for a needle in a hay stack im so tired of seeing people who are in the same field as me bringing home garbage bags of money meanwhile im struggling to make 50$ after house fee. even if i wanted to work at one of those booty shaking stage money clubs i wouldnt make any money because my stage dancing aint even that good smh anyone else experiencing a burn out

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    Default Re: No longer making money getting burnt out

    Miami is not known to be good. Can you try Pittsburgh, have heard good things about blush. You can also just go ask for your job back. That often works. Try meditation, affirmations, going to work already made up and psychologically ready.

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    Give Pittsburgh a shot? I’ve always done decent there and the baseball season is starting plus the Pens are in the play offs. I think this is the start of their busier season but it’s the busiest in the fall once the Steelers start playing.

    The club is a white club but has girls of all ethnicities, shapes and sizes. You don’t need to be good on stage. There’s champagne rooms and a pretty popular 3 for 79 deal (you keep 50).

    I’ve also heard Cheerleaders in Pitt is decent and there’s a new club in town as well.

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    With all due respect it sounds like you are lacking confidence. I live in Florida (and there is plenty of money in Miami) and when I started I was 5'9 145 pounds and my main club was in cocoa beach Florida called the inner room. Im not the best dancer and I didn't know too many pole tricks. Sometimes I got on stage and literally walked around the pole my whole set! I got off staged walked around like I was Naomi Campbell and smiled at customers and they never cared about what I did on the stage they like my confidence and smile. I was making an average of $600 to $700 a night as a clueless beginner and this was a mixed club. Ive also worked at An black club in Miami called the office and I was 120 lbs I had lost weight and felt self conscious and never showed it I exuded confidence had some drinks and danced all night on the floor while money got thrown on me in a club where most women are super thick with fake butts Lil old me was able to work the room. Two kids later at 169 pounds I'm ready to get back out there with the same niaomi Campbell walk. See its 30% looks 20% dance and 50% confidence!

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    You need to work on your self esteem, that is why you are burned out. Take some time off and work on yourself and your attitude about yourself

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