I feel like whenever I’m totally chill and “whatever, I have $ in the bank” and I’m just kinda sitting there serenely staring off into space, dudes will be flocking asking for dances and I don’t even need to hustle...
But when I’m in “I need money and I need to hustle and be super sexy and aggressive, approach everyone and go in for the kill!!” mode and utilize every trick I’ve learned it’s like pulling teeth!!
Almost like confident ice-princess where I give off the vibe “I know I’m hot , I dont need to beg for your attention, Someone else will be along” but nicer seems to work. Idk, I don’t feel like I come off desperate on the nights when I’m very “pro-active” but maybe I do?? Or is it that guys don’t wanna feel hustled and pressured (even though they in a stripclub, duh) or they feel like I don’t have an aloof air of mystery when I’m all up in their space?
Does this happen to anyone else?



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