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    Last time I was at work, I had a conversation with this guy who really seemed to be enjoying my company and complimenting my appearance, so when I tried to close the dance he told me I was "too innocent looking" but proceeded to tip me for the conversation. Later on that night I saw him to get a dance with another girl. I wasn't mad about it but it had me thinking if I do come off as too innocent. I've noticed a lot of men tell me that after conversations with me that they think I'm down to earth which I take as a compliment, but being down to earth isn't going to cut it. I've met so many girls who keep giving me tips on hustling (I haven't been dancing for a full month yet) but I can't seem to secure the bag like they do. I've tried the law of attraction but it doesn't seem to be working for me..

    I think the guy had a point - I think I do come off as too innocent. I want to come off as sexy but I don't know if I'm just not aggressive enough or what.

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    I have this problem too even at almost 30 with big fake boobs. If I talk to customers too long they start to see me as a nice, smart girl who’s girlfriend material at best. This will occasionally work for me but most of the time it doesn’t get the penis going and therefore I don’t get dances. I find that talking as little as possible and hanging out with them as short as possible was the easiest/fastest way for me to not pigeonhole myself.

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    ^^

    I agree keeping the convo short helps, unless you've identified him as the type of client who is looking for nice sweet innocent girl to chat with. In clubs that push long vip options sometimes the less overtly dirty sale works better.

    Also having a couple of canned dirty lines to pop into the convo really helps, i.e. when custies compliment your outfit- "Thanks it looks even better on the floor" has helped me out a lot of times.

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    The verbal ways of setting the tone have already been mentioned but there is also body language. How would you act around a guy you actually were attracted to on a date and wanted to fuck? Use that type of body language.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Layla.00 View Post
    I have this problem too even at almost 30 with big fake boobs. If I talk to customers too long they start to see me as a nice, smart girl who’s girlfriend material at best. This will occasionally work for me but most of the time it doesn’t get the penis going and therefore I don’t get dances. I find that talking as little as possible and hanging out with them as short as possible was the easiest/fastest way for me to not pigeonhole myself.
    being "girlfriend material" isn't a bad thing. the big spenders usually want a girlfriend experience. IMO being a little more reserved is a good thing. if your club offers high cost champagne rooms I would tell customers that you only get naughty in private. the girls that act wild and overly sexual will get tons of lap dances but I'd rather be up in VIP than hopping from lap to lap getting groped by 20 random guys. Maybe you need to just look for better clientele. a lot of guys tell you that you look "too innocent" meaning they're looking for the girl who gives the most mileage for the least amount of cash.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Litch View Post
    being "girlfriend material" isn't a bad thing. the big spenders usually want a girlfriend experience. IMO being a little more reserved is a good thing. if your club offers high cost champagne rooms I would tell customers that you only get naughty in private. the girls that act wild and overly sexual will get tons of lap dances but I'd rather be up in VIP than hopping from lap to lap getting groped by 20 random guys. Maybe you need to just look for better clientele. a lot of guys tell you that you look "too innocent" meaning they're looking for the girl who gives the most mileage for the least amount of cash.

    Nah ... I have no interest in being their girlfriend even for the night. I like being so unattainable that they have to pay me to sit/talk/look at them. Once I get into the girlfriend zone, they ask for my number, want to go on a date, waste my timeblah blah. Basically they don’t want to treat me like a “stripper”, another way of saying they don’t want to pay me.

    I think a veteran stripper can play this game to her advantage but generally speaking for new girls it just means you get taken advantage of. I work in a club full of pros and only a few girls can get away with this and still make bank.

    I should add that I think the GFE hustle is different than just being seen as a potential girlfriend vs an unattainable stripper.
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    Ugh I feel this hardcore. I've always looked innocent like milkmaid Debby from the Midwest and I get nervous and "frienzone" myself by being too real and down to earth.

    I've found talking less and perfecting the body language and looks you give them was the answer for me..no overtly sexy talk that I'm bad at, but no "wow what's up w the patriots this season, huh?" Talk either. Plus it takes less time.
    "Adjusting" my bra , playing w my hair, lightly touching them, giving them bedroom eyes and looking at their eyes..then mouth..then eyes and then down coyly..letting them do the talking, and not saying much. Most ppl wanna talk about themselves anyways. Remaining more of a mystery.
    I've done business with men who think I'm as silly as I look; by the time they figure out I'm not, I've done got the money and gone -Dolly Parton

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    Quote Originally Posted by Layla.00 View Post
    I have this problem too even at almost 30 with big fake boobs. If I talk to customers too long they start to see me as a nice, smart girl who’s girlfriend material at best. This will occasionally work for me but most of the time it doesn’t get the penis going and therefore I don’t get dances. I find that talking as little as possible and hanging out with them as short as possible was the easiest/fastest way for me to not pigeonhole myself.
    yup, avoid talking about anything personal or make your background story 'train wreck stripper' so that they won't wanna date you. they will still buy from you. trust me. i learned that over the years.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Layla.00 View Post
    Nah ... I have no interest in being their girlfriend even for the night. I like being so unattainable that they have to pay me to sit/talk/look at them. Once I get into the girlfriend zone, they ask for my number, want to go on a date, waste my timeblah blah. Basically they don’t want to treat me like a “stripper”, another way of saying they don’t want to pay me.

    I think a veteran stripper can play this game to her advantage but generally speaking for new girls it just means you get taken advantage of. I work in a club full of pros and only a few girls can get away with this and still make bank.

    I should add that I think the GFE hustle is different than just being seen as a potential girlfriend vs an unattainable stripper.
    well the problem with the GFE hustle is that it takes a bit of fishing before you get a bite but once you get a guy who *gets* it you're set for months possibly even years. you're right though it's definitely more of a veteran dancer hustle and you need a TON of patience.

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