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    So I follow this Instagram account called dancer locker room or something like that. And I noticed a lot of fights being posted. Is this common? I’m a newbie and def not a fighter, but is this something that eventually happens at least once even if you don’t intentionally start any drama? Any tips on how to avoid it? Have any of y’all never got in a fight a throughout your dancing career? And for those of you that have was it something petty like you put your bag at a certain spot where a girl always puts her stuff at or was it something more serious like money? I get locker room drama, but don’t know what would cause it to be physical Causing both of y’all to be fired or mess up your face and body which is the money maker !!

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    Mind your own business and most likely no one will start a fight. Don’t talk about or vent to any of your coworkers at first.

    Also, don’t work at clubs that enable it. I had a club where the owner encouraged it. No longer work there of course.

    When they try to start a fight or get triggered, I ignore them and go back to work. I’ve hand a handful of girls apologize afterwards. I forgive them, but I don’t forget. I don’t talk to a girls that easily get triggered. They are never worth losing your job over or having medical and legal troubles.
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    Those accounts are like reality TV, they play it up for likes & shares.... As long as I've been dancing, I've never seen a full-on locker room fist fight. There's the occasional couple of girls yelling at each other or just yelling in general cause they're mad at a customer or manager, but yeah.

    Keep your head down & mind your business and you'll never have to worry about it.
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    From my own hard earned life experience- avoid any stripper who thinks she wants to fight in the dressing room or even out on the floor. Usually people that stupid won't have money to pay your medical bill if they actually wound you in a fight. Of course the club will insist you deal with the matter yourself so they have no liability. The lawyer wisdom for these situations is "you can't take anything from someone who has nothing to take."

    Just my opinion but a lot of the World Star Hip Hop type of dressing room fights feature women who have been scrapping since they were little (bad neighborhoods) so they naturally have no self control.

    Exotic dancing is an OCCUPATION! You get into it to elevate your status in life, not to be like the Cash Me Outside Girl.

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    I've seen way more girls sobbing in locker rooms being consoled by dancers they barely know than I have fights.

    If you go looking for drama, it will find you wherever you go.

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