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    Does anybody have tips on how to ‘have’ sexual energy?
    I’m asexual and thinking about stripping soon, but my bf says he doesnt feel any sexual energy from me. I’ve tried dancing for him before and even though he enjoyed it, he says the vibe was different from when we got dances at a club.

    Is it possible to ‘fake’ sexual energy? I’m assuming there are a ton of asexual or lesbian strippers who really don’t want to have sex with the customer but can still make them feel like they do.

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    Default Re: lack of sexual energy

    That’s an odd thing for your boyfriend to say. You don’t give dances like the girls in the club more likely because they are at work and probably aren’t new to dancing but you can practice. I’m neither asexual or a lesbian and I don’t want to have sex with any of the customers. If you really feel you want to work on something do some research on seduction.

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    i don't think it's good to read much into your boyfriend's opinion... he knows you too well. it's hard to put on in act for someone who knows the real you cuz of course they will be aware of how fake it is.

    it'll be much easier to convince random guys who have never met you that you're really a sexual person. i've given my boyfriend a lapdance too and shown/told him things i do and say to customers and he thinks it's stupid and funny and it just makes him laugh because he KNOWS how fake it is. he knows i would never say or do those things normally so it sound weird to him and doesn't feel authentic at all. but the customers don't know that so it doesn't sound weird to them, and doesn't come across as super fake. i think you should just ignore your boyfriend's opinion and go for it if you really want to do it.

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