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    Dizzy Would You Get A Vasectomy........

    Men, I am curious as to would you get a vasectomy for your wife?

    What do you think about vasectomies?

    Like if you are married and the decision is made not to have biological kids with each other - how do you decide who will remove their reproductive organs?

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    Definitely. I'm done having kids after just the one and don't want to take any chances in the future, so yah absolutely. I'm all for it.

    As for who should get it done, man or woman, I think that's a personal choice. I'm looking at getting a divorce soon, but don't want anymore kids in the future, so for me it makes sense to do it.

    Other times, the woman may want to. I haven't seen that as often though.

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    Default Re: Would You Get A Vasectomy........

    Just put in a valve.


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    Boyfriend has had a vasectomy since the mid 1980s. One of the smartest moves he ever made.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Titus23 View Post
    Definitely. I'm done having kids after just the one and don't want to take any chances in the future, so yah absolutely. I'm all for it.

    As for who should get it done, man or woman, I think that's a personal choice. I'm looking at getting a divorce soon, but don't want anymore kids in the future, so for me it makes sense to do it.

    Other times, the woman may want to. I haven't seen that as often though.
    Okay that's what I was wondering.

    All the ladies I've talked to, who decided they didn't want more kids, said their husbands got the vasectomies and in my head I'm like why didn't you get a hysterectomy? Or why didn't you both get snipped? But I guess it's probably more of a personal choice than I need to hear from people I have to look in the face all the time.

    Or maybe hysterectomy has more physical side effects than the man getting vasectomy? I think I've heard women getting severe hot flashes, mood swings, and dry pussy from lack of hormones caused by hysterectomy but idk how true this is? If thats the case though I could see women preferring to keep their reproductive organs and have the man get the vasectomy.

    In my mind, I am thinking like what if the couple decides not to have anymore kids but that relationship ends (divorce, death, etc) and the person gets into a new relationship and desires to have kids. But I guess once you know you don't want kids anymore - it doesn't matter if its with that person or a new partner - you just know for certain?

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    Quote Originally Posted by slowpoke View Post
    Just put in a valve.
    Hmmmm. I was like wth is a valve so I had to rely on ol' faithful google http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/ar...sh-button.html

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Okay that's what I was wondering.

    All the ladies I've talked to, who decided they didn't want more kids, said their husbands got the vasectomies and in my head I'm like why didn't you get a hysterectomy? Or why didn't you both get snipped? But I guess it's probably more of a personal choice than I need to hear from people I have to look in the face all the time.

    Or maybe hysterectomy has more physical side effects than the man getting vasectomy? I think I've heard women getting severe hot flashes, mood swings, and dry pussy from lack of hormones caused by hysterectomy but idk how true this is? If thats the case though I could see women preferring to keep their reproductive organs and have the man get the vasectomy.

    In my mind, I am thinking like what if the couple decides not to have anymore kids but that relationship ends (divorce, death, etc) and the person gets into a new relationship and desires to have kids. But I guess once you know you don't want kids anymore - it doesn't matter if its with that person or a new partner - you just know for certain?
    well a full hysterectomy is a much more serious and irreversible procedure. Lot's more downtime (which can be hard when a woman is attempting to care for young children) and yes you should be on hormones after. I forget if My grandma had a full or not but she had one in her 40's and was on hormones till she was in her mid 80s. I will probably be get an ablation here soon, basically removing all my lining so I wouldn't be able to carry a child but will need to still be on bc. I am finding it hard at my age to find drs to agree to the procedure it would be harder to find a Dr who will do a voluntary hysterectomy.

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    I've been reading up on the risks of vasectomy and it has kind of put me off the idea. There seems to be an increasing incidents of post vasectomy pain syndrome which is a debilitating chronic pain problem suffered by some men after vasectomy surgery. No one is entirely sure what causes it and the treatments used to combat it are very hit and miss. I would prefer to avoid surgical birth control methods for both me and my partner, I wouldn't want either of us to risk permanent complications and possible disability if there is a better way.

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    Honestly, I'd rather they finalize this damn pill they've been talking about for so long. I'll take a BC pill if it'll work. Why put the onus on the woman all the time?

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    I would get a vasectomy. Really, its a no brainer in a marriage. A hysterectomy is a much more invasive and serious operation. Vasectomy is pretty much painless and outpatient.

    It was uneccessary for us as my wife started menopause pretty early.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Or maybe hysterectomy has more physical side effects than the man getting vasectomy? I think I've heard women getting severe hot flashes, mood swings, and dry pussy from lack of hormones caused by hysterectomy but idk how true this is? If thats the case though I could see women preferring to keep their reproductive organs and have the man get the vasectomy.


    I'm not sure I've ever heard of a woman getting a full blown hysterectomy just to avoid pregnancy. If I'm not mistaken, it's a pretty drastic procedure usually reserved for women who are at risk for certain types of cancer. Every woman I've ever known who decided that she didn't want to risk another pregnancy just got her tubes tied.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post


    I'm not sure I've ever heard of a woman getting a full blown hysterectomy just to avoid pregnancy. If I'm not mistaken, it's a pretty drastic procedure usually reserved for women who are at risk for certain types of cancer. Every woman I've ever known who decided that she didn't want to risk another pregnancy just got her tubes tied.
    Agreed, a hysterectomy would be pretty drastic as a form of birth control. It would be the equivalent of a guy having both his testicles removed.

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    okay and one more question....

    What do you men think of vasectomies as it relates to ......... your manhood/your sexual performance?

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    okay and one more question....

    What do you men think of vasectomies as it relates to ......... your manhood/your sexual performance?
    Haven't had one myself, but I've never known anyone that had issues.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    okay and one more question....

    What do you men think of vasectomies as it relates to ......... your manhood/your sexual performance?
    For me, it would increase my desire to have sex - no complications with condoms, more spontaneous which I think is better for the fun, and it could eliminate possible legal situations with sketchy partners if any would exist. Of course I've never wanted to procreate, though I can see why people would
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