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    Hi all! So I am currently working a vanilla job, and, unfortunately, due to my mental health problems I have been fired from every job I have ever had. Yesterday I was just given a warning about my 9 month review. Shocker. Nothing I wasn't expecting. They are about to let me go, again. They cut my hours from 38 and 32 to 16 and 13 (they switch every week). My mental health and stress levels GREATLY affect my job performance, I'm embarrassed to admit. Now, I am 20 years old living with family and would like to have my first apartment. I am looking at an area in my region but out of state that has a subsidized apartment complex. Now, what I am thinking of doing is committing myself to 42 hours of total work, so if I am scheduled 16 I will cam 26 hours. I am going to use streamate as well as chaturbate. I applied to this apartment and spoke with a woman a bit ago, sent in my $25 application fee, and was told that I would have to already have an income to be accepted, but other than that she seemed to like me and there were no issues. She actually offered me a space immediately!!!!! Unfortunately, due to my poor performance, I spoke with my boss and am not allowed to transfer my job location, NOR is there even an opening. This basically is implying to me that, if I went out there, I would have to either stay with somebody, or just be homeless while looking for a job out there, and then even when I got a job STAY homeless until the apartment opens up a new vacancy. I do not know anybody out there who would be willing to take me in, but I do like the area as it is ABSOLUTELY perfect for my current situation, everything is walking distance (I don't drive) and yet there are a LOOOOT of stores, places, and things to do!!! Whaaaaa- perf! Rather than stay in an airbnb (my first concern on this is expense, my second is the privacy and secrecy of my camming), I was thinking I would rather start camming on CB and SM today, Call the people up and be like "Hey, I'm still on your waiting list, let me know IMMEDIATELY when there is an opening" and just go. But this poses the question: They are going to ask where I get my income from. I obviously don't want to say camming. ESPECIALLLLLY when I'm conventionally unattractive, oh no I'd be embarrassed. Then, of course, they are going to want to see my paystubs... and this is the part that scares me. I'm scared they will look at my paystubs and be confused and be suspicious of where they came from, and press and press. I will say I'm self employed. But when they ask "Ooh cool, what do you do for self employment?" What can I say? I obviously don't want to mention an actual company that actually exists, because I do not want them to check with the company themselves and find out that no such employee exists. I'm trying to wrap my head around how to explain my income without sounding fishy, scammy, like a kid, or like I don't know what I want. I'm sure other women have dealt with this as well, any tips would be great Also, I'm a bit nervous that camming may not make me an income, being as that I am bbw as well as conventionally unattractive, and I would have to cam with no sound on (since my family has no chill and will deadass give away my full legal name lol)

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    The thing is with having a mental illness and wanting to live a healthy life, you need to make sure you are in a place of "recovery" and have a support system to check in with. Then you add in your finances and even a support system around that as well. proper management of your mental health and also proper financial management. and from what I've been dealing with lately they go hand in hand. I am not worried about going out there finding a job. I've fully accepted my career and income will come from making money online and building a business for myself. It might not be the case for you but that is something you have to think about.

    Then your living situation. I live alone, sometimes I get family help but I dread doing it because of the dynamics in our relationship. so I am just putting myself in a place where I can only take care of myself . I lean on my health care professionals to check in with my mental and suggest treatment as needed. the more treatments they suggest when I need them and I follow them the more leverage I have to access community and government services.

    It becomes taking things day by day. but always making sure you have some thing coming to cover your financial health and also a system in place to keep your mental health in order. It actually works out on what you plan to do today and also thinking a little bit on what you plan for tomorrow. then gradually maybe for the week and I won't to more then planning one month ahead. The less big planning you do when you know you have mental health issues the easier it is on stress level.

    As for explaining your income, self employment/ consultant, sales, marketing. e-com business. even stocks and investments e-trading. You just need to make sure your income is in order, savings, and maybe your taxes. you could even go as far as getting a lawyer to help with an adfirdavit to help explain you are self employed. I learnt that trick from getting a new application for my building thinking my cousin wanted to appyl to move in.

    If you are not getting 1099s from the sites you work then you can easily make your own paystubs here https://www.thepaystubs.com I use to make them manually in excel.

    you just need to break down the plan. and when it comes to applying for apartment, credit. you just need to prove you have a decent balance in your bank account for the current month and sometimes 3 months in the past. and 3 months ahead in savings. Then your credit rating. and more and more people are freelancing and making money online. and are able to get the cars and houses.
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