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    Posted on here before about dating my stripper ex and your advice was amazing. She left the country for travels and wonít be coming back. I was down about it. So two weeks after we said goodbye. I decide to cheer up and go to a strip club.

    had a dance and stuff and bought some champagne and was with the girl for about two hours, really enjoying it. Then she said she wanted to come back to my place. I was shocked. But agreeed. She came back and we carried on drinking champagne and we were both dancing around naked. One of the best experiences of my life really.
    5:30am she said she had to leave, and I had work at 7:00am. She said she wanted to go out Saturday with me.
    got to work so tired, then messaged her with restaurant info and she liked it. After work I slept instantly. But she messaged me twice when I was asleep, then again five hours later asking why I wasnít talking to her. I woke up and said I was so tired after work and was asleep. Asked if we were still meeting. She took ages to reply. But we did meet and had a really good date, I thought so. She wanted to meet in two days time for food and cinema.
    Next day I asked about it, but she took a long time to reply, said she had to work that night, would message me midday on the day.
    I didnít get a message. So I messaged her late afternoon, she took five hours to reply and said she was so sorry, she was ill and asleep. All potentially genuine, but no suggestion of a new date. Then next day I messaged asking if she felt better, and no response there.
    i think really, she liked the drunk me in the club, a lot more exciting being a customer. No hassle. My question is now. I want to see her. Not sure what will happen and donít care, just a bottle of champagne with her.
    If I go to the club now, say tomorrow? And if my last message to her was yesterday, the one she didnít reply to. Would she likely be cool with this or would she think Iím a stalker? Or is the best thing to do, just forget her, but Iím not sure I can. So to myself, it does kinda feel stalkerish?

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    Obviously I’m also wondering what if she already has client, that would be awkward? When I met her, I was the only guy customer in the club, there were several attractive female customers, I was surprised. So I would be going same time same day, but not sure how busy some days can get. Also would be wierd if she wasn’t working as he other strippers may remember me.

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    If you feel like going to the club to have a nice time, just go and don't put to much thought into it. Let the night be.

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    Don't text message her again for now, especially since she never responded to your last text. She could be busy or it could just be a priority thing. She could be texting a lot of people and you're not high on the priority response list. If you want to see her go in and see her but don't bring up hanging out outside the club again unless she does.

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    Thanks. Actually she messaged me. And we had quite a chat. All really good now (I think). Thanks for your advice, I was definitely overthinking it!

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    Nice! Glad it all worked out

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