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    Default Cam custie to GFE client...help with rates

    Hey all, I have never escorted before, but I have a cam customer who is falling in love with me, and I'm in the process of selling him on escorting services.

    This guy is used to paying $240/hr for 2-3 hours of chatting on Skype. He wants to spend nights, possibly weekends together. I am 100% comfortable with doing so, and I know everything about his real identity (he is in the public spotlight within his field). Trust isn't an issue here.

    I feel comfortable marketing myself as high-end. However, I'm not sure what to charge for a few reasons:

    1. He's never paid for sex before and has expressed discomfort in the whole idea, but he's still in love with me so he's going to do it. But I don't want my prices to scare him. I do not want to lose him as a potential in-person client. If I play it right, this could be my dream come true.
    2. I don't know how much money he makes; he seems pretty wealthy but I'm not sure how accessible his money is. I want this to be sustainable for him.
    3. I believe the work should be somewhat easy-- I don't expect him to want sex constantly for overnight encounters. This will be very GFE, which I consider easier.
    4. I don't live in an expensive area, but he does.

    Is there a "formula" of some sort I can use to determine how much to charge based on my cam rate (what he's used to)? I'm thinking I am worth double in person, but that might be a little outrageous, plus large numbers sound scarier than choosing a time slot from a drop-down menu and later seeing the charges.

    I'm thinking to go with rates for the following (expressed more eloquently):
    + evening together (non-sleepover) (4-6hrs)
    + evening and sleepover and morning (12hrs)
    + weekend (48hrs)

    Why is this so difficult? Lol

    Thanks for your help. I appreciate it greatly.
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    Default Re: Cam custie to GFE client...help with rates

    A lot of cam websites have rules against meeting cam customers in person. This is also why I fear that FOSTA-SESTA will be coming after cam sites next. I feel that LE of some form will start monitoring chatrooms for prostitution if they aren't already. Since most of the major websites used to advertise escorting services have gone dark, more escorts are moving to strip clubs and cam sites to advertise their services. You say that you've never escorted before. I suggest you read the multiple threads on here before dipping your toes in that. You also say that this cam customer is falling in love with you. That's not necessarily a good thing. Obsessed customers in real life can be a lot harder to deal with than an online customer. What if he becomes too attached and thinks that your relationship is more of a personal one than a business arrangement and decides to stop paying you for your time? What if you meet up and he turns out to be a mentally unstable creep? Just because he has a reputable career doesn't mean that he can't be a creep. What if he wants you to do something unsafe or weird that's outside your boundaries of comfort and threatens to not compensate you for your time if you don't do it? What if he finds out your real name? Personal information is readily available to potential stalkers these days. All he would have to know is your real name and he could go to any website that sells peoples' addresses and find out where you live. He could show up to your home and cause all kinds of unnecessary drama. His status or job means nothing. I have had former clients fall in "love" with me and stalk me and one of them was a well-respected lawyer. I know I might come off as jaded but I've been in this industry long enough to automatically be leery of everyone anymore, especially men.

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    Default Re: Cam custie to GFE client...help with rates

    I'm aware of all that and more. I was really only looking for practical advice. I've already made my decision.
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    Lmao. I don't see the point of posting about something if you don't want to hear feedback. Oh well. Live and learn.

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    Your feedback had nothing to do with my question.
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    Look, I do appreciate you sharing that beginner info. But I'm already aware of it, have evaluated the situation, and decided to do it. That's all.
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    Default Re: Cam custie to GFE client...help with rates

    Quote Originally Posted by luvnrockets View Post
    I'm aware of all that and more. I was really only looking for practical advice. I've already made my decision.
    She gave you practical advice. And remember she was the only person who bothered to respond so why not say "Thank You for the insight that you didn't have to share."

    I read your post yesterday and my first thoughts were how can I advise a newbie who seems to be more concerned with the comfort level of a trick over her own?

    I don't want my prices to scare him

    It got too tricky so I backed out. Props to Wendi for stepping up. Please be nice.

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    Default Re: Cam custie to GFE client...help with rates

    Perhaps my tone didn't come across properly in my first response. I didn't mean any snark, just to say that I know what she's talking about. Sorry, I did not mean to sound upset.

    As for the question about concern for his comfort...I think this guy can make me a lot of $ so I want to price accordingly rather than scare him away by charging too much. If it happens, it happens. I didn't mean comfort as in safety. I'm happy to walk away from this if it won't work.
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    Personally, I would charge him 500 to 2000 for the whole day. However, I believe that 900 to 1800 would be reasonable since he is an cam customer and not an escort client. I mean you are giving him the girlfriend experience and he should pay for it. This should include dinner, entertainment, and the happy ending. Did you screen him? Do you know if he talked about std testing? Did you talk about what you are willing to do in the bedroom? I would charge extra for stuff like anal as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Personally, I would charge him 500 to 2000 for the whole day. However, I believe that 900 to 1800 would be reasonable since he is an cam customer and not an escort client. I mean you are giving him the girlfriend experience and he should pay for it. This should include dinner, entertainment, and the happy ending. Did you screen him? Do you know if he talked about std testing? Did you talk about what you are willing to do in the bedroom? I would charge extra for stuff like anal as well.
    Thanks a bunch.

    We haven't discussed STD testing. I was unaware that that is typically brought up when using condoms. Thanks.

    We haven't discussed what exactly we'd do sexually, but he's quite vanilla. He's made it clear that we're not going to go at it like rabbits 24/7 on a long encounter. I'll make it clear that I need sleep, etc.

    I'm confused by your numbers; are you saying I should charge as little as 500 for an entire day?
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    I found this formula on Reddit. Yay or nay?

    Your overnight price would depend on how much you charge an hour.

    As a guide, overnights (12 hours) tend to be the hourly rate times 6. For example, if the hourly rate is $500 x 6 = $3000. This is only a rough guide and you can obviously charge whatever you wish.

    For full day bookings, escorts tend to add a little on top of the overnight rate (generally 1/2 to 1/3 of the overnight rate). So if your overnight rate is $3000, then the day rate will be 1/3 of $3000 = $1000 + $3000 = $4000. Again this is a rough guide.
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    Sorry, I put 500 as the lowest number that you could charge him and 2000 for the highest for one day. I said this because you said that you did not want to charge him too much. I gave a wider range of rates because I was not sure about what you guys discussed?


    Quote Originally Posted by luvnrockets View Post
    Thanks a bunch.

    We haven't discussed STD testing. I was unaware that that is typically brought up when using condoms. Thanks.

    We haven't discussed what exactly we'd do sexually, but he's quite vanilla. He's made it clear that we're not going to go at it like rabbits 24/7 on a long encounter. I'll make it clear that I need sleep, etc.

    I'm confused by your numbers; are you saying I should charge as little as 500 for an entire day?
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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Sorry, I put 500 as the lowest number that you could charge him and 2000 for the highest for one day. I said this because you said that you did not want to charge him too much. I gave a wider range of rates because I was not sure about what you guys discussed?
    Oh! Well, given that my hourly rate on cam is $240 and he's happy to shell out 2-3 hours worth...I would never do that much work for so little. I was thinking to start at $300/hr, which is what a local SW friend says she charges (we are different in looks and experience, but I'm probably as sexually experienced as her in my daily life). He doesn't know this is my first time. Then I thought I'd use the formula I posted to determine my rate for longer encounters, rounding up or down. How does that sound?
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    I think that you have an great system in plac,luvnrocket. Just make sure that your cam customer keeps this between you guys and make sure to stay safe


    Quote Originally Posted by luvnrockets View Post
    Oh! Well, given that my hourly rate on cam is $240 and he's happy to shell out 2-3 hours worth...I would never do that much work for so little. I was thinking to start at $300/hr, which is what a local SW friend says she charges (we are different in looks and experience, but I'm probably as sexually experienced as her in my daily life). He doesn't know this is my first time. Then I thought I'd use the formula I posted to determine my rate for longer encounters, rounding up or down. How does that sound?
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