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    I just broke it off with my best customer after a year of spending Fridays together at the club. Now that I'm back to hustling, I remember just how much I hate small talk and lap hoping. Spoiled maybe?? I've started to think being a sugar baby would be a better fit for me. I love connecting with just one person and offering them everything they could possibly want emotionally (praise, admiration, handmade gifts).

    I've been reading into seeking arrangements to see what the hubbub is about. This may be an unpopular opinion, but I now feel like the whole sugar relationship thing is just escorting... CHEAP escorting. I'm a little confused why these girls dont just become dancers if they're charging 200 for the whole shbang. At my club, $500 shifts are super average, no extras needed. It also seems like a big waste with the first meet nearly guaranteed to be unpaid and a ton of time used texting, sending photos, creating a profile, and crossing your fingers that you'll be "chosen." Not to mention the safety issues and men who dont follow through with payment.

    I really hope I'm missing something here; why is SA so friggin popular? Have any of you had good experiences and can vouch for the site/ sugar experience??
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    I think SA is popular because it is a "learning experience" to use the site even if you don't find what you seek.

    Regarding sugaring, it's not for everyone. There are tons of threads on the subject in "Other Work."

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    From what I've been told, SA has a bunch of losers looking for really cheap sex from really young and dumb naive girls.

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    That's what SA is - desperate, naive girls and cheap johns. No sane man would show his face on that site, and lots of the men on there make $100,000 a year and can't afford to be sugar daddies. Who are they going to spoil on that salary? A chihuahua? Your best bet is to learn to network and connect with the wealthy in real life be it through traveling, education, memberships (country clubs, yacht clubs, golf clubs), the arts, local political parties, sports (skiing, golf, sailing, badminton, tennis, etc), galas, charity events, auctions, upscale restaurants, hotels, and lounges, etc. They will be less suspicious of you if you meet them organically, anyway.

    SA is popular and oversaturated with faux sugar babies and sugar daddies because it has been plastered all over the media. On YouTube you can find segments about the site from virtually every major news channel and talk show (Bethany Frankel and Dr. Phil to name a few), and these videos have millions and millions of views. It is not popular because it is a worthwhile site.

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    You might really enjoy reading Ho Tactics: How to Mind Fuck a Man into Spending Spoiling and Sponsoring by G.L. Lambert

    https://kupdf.com/download/ho-tactic...ba30526c5e_pdf
    ^free pdf here

    No silly sugar baby websites, and no more lap hopping and best of all you don't have to fuck him

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    Default Re: Stripping vs Sugaring

    A lot of stupid vanilla girls on that site. A girl I worked with talked about that site and also boasts about getting $200 from guys lol. shes also like I would never strip I can just make money from guys lol. But yet shes in public with these cheap dudes and thinks shes winning!. I would prefer to be in a club in private esp for such shitty money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chanzep View Post
    A lot of stupid vanilla girls on that site. A girl I worked with talked about that site and also boasts about getting $200 from guys lol. shes also like I would never strip I can just make money from guys lol. But yet shes in public with these cheap dudes and thinks shes winning!. I would prefer to be in a club in private esp for such shitty money.
    I've heard similar stories of "success" from vanilla girls. They think they have "sugar daddies" because they were given $200, a Michael Kors tote, and dinner at a nice restaurant. In exchange, the old geezer who took them out is getting hours and hours of overnight sex with a 20-yr-old. Vanilla boyfriends should be doing this shit for you. They are underselling themselves because they don't know any better.

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    ^That is so sad.

    If there is one site that should be shut down, it should def be that one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by trustfundkiller View Post
    I've heard similar stories of "success" from vanilla girls. They think they have "sugar daddies" because they were given $200, a Michael Kors tote, and dinner at a nice restaurant. In exchange, the old geezer who took them out is getting hours and hours of overnight sex with a 20-yr-old. Vanilla boyfriends should be doing this shit for you. They are underselling themselves because they don't know any better.
    The other side of it is these guys (the Splenda daddies) really aren't financially successful or able to splurge on sugar baby (i.e. married). They ride the situation for as long as they are allowed to....

    This is mostly why I can't bear sugaring. The kind of guy who is paying out a lot for companionship like that usually has some issues.

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    You will have to do your own testing on these sites.

    One womans experiences is just that HER experience - which is based on a number of factors (looks, age, location, quality of men who interact with her, street smarts, hustle ability, and LUCK). And some people have little to no experience on the site so their advice is just theoretical based on what they've read or heard which may or may not be factual.

    There are cheap fuckers everywhere, just know your worth and stick with it. And my guess (as my experience with SA is limited) is that it is easier for women to luck up on a wealthy SD who may be online if they are are in metro area like NY, Miami, Los Angeles, Dallas, D.C, (where there are more people who earn more) vs. bumblefuck Iowa for example

    Do a blend of online and IRL searching and ALWAYS check these dudes background thoroughly before going anywhere 1-on-1.

    Be careful what you say/do to keep yourself safe

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    Quote Originally Posted by trustfundkiller View Post
    I've heard similar stories of "success" from vanilla girls. They think they have "sugar daddies" because they were given $200, a Michael Kors tote, and dinner at a nice restaurant. In exchange, the old geezer who took them out is getting hours and hours of overnight sex with a 20-yr-old. Vanilla boyfriends should be doing this shit for you. They are underselling themselves because they don't know any better.
    Hopefully she is not exclusive with this 1 guy and she is mindful of the value of her time. Ladies who work in clubs learn this (knowing how quickly they can earn 200+ or how much they can earn by the thought of sex but not actually having sex) but I assume young, naive, vanilla woman aren't as time/value savvy.

    I can't just picture it now.....horny dude on viagra trying to get his money's worth trying to blow backs out ALL night.

    Gag me!!!

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    The older I get the more I see that most repeat strip club customers are sex addicts.

    The problem with sugaring is if you get this kind of guy after you for an arrangement they will force all that grossness on to you. & Most of them DO have a "bang for the buck" mentality. Like, they want as much as they can get as fast as possible before they "trade up."

    Like I said, you have to be very bright AND have a strong stomach to sugar. Most wanna be SDs are losers, or gross losers, and you have to deal with ALL of that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Hopefully she is not exclusive with this 1 guy and she is mindful of the value of her time. Ladies who work in clubs learn this (knowing how quickly they can earn 200+ or how much they can earn by the thought of sex but not actually having sex) but I assume young, naive, vanilla woman aren't as time/value savvy.

    I can't just picture it now.....horny dude on viagra trying to get his money's worth trying to blow backs out ALL night.

    Gag me!!!

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    That's really the problem with vanilla girls trying to be sugar babies, and they unknowingly fuel the cheap johns on SA. They think $200 is sooo much money and if you're working a shitty part time job and struggling to get by, it's tempting to throw back a few glasses of wine and go along with this cheap trick's BS to make ends meet. Alternatively, I guess if you are more about quantity vs. quality you could make bank on this site and it will keep you busy. No shortage of guys willing to throw a couple hundred at you if you're willing to give it up for so little.

    I will say I have had some positive experiences on SA, and largely because my BS radar is fine-tuned and I know how to work these men. One guy I was seeing was giving me $1000/week and he was a good looking guy, in his mid 30s. He told me his former SB was a pretty Parisian girl living in NYC (his home base) and he was only giving her $200-300 every time they saw each other. WTF.

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    There are lots of predators on SA as well. I stumbled upon a thread from the Roosh V forum where these men were talking about the best ways to scam women, how to convince them to have sex with you while paying as little as possible, how to sneak the condom off/secretly record girls. I won't talk about the tactics since there are undoubtedly lots of lurkers, misogynists and various types of predators, who read this site to get a glimpse into our minds and try to manipulate us better.

    But trust me when I say, lots of the guys on there have a malicious agenda. It's not just docile lonely guys, or busy businessmen who don't have time to date, as Brandon Wade (the site founder) would like you to believe.

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    I’ve heard quite a few predator stories from people who have been on SA...like this dude she met who wanted their first meeting to be in a McDonalds parking lot, for free!!! LOL. And he wanted her to send him nudes before that too. Or the dude who wanted her to meet him that night in a hotel for a few hundred but claimed to be worth millions. They make strip club guys look like saints!

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    Also; these vanilla girl SBs do not know what a REAL sugar daddy is!!! I had a real one from the club who spent $1000 a week on me in allowance plus gifts and travel. A couple of hundred per meeting (especially if it’s only in hotels) is to be expected of a cheap escort!

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    Quote Originally Posted by trustfundkiller View Post
    That's really the problem with vanilla girls trying to be sugar babies, and they unknowingly fuel the cheap johns on SA. They think $200 is sooo much money and if you're working a shitty part time job and struggling to get by, it's tempting to throw back a few glasses of wine and go along with this cheap trick's BS to make ends meet. Alternatively, I guess if you are more about quantity vs. quality you could make bank on this site and it will keep you busy. No shortage of guys willing to throw a couple hundred at you if you're willing to give it up for so little.

    I will say I have had some positive experiences on SA, and largely because my BS radar is fine-tuned and I know how to work these men. One guy I was seeing was giving me $1000/week and he was a good looking guy, in his mid 30s. He told me his former SB was a pretty Parisian girl living in NYC (his home base) and he was only giving her $200-300 every time they saw each other. WTF.
    I bet she'd be so sick rn knowing she could have gotten 1k vs. 200

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    I remember the times what it meant to be a sugar baby. Juice the shit out of a man financially WITHOUT having to do a damn thing. Just your mind, beauty, and charm.

    Now it's considered cheap fucking. Sad.


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