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    Default Mistress/ SB/ Escort?

    Iím trying to put a label on this situation Im starting. So Friday we started messaging each other online. (Sugar baby) We started texting this morning and met an hour ago. His profile said heís divorced but he admitted heís married. (Mistress)So we met at a restaurant as these things usually do and I think he got spooked by the waitress being noisy. So we went to my car. When we got to the car he started asking me about sex and what I am and am not comfortable with. (Escort)
    We talked about sex with each other and an arrangement and his friend. Then he kissed me and slipped me $100 and left. WE DID NOT HAVE SEX TONIGHT! Iím thinking Iím a paid mistress after all heís around my age. When he gave me the money I told him Iím not an escort ( nothing wrong with escorts but thatís not what I was looking for)and donít want a transactional relationship. He told me keep it as a thank you for meeting so late and last minute. Anyway whatís the difference? Inform me.

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    Default Re: Mistress/ SB/ Escort?

    It’s all in how you define it. A lot of people see marriage as paying for sex too. Just depends if you are ok with it.

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    Default Re: Mistress/ SB/ Escort?

    Why do you need to label it? The end result is all the same, regardless of title. Get that money, girl.

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    Default Re: Mistress/ SB/ Escort?

    It's all in your head. ... but not really... Legally if sex is expected every visit it is illegal. (Escort.) If it is a paid relationship / helping someone with a fixed amount per month, where sex sometimes happens, it is legal. (At least that's how a SB / Domme friend thinks of it...)
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    Default Re: Mistress/ SB/ Escort?

    What I see a lot is dudes having trouble trusting the move to monthly allowance. As I've said many times, if these would-be SDs can't lose a few thousand without worrying, they should concentrate on financial management rather than starting arrangements.
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    Default Re: Mistress/ SB/ Escort?

    If he's that squirrelly about a waitress being nosy, having a mistress is not something he can handle.

    Also what's up with bitchy waitresses? They need tips more than strippers do really, I never understand why they get nosy/judgemental about relationships their customers have. Like it's their fucking business.
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    Default Re: Mistress/ SB/ Escort?

    Ok, so in a nutshell, he obviously wants to pay you for sex. Label it whatever you want, but I'm guessing that this guy isn't going to pay you for many more platonic dinner meetings. So IMHO the real questions are: (1) Are you ok with that in principle?; and (2) How can you best leverage the situation from an economic standpoint?

    If you are ok with that in concept, but do not like a pay-as-you-go model (for whatever reason), then IMHO all you can really do is communicate that, along with your monetary expectations, and see how it goes.

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