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    Dizzy Escorting & STD Testing.....

    How often do you get STD tests? Has anyone ever gotten an STD from a client? I always stress bc condoms donít work again Herpes and Syphilis. Anyone else have these fears? Or comments???

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    Default Re: Escorting & STD Testing.....

    Probably depends on whether or not you have been exposed (say a condom breaking), if you have any unusual symptoms, etc.

    Otherwise, probably every 3-4 months for blood tests (for hiv, syphilis, hep, herpes - type 1 and 2) plus (test for chlamydia, gonorrhea, trich, BV, HPV, yeast, etc)

    Skin to skin (without an std test) = just a risk you take - though you could throughly examine the areas not covered by condoms/dental dams for any lesions, bumps, warts, etc. (then refusing skin-to-skin contact if you see anything unusual) to minimize that risk
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    Default Re: Escorting & STD Testing.....

    Have you worked as an escort?

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    Default Re: Escorting & STD Testing.....

    I've had experience/knowledge in adult industry, std testing, and my fair share of fucking.

    Also consider women who work in porn (which is somewhat similar) get testing every month. So more frequent testing (where there will be increased intimate physical contact) is norm. So anything between 1-3 months is reasonable for optimal health.

    Perhaps some other ladies will chime in or you can always ask other ladies who work the profession as well.
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    Default Re: Escorting & STD Testing.....

    These are questions for your doctor, asking people here is a good way to get the wrong information and end up with some unfortunate consequences.

    Just being real with you—there is misinformation in this thread already.

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    How do people avoid hsv when you can get it even with condoms?
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    Unless you ask a person to commit to monogamy and get tested before physical contact ----> hsv can't be avoided completely (as you said, it can be transmitted via infected cells not covered by male condom/female condom/dental dam and it can be transmitted from kissing especially during an active outbreak of cold sores) ... You can minimize the risk however and examine these areas before coming into contact/refusing sex or kissing until healed in addition to using condom/dental dams

    HSV causes and risk factors https://www.verywellhealth.com/how-t...-works-1068800
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pinksugardoll View Post
    These are questions for your doctor, asking people here is a good way to get the wrong information and end up with some unfortunate consequences.

    Just being real with you—there is misinformation in this thread already.
    ? I think I'm the only one who was posted info so can you elaborate on what is 'wrong' information as I have zero intent to provide misinformation?

    Asking a physician is wise though not all of them are open to having clients who perform in adult industry. Some of them are fresh out of med school/residency and not that experienced. They also are paid by pharmaceutical companies to push drugs/restricted by the red tape from their employer so sometimes their info can be biased. Basically just ensure you ask a knowledgable helpful doctor who can provide objective information.

    That being said,

    How often you should be getting tested for std's according to doctors https://www.thrillist.com/sex-dating...ing-to-doctors Here in this article it says every 2 weeks, the numbers/time frames vary but one thing IS certain = the more sexual partners one encounters (especially if their STD status is unknown) the more likely testing will need to occur more frequently. This is because IF something were to be contracted, not only will it be easier to identify/notify the source to halt the spread but also to get prompt treatment to avoid long term damage to physical/reproductive health if left untreated
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    I think the likelihood of getting stds from a client would depend on your typical demographic of client too. If you're mostly seeing drug-free, married, homebodies than the 55 year-old thrill-seekers, you might be less at a risk, though getting tested is important. Nyc offers free testing for everyone with or without insurance.

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    ^ I disagree on the typical demographic of clients and STDs. While the average hobbyist clients are more likely to freely engage in risky behaviors with escorts, the married clients can be just as stupid. STDs can affect anyone, regardless of age, marital status, etc. I know someone who caught something from a drug-free, married client. He was the shy, conservative type of client. The client told the escort that she was the only escort he was seeing, that he and his wife no longer were sexual due to the wife's health issues. This escort had been recently tested and was clean. She stupidly allowed bare oral with him, assuming that he was telling the truth and was in fact clean. She ended up with oral gonorrhea. It turned out that he had met up with another escort prior to seeing her and had bareback sex, which is where he caught the gonorrhea from. Always be safe/protected everything and get tested regularly. You can't trust anyone to tell you if they have anything or not because nobody is honest if it means they won't get pussy or whatever they want from you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post
    While the average hobbyist clients are more likely to freely engage in risky behaviors with escorts, the married clients can be just as stupid.
    I know this to be true first hand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post
    Always be safe/protected everything and get tested regularly. You can't trust anyone to tell you if they have anything or not because nobody is honest if it means they won't get pussy or whatever they want from you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post
    ^ I disagree on the typical demographic of clients and STDs. While the average hobbyist clients are more likely to freely engage in risky behaviors with escorts, the married clients can be just as stupid. STDs can affect anyone, regardless of age, marital status, etc. I know someone who caught something from a drug-free, married client. He was the shy, conservative type of client. The client told the escort that she was the only escort he was seeing, that he and his wife no longer were sexual due to the wife's health issues. This escort had been recently tested and was clean. She stupidly allowed bare oral with him, assuming that he was telling the truth and was in fact clean. She ended up with oral gonorrhea. It turned out that he had met up with another escort prior to seeing her and had bareback sex, which is where he caught the gonorrhea from. Always be safe/protected everything and get tested regularly. You can't trust anyone to tell you if they have anything or not because nobody is honest if it means they won't get pussy or whatever they want from you.
    Awful!!!!


    True story- I had a guy asking to date me (he seemed lonely, nice, etc.) At the time I said no (politely) because I was super busy with work to where none of my time was set aside for social events or making friends.

    Turns out this guy was having bareback sex with trans-sexuals. My impression of him was totally wrong. I would have never guessed that.


    TD ; DR - condoms, safe sex and caution can prevent a lot of problems.
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    Here in the UK, as per the health clinics guidance, HIV takes 3 months to show up while all the others take less time. So I get checked every 3 months. During over 2 years that I've been escorting/stripping I've lost count ages ago of how many clients I've given unprotected oral to, and had unprotected sex with 25ish clients? Yet I've never caught a thing - yet! fingers crossed I never will. According to national health statistic estimates over 80% of the UK population has some strain of herpes, they don't even screen for it in sexual health test checks.

    I'm very selective with who I do unprotected vaginal/anal sex with though. They have to pay extra for it and show me their health test results dated within 2 weeks. Preferring to do it only with clients who see me regularly. I'm always honest with them if I'm already doing it with another client and a 2nd client wants it as well then I ensure they both know the level of risk and if they don't want it any more then that's their choice. I've always loved risky sex, I love the feeling of no condom sex but do try to keep the numbers low as I don't want to catch anything either. The vast majority of clients I ensure use condoms for vaginal/anal sex.

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    In different US states, Planned Parenthood offers STD testing on a sliding scale.

    If you plan on escorting long term- find a good OB/GYN and be as honest as possible with him or her so he can give you realistic medical advice on STD prevention/gyn issues.

    (Doctors are surprisingly open minded about this. They can do their job better with all the info, versus the patient leaving out info.)

    Speaking honestly, if you contract a common STI, you'll know rightaway………… Plus hobbyists comment on an escort's personal hygiene. If you don't notice something, someone else will.


    Most escorts I've known as friends are more health aware than the average woman. They have to be, they are like athletes or actresses, they make bank off of their bodies/health.
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    I get tested for everything every 3 months weather I have been working much or not. Inspecting a client or customer and them "looking clean" is not a sure thing. I NEVER believe anyone who tells me they are safe/clean. To many times I have seen a guy leave the club and head to the adult theater, video booths ECT.

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    Fyi, most places won't test for herpes unless you specifically ask for that test. It's so common that most people will test positive for one of the 2 common strains, even if they have never had symptoms. So request HSV1 and HSV2.

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    I don't want to de-rail the thread but in my life I've requested male OB/gyns for my needs. They tend to be more objective (to me) than some female OB/gyns.

    (My current one also has several female RNs on staff that I can talk to about anything specific.)

    In my lifetime experience the professionals at Planned Parenthood are very excellent. They don't judge and see all kinds of things. They are very serious about HIPPA for legal reasons.

    Just adding this in case it helps anyone.
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    I Love escorting although my bread and butter is porn and webcam. I live in Europe and here I can go to the lab in Barcelona and for 55 Euros they test for HIV/AIDS, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, Hepatitis A, B and C and a bacteria test for BV. They test blood urine and saliva and they will also do an anal swab if requested. I do this before any shoot and/or trip to escort or meet fans and that is pretty often. I normally also do one about three weeks after one of these trips as well. I can get this all done for free about once every 6 months by donating blood so I do that as well.

    I test all my clients on site with an HIV/AIDS quick test which I purchase from a nurse/fireman friend of mine. I also request that they have other testing done if they want to do bare back. To date I have not contracted any diseases ever. HOWEVER! This is not a full proof method but nothing is! You might get herpes and will get HPV but these things are not a death sentence and probably wont cause you any long term issues. If you have a Vagina and a Cervix you must go to get a pap smear every year! This is true for every woman out there regardless of career choice but even more important for us because we need to have a doctor we can talk to when something comes up like UTI's, BV, Injury etc!

    If you're considering to become an escort getting an STD is always a risk you take. That must be accepted right away. If you cannot live with yourself should you get an STD then dont do this job! I know very few porn stars in America that havent had to deal with Chlamydia or worse at least once but I only know a few in Europe that have had to deal with STD's I believe this is because testing here is so much easier and more affordable but again it is not a guarantee so I approach every job with the attitude that I could contract something and I act appropriately. I offer anal only with condoms and I charge insane amounts for it because really I dont love it and also it is the most risky as far as contracting a disease so I am cautious. I never ever ever trust men! They must pay the 30 euros extra to me to do an on site HIV/AIDS quick test. If they dont want to, even just cause they are cheap then no deal. If I see a mark or cut or anything Im not comfortable on their groin then no deal!

    I have been doing escorting for 13 years and I can tell you that mostly it is safe and even if you do get a disease its treatable. Even HIV/AIDs is no longer the death sentence that is used to be. You can get HIV and have a very healthy long normal life. I love escorting because it allows me a lot of freedom, great income and the company of men who like to spoil me rotten and always pay for sex so for me the risk is worth it but its a personal thing you have to decide for yourself (this is true of every single job you must take in life so just use your head).

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