Not trying to be an ass, just some thoughts and I am sure others here can pitch in to try to help sell more dances:
Smile
Be put together--I don't normally want to hear about the hell that your room mate or you are in right now, perhaps as the night progresses and we get to know each other but not right off the bat, just kills the fantasy initially for me.
Touch me lightly on the arm/shoulder/knee once or twice-studies show that contact of this type of touching increased tipping to waitresses and waiters so it stands to reason.
Nice conversation for a minute or two to see if there is any connection
Awareness of others-hey if you have another guy you need to see first, just let me know
Laughter
Be willing to come back if I express interest but I just got there, normally I like about 10 minutes to orient myself in the club, get a drink and observe
What I try to do:
Be clean, nice clothes, smell nice, shaved and manicured
Smile
Offer polite conversation
Be honest as to my intent for a dance or not. I try not to waste your time if I am not interested
Laughter
Tip
Realize it is a job for you but a fantasy for me
Other thoughts?



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