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    Default When doing lapdances do you remind custies after every song?

    Sorry for the awkward title. What I mean is when you're doing multiple lapdances, do you ask after every song "want another?" Or do you just keep going until they say when? I recently switched from a "bar with dancers" kinda club (where the house takes $20 from our $30 dances) to a much more profitable lapdance club, where customers generally buy several dances at a time and tip us decently on top of the $20 per song we get. This is now my main club, but I am working an occasional shift at the first club. The lapdance club does not have a dj, just a playlist so the songs are not cut and there is a second or two of silence between songs, so I don't feel quite so bad about not asking after every song because it's kinda obvious when each song is over. The first club has a dj who usually (but not always) gets on the mic between songs so it's not as blatant when each songs ends. Anyways, I would ALWAYS ask after each song but since switching to the LD club I'm wondering if I could maximize my profits by not reminding custies after every song. I would never rip anyone off, don't wanna be *that* person, and I would still make it a point to remind the customer every few songs or so "hey it's been ___ songs, still wanna keep going?" but I'm just thinking about adjusting my hustle a bit, since I'm only getting $10 a song and potentially taken out of the stage rotation I might as well make it worth my while. I am going back to my first club tonight and I'm considering saying "okay it's $30 a song for a basic dance, I'll wait for you to say when" so I know the custie is totally clear on the price beforehand and there can be no misunderstandings.

    On the flipside, at my first club there are a few girls (top earners) who refuse to do LDs altogether and tell customers they're either doing a VIP room or nothing at all with them, and I've thought about taking that approach but I'm not exactly a top earner. What do you think?

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    Default Re: When doing lapdances do you remind custies after every song?

    Typically for the first 3 or so songs I'll say something to indicate it's another song i.e. "let's keep going", and then will ask if they want me to just keep dancing till they want to stop/update every x songs/stop at $x.

    The only doing VIP thing works well in clubs where there are a lot of VIP customers so girls may feel they are "wasting time" if they do the regular dances. It takes a certain personality type to close it properly but it tends to work well for those girls.
    HOWEVER it does bomb hard on slow nights or nights where there just aren't VIP custies in the club. It also misses out on trial or upgrade sales from the lap dances. Sometimes a guy does want to spend the night in vip but he'll take a few girls for regular dances first to ensure you're a good match or whatever before he shells out the big money. Also sometimes you'll get somebody who just wanted a dance but you're able to convince them during the dance that they want more time with you and get a sale that way. If you think of the basic lap dances as an additional sales tool (plus money ads up, sometimes you'll lap hop your way to a kickass night) then it's less "ugh he only wants one song fml" to "he thinks he only wants one song but we can sell him on more/VIP'.

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    Default Re: When doing lapdances do you remind custies after every song?

    I always get the cost of the first dance up front, and while doing that I can peep his wallet to make sure he has enough to support additional songs if he wants them. I’ll ask as we go into the room, “how many dances should we start with?” And he’ll usually say a number between 1 and 5.

    If I get a good vibe from a guy, I’ll continue to do more and more dances without getting off his lap or getting paid for more in between. If not, I’ll cheekily hop off his lap and ask for payment every couple of songs. My regulars are used to this so they give me everything up front. I always do verbally count each song, but I do it in a sexy way.

    “That was the two we planned on, but I’m really enjoying this. Would you like just one more?”
    “I’m feeling so turned on dancing for you. Can we please have just one more song?”
    “Awww, that’s our three songs! It went way too fast. I really wanted more time to talk about that theory you were telling me about. Don’t you want just two more for an even hundred?”
    “I want to do another, don’t you?”
    “Oh darn, our song is over! I was just about to take my top off. Want another?”
    “Omg the dj is playing my favorite song to give dances to! Want another? I promise it’ll be worth it, this song make me feel so sexy.”

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    Default Re: When doing lapdances do you remind custies after every song?

    I say, "Keep going?" with a flirty smile after every song.

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    Default Re: When doing lapdances do you remind custies after every song?

    I start off by asking how many to start,if they want another I get it upfront or upsell. I don’t trust them enough to wait until after,seems like confusion.

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