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    Quote Originally Posted by panzi View Post
    I'm so sick of "Her body,her choice" mantra.A carpenter won't have to take pills for pain every day he goes to work.Her male partners on set do not take pills for pain.Only she does.If something harms someone,and we can avoid that,than why not do just that?Why find excuses for sick men who masturbate on this? Why normalize and sexualize abuse? It does affect us all.Back in the day when slavery was still around,there were slaves that said they like being slaves and that they are thankful to their masters for providing shelter and food instead of their labour. And yet,people eventually realized that slavery is not a good thing. But we cannot do the same for women because as long as dicks get hard on something....we should not question it at all. Anyway,i'm not trying to start a dispute here.You can keep your opinion and i will keep mine. Do you masturbate on women being pissed on,gagged,humiliated,spit on,beaten,forced to suck dick until they choke?
    I agree that some porn is REALLY fucked up and it's completely obvious that the woman's boundaries are pushed too far.

    It sound like what you're saying is that we need to push back against that, maybe have a strong union that supports sex workers and can protect us from being taken advantage of. I think we could all get behind that. It's not porn that's the problem, or women who aren't speaking up for themselves, it's the fact that some pornographers are predators who deliberately set out to take advantage of us.

    However... I don't think this is the reason most people disapprove of porn. The people who are saying porn is evil (or responsible for shootings) tend to have a religious or political agenda, and the last thing they want is for sex workers to ban together and strengthen their industry. So we need to have each others' backs, and work together if we're going to fix anything.

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    OMG dont get me started on the Union!!!

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    Here's what I discovered today at our local Hy-Vee.

    I actually went and looked at the magazine rack and I did find Republican porn. Literally the entire top two rows were various firearms magazines. Now I understand she wasn't joking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DeepThoughts View Post
    I dont watch that sort of porn obviously. I wont even shoot that kind of porn. Cept for choking on cock but I really do love that. However it is not "forced" I am willing.

    Yes Carpenters do take pills for pain everyday and not every pornstar takes drugs or alcohol for pain or any other reason. I take nothing cept a vitamin and MSM every morning so I speak from experience and you speak from hearsay.

    I completely agree with you when you say "if something harms someone and we can avoid that than why no do just that?" So why not avoid it?? I do. I say no when they tell me they want to fuck my ass and then my pussy or abuse my tits or spit in my face and smack me. I say no and if its a deal breaker then so what I get the day off.

    Im just saying men arent gonna stop being fucked up so women need to stand up for themselves and look out for themselves! Stop playing the victim and make a difference the only way you can! By not being that girl who allows men to do this sort of thing to you!

    Im not saying that this horrible porn that men watch today is okay but I realize when I am beat. I cant stop that porn from existing or banish it from the internet. No one can so now its our own behavior that makes the difference. Not over dramatizing the situation by claim that porn is not responsible for the most horrendous crimes on this earth.

    The Columbine Shooting was in 1999. There was very little porn on the internet in 1999. It sucked ass! And those boys certainly didnt grow up watching what didnt exist so I guess porn couldnt have been responsible. We know that in this world there are people who are messed up. Porn is a product of that not a cause. How you live your life and the choices you make do make a difference in the big picture. I do porn because I like it. You do it and believe its evil so which one of us is making the better life choice?
    You do not seem to understand that you can afford to say no.Others do not.Because others are young and unexperienced and they just go with the flow,or they are living their life in a loop that they cannot leave(either because they have an addiction or because they desperately need the money and porn is the only thing that they could find).It is pretty much the same as the Harvey Weinstein scandal: yes those actresses could say no,but they would have been booted and replaced with others who were willing. And some will do a lot of shit especially if they are very young and had no proper parents/were neglected. Trauma(physical or psychological) is the main reason why so many women get into BDSM in the first place. They have low self esteem and the crazy thing is that this shit is promoted this days as some sort of a kink that we all should try. Nobody questions why this women make this choices and what is the impact of their choices on the rest of us(especially other young girls that suffer from trauma/neglection).
    This girls cannot and will not have better self esteem if nobody questions their behavior and we all go:" her body,her choice" .
    The OP said that only conservatives would think like this.Well i'm not conservative and i'm not religious either. And as shocking as it is,there are other camgirls/porn actresses that share my opinion.Maybe it's because we could see first hand what is going on in this industry and that it is not ok like it is?!
    I don't understand why you keep insisting to present me with things that happened in the past( Columbine Shooting,etc) like it is some justification for today:" Well if it happened in the past,it's not so bad.Some men are vile but it's not cause of porn". Please,in the past the incidence of this behavior was rare. Now it's endemic and it does affect us all. Today young men put drugs in girls drinks.They don't see anything wrong about it. Who's to blame? Our culture,that oversexualizes everything(this would be the sparkle) and porn that is a constant fuel.
    You can watch the documentary "Liberated-the new sexual revolution". The consent or choice of this girls is being influenced.
    And as for porn,even the pornographers admit that what they shoot today is degrading and it is going to get even more so. In order for them to keep their pockets full,they will continue to provide violent content. It's the "Buy-Consume-Dispose" capitalist slogan but applied for humans-like they are objects.And it is MORE MORE MORE.
    I am glad that there are articles presenting violent porn as a factor for massive shootings,rapes,etc.Sick men get inspiration from porn. Misogyny,sexism and racism should not be normalized and sexualized but completely destroyed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by seashell View Post
    I agree that some porn is REALLY fucked up and it's completely obvious that the woman's boundaries are pushed too far.

    It sound like what you're saying is that we need to push back against that, maybe have a strong union that supports sex workers and can protect us from being taken advantage of. I think we could all get behind that. It's not porn that's the problem, or women who aren't speaking up for themselves, it's the fact that some pornographers are predators who deliberately set out to take advantage of us.

    However... I don't think this is the reason most people disapprove of porn. The people who are saying porn is evil (or responsible for shootings) tend to have a religious or political agenda, and the last thing they want is for sex workers to ban together and strengthen their industry. So we need to have each others' backs, and work together if we're going to fix anything.
    No,again,it is not only conservatives or religious people.It is people who realize what is happening around them and realizing that this is bad just as slavery was bad-That this kind of degradation does affect us all. That the risk for rape is higher today than it was in the past and that the risk of being raped like in porn is something more likely to happen because men get access to violent porn at a mouse click.
    Yes,we need to push back. A good way of doing that would be by speaking up,by telling women that it is ok to have boundaries and by telling women(some actually enjoy being slaves) to question their preferences.Why they feel the need to be degraded? Why they feel the need to feel pain? Why they can no longer feel sexually stimulated unless there is heavy pain involved? Humans seek pleasure not pain,so if these women chose pain,something did happen to them.
    I was a neglected child and i did allow in the past for men to take advantage of me,i did not have the boudaries that i have today and i allowed men to persuade me to do things that at that moment didn't think would affect me but they did.
    And those sick predators who prey on vulnerable,unknowing women and girls must be called out too. Nobody should desire to degrade or be degraded by anyone.In case you do,at least admit that there is something wrong with you,don't bring this shit into mainstream and say that those who dare to disagree are some cave-unliberated prudes that want to restrict people's free will.

    Pornographers should not exist at all. What they are doing is exploitation.All their fortunes should be confiscated(and distributed to women in need) and them sent to jail for exploitation.This is modern slavery. All porn should be homemade by women who want to provide this.They should keep 100% of the income. How the fuck is fair for an actress to be paid 5000$ and put to take 5 dicks in all her holes while they get millions of dollars?
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    Just found this on the internet: http://www.foxnews.com/us/2018/06/01...es-videos.html
    And the authorities don't think that he distributed or contacted any of those children.Like- "hey it's nothing wrong to watch children being raped...he will not act out on his desires in real life-it's just a fantasy".
    There is no chance in this world that he could possibly ever get the idea to sell those images and videos to men as sick as he is.No chance!
    Now come and tell me that porn is not evil.
    All mentally disturbed-sadistic men masturbate on violent porn and violent porn does influence the minds of young men with no guidance and/or bad role-models.



    Some time ago i had a pedophile customer on a website.I reported him. The site said that they are not going to ban him cause he explained to them that it's just " a fantasy". So they could have sent his informations to the police for him to be investigated(maybe or maybe not he is an actual pedo,even having any child-content in his pc would be a crime actually) but they didn't. Just imagine if that guy is an actual pedophile and they could have spared some child from rape... But no!!!!!! He still has the account and he can still go into camgirls rooms and chat about how he watches little girls being fucked,their little scared faces and their tears(yeah he told me all of that) and he can wank his dick while sharing his fantasy with us. He wanted me to "punish" him for his bad behavior so he would wank first because i would allow him to tell me in detail what he watches and after for self-inflicting harm to himself because i "ordered" him to do that.
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    I see what you're saying about porn, I really do. It's a big industry, and if we include people who abuse it like these pedophile sickos who call phone sex lines, or people on the dark web sharing child pornography, then yes, it is VERY fucked up. That side of things makes me really hate this industry at times, and makes me seriously question my association with it. But here's the thing... there are different branches of the industry. There is legal and illegal porn. There is consensual and non-consensual porn. There is porn where women own their content, and porn where male CEO's own the content (as you said, getting rich off of us).

    This is the only thing that comforts me when I see a headline like the one you shared, about some horrific thing that happened in porn. Porn is a huge, HUGE industry, and that word encompasses virtually every single type of sexual media in existence. So is porn evil? Not all of it. Not the porn we make on cam, where we're consenting and making 85% and being respected by our customers. Is there plenty of disturbing porn out there? Yes. Absolutely.

    Pornographers should not exist at all. What they are doing is exploitation.All their fortunes should be confiscated(and distributed to women in need) and them sent to jail for exploitation.This is modern slavery. All porn should be homemade by women who want to provide this.They should keep 100% of the income. How the fuck is fair for an actress to be paid 5000$ and put to take 5 dicks in all her holes while they get millions of dollars?
    In an ideal world, totally. It's like having a pimp vs. being independent and making your own money. A lot of women "choose" to go with a studio or work for porn companies because they have no idea that working for themselves is an option. I don't think we can realistically get rid of big porn companies/pornographers... and it's a broad generalization to label these all as bad. What you really seem to be against is stuff that is already illegal, and BDSM. The UK recently banned several sex acts in porn, so it will be interesting to see how that changes the industry for them.

    It would be great if we could educate new sex workers, make sex work fully legal, make it less of a shameful thing so that people can talk about it... and good luck to us in getting there one day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by seashell View Post
    I see what you're saying about porn, I really do. It's a big industry, and if we include people who abuse it like these pedophile sickos who call phone sex lines, or people on the dark web sharing child pornography, then yes, it is VERY fucked up. That side of things makes me really hate this industry at times, and makes me seriously question my association with it. But here's the thing... there are different branches of the industry. There is legal and illegal porn. There is consensual and non-consensual porn. There is porn where women own their content, and porn where male CEO's own the content (as you said, getting rich off of us).

    This is the only thing that comforts me when I see a headline like the one you shared, about some horrific thing that happened in porn. Porn is a huge, HUGE industry, and that word encompasses virtually every single type of sexual media in existence. So is porn evil? Not all of it. Not the porn we make on cam, where we're consenting and making 85% and being respected by our customers. Is there plenty of disturbing porn out there? Yes. Absolutely.



    In an ideal world, totally. It's like having a pimp vs. being independent and making your own money. A lot of women "choose" to go with a studio or work for porn companies because they have no idea that working for themselves is an option. I don't think we can realistically get rid of big porn companies/pornographers... and it's a broad generalization to label these all as bad. What you really seem to be against is stuff that is already illegal, and BDSM. The UK recently banned several sex acts in porn, so it will be interesting to see how that changes the industry for them.

    It would be great if we could educate new sex workers, make sex work fully legal, make it less of a shameful thing so that people can talk about it... and good luck to us in getting there one day.


    What is consent in a culture that tells women that BDSM is cool(50 Shades of Grey just as 1 example)? What is consent in a culture that tells women that pain is pleasure? Apart from those who do it strictly for the money,there are many women who happily consent to do porn where they are degraded.They claim that it's nothing wrong,it's just kinky fun,they love being there and you should too cause this is "liberation".

    And as for porn in general...well the vast majority of it presents women in a position of inferiority,objectified and most porn will contain slurs addressed at women. Now some women like what they call "dirty talk" but i don't and i believe it shouldn't exist in porn and pushed into the mainstream as something inoffensive.Conservative men used(and still do) to regard women as sluts as a form of punishment for their promiscuity.This continues in porn and is embraced by porn actresses themselves who refuse to see the message they send to men(especially young unknowing men). Now they somehow are proud of being "sluts" though men for the most part still think that sluts must be consumed and discarded afterwards.A man who truly believes that women have as much of a right to be promiscuous if they so chose,would not feel the need to use any slurs. There is still a lot of conservative shit that was somehow adopted by liberals themselves. What will a young man understand from a movie where a woman is being called slut and "punished with dick until she cries"? He clearly sees that her partners are not being called any names and they are not getting the same treatment that the woman does.
    It is this punishment that concerns me.It is instilled this idea that a woman deserves some kind of a punishment for something.Many of the articles that covered that mass shooting said that the girl somehow "humiliated him with her refusal in front of the class".I'm sure that lunatic felt somehow humiliated by her refusal too so he punished her and others as well. It is bad parenting as the key factor of course, but parents can only do as much-the culture plays a role and porn is BIG in our culture.




    What 85%? Indiebill and for Indiebill you gotta have customers to bring there.Streamate gives you 30% and F4F gives you 25%(those cunts keep your privates forever so they can benefit from you even after you're gone).Even 50% would be too much for their work and too little for my work.

    If UK could ban certain acts in porn and if women(especially those in the industry) will speak up, there will be changes.
    If we stay silent or say things like: "hey their body-their choice", "how about you pop up some pain pills just like carpenters do?" ,"Anal prolapse from too much anal sex? Risks of the job darling...live with it cause carpenters also risk body injuries(some are permanent) just as often as porn actresses in violent porn do","Only conservative-religious freaks think like this"-nothing is going to change.
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    This was a big issue that the feminists of the 1970's came up with. I believe it was Betty Friedan and Gloria Steinem. And Friedan wrote that Ted Bundy was addicted to porn and stripclubs. And she believed among other feminists that it led to him being a serial killer.
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    panzi you are making some sweeping statements about sexual activities that many healthy people enjoy. Just because there are ogres with no social skills who cannot separate their kinks from real life is no reason to denounce what gets plenty of people off.

    Do some men treat woman poorly because of their obsession with porn? Absolutely. But those same type men had these thoughts pre the current wave of porn. Look at any serial killer who targeted women and you will find a sadistic sexual element. Some were "set off" from shoe catalogs, should they have been banned or regulated? The attempt to quell the use and production of porn will not stop any of these behaviors. We should focus on realistic sex education and socialization for young people. The hardcore porn obviously sells when it doesn't porn will change it's mo. It is the male fear that is driving this trend not the other way around.

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    What do you mean by male fear driving this trend,kamilian?

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    What do you mean by male fear driving this trend,kamilian?
    That they are losing their power that was granted to them for no reason for thousands of years. Women don't need need to settle down with some loser because he will pay the bills. They know deep down they have nothing to offer and react with a hatred towards women. The mere fact of being a man isn't good enough for the younger generations.

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    I really dont buy into this "poor victim" Bull shit that Im suppose to. I know my heart is suppose to break for every person with a bad past or a drug addition or whatever whiny bs you want to spout to me as your reason for being a Stupid person but I am not the girl that is gonna wrap you in cotton wool and tell you your stupidity is justified.

    NOBODY has a great life. We all have trama and difficult life events. You dont get off this planet without them but some of us own, move on and make it better and some of us use it as an excuse. Im not big on excuses Im big on actions. I lose no sleep at night worrying about the decisions other people make because those decisions are theirs to make!!!

    I have sad no to many porn jobs because they crossed the line for me and I had no idea how I was gonna buy food, pay rent or keep my internet hooked up. I was young and stupid and living in a country where I didnt speak the language and I wasnt even legally allowed to be there so I had no opportunities to have another job and I said no! So dont tell me what I need to understand or why these actions are justified. I am a strong person and I value that in myself and those I choose to be friends with even if you do not.

    Now you want to talk about children who are forced to do porn movies for sick men then yes my heart breaks and stopping that level of disgusting is something I would get behind 10000% but no one is talking about that are they?? Everyone in Hollywood is throwing Weinstein to the wolves for having sex with women who said yes! But who is talking about the pedophilia that runs rampant in that industry??? Those kids really are victims! Lets go help the real victims. Stop trying to convince me that you are not responsible for the choices your make! You are responsible for the and no one else.

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    I know surprisingly little about gun violence, but porn has been around for a long time! And NOW it’s the reasonKisa are killing other kids. No.

    Holy crap, I had an ephinnany. That’s why all these red necks in my town hate me! Because people like this try to say we are the cause for all of society’s social ills and People buy it hook, line, and sinker. Wow! People are such sheep.

    Anyways, Sex is like a brick. A brick can be used to build a house or break a window. Sex in of itself isn’t good or bad it’s how it’s used. A person watching healthy porn due to loneliness isn’t the issue, but A raging, violent, mentally ill person watching women being sexually assaulted isn’t healthy. There’s nuance!

    Does she know the term scapegoat...LOL. I’m so tired of being scapegoated. First in my family of origin and now by society.

    This shit is getting old.

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    Porn exists all over the world but school shootings that's mainly an American phenomenon.

    So it's probably not about porn, it's about something else in the American culture.
    Absolutely, not only is the homicide rate the highest but the suicide rate is the highest too. America has so many issues, its difficult to know where to begin but this is a structural issue and not an external one like porn or music.

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    Absolutely, not only is the homicide rate the highest but the suicide rate is the highest too. America has so many issues, its difficult to know where to begin but this is a structural issue and not an external one like porn or music.
    If you're talking about developed countries, then yes, the US has the highest homicide rates. But we don't have the highest suicide rates among developed countries... that would be Japan. But yeah, the US is not looking so good these days.

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    If you're talking about developed countries, then yes, the US has the highest homicide rates. But we don't have the highest suicide rates among developed countries... that would be Japan. But yeah, the US is not looking so good these days.
    oh I meant highest suicide rate via firearm use. Yes Japan has higher rates but they don't generally use firearms to undertake it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by winnipeg View Post
    oh I meant highest suicide rate via firearm use. Yes Japan has higher rates but they don't generally use firearms to undertake it.
    Culturally Japan has a long history of suicide being an okay thing to do. Western culture, especially Christian culture, is very much against it. Comparing them is like apples and oranges.

    If you want to compare suicide rates, check out how much it dropped in Australia once they started common sense gun controls.

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    I personally think commercialized porn could be eradicated or porn industry could be reformed.....and there would still be mass gun violence.

    I think someone has already said it but not all porn is the same. I have been a viewer of porn for a very long time. It would suck to see the good porn go down the drain with the garbage porn.

    The issue of school mass shootings is a muti-faceted issue. I don't even know if it has been proven these kids who did these shooting were addicted to violent porn? What IS known is they accessed guns illegally, probably were not in the right mindset/not getting mental health treatment, their parents/family are slacking, and some of these public schools have piss poor security/guidance counselors no where to be found

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    I moved this over to the lounge because I think it's a discussion that could benefit from the perspective of all members here on the board. Going back to the original post, these sort of reckless ideas can effect the rights of everyone if we stop paying attention.

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    I liked your post for two reasons. The first reason is because it is true. It's not a joke. I live in one of the communities affected by the school shootings and the boy had several gun and porn magazines. There's a lot more to the story that only those of us inside the community are aware of. I'm not saying porn and guns have a lone influence on the decisions these individuals make but in the state of mind the boy was in after having been bullied by the children he murdered and not having a parental presence in his life, it was a known contributing ingredient. No one mentored this boy and to be honest the kids had been afraid of him for a long while and his only sources of comfort seeded his demons. The second reason is because your statement is a voice of reason that is needed in this industry.

    There is a gold mine in scarcity and fear in marketing yet the hand to mouth models insist on keeping free marketing the norm even though most admit can admit it's killing us. Our value is decreasing year after year and I'm not talking self worth, I'm talking about the amount of time and effort it takes just to make $50. @katyboleyn I appreciate your diplomacy an I'm curious if you have an opinion on ways cam models can use news reports like this to their benefit? My personal opinion as a business woman, which has much less value than yours by proxi, is that porn has become more like a charity than an actual thriving business. Performers are undervalued not just by themselves but by the voyeurs, especially the ones who still pay but expect more for less but lets not forget the high percentage of those who log in with no plan on cracking a credit card but have their dick in their hand. I believe it's a farce that our decreased wages has anything to do with saturation but everything to with expectation. I am one of the models I've seen other models complain about. They think I'm a favorite of SM because I'm on the front page even after being gone for up to 6 months at a time. It has nothing to do with favoritism. It takes me a day to go from page 4 to page 1 after a long absence and I believe it's because of Scarcity marketing. I have never given away a single part of my body, not a smoke in guest chat, not a bare foot, and not even an armpit. There is no part of me that doesn't have value and when I place a high priority on them, my value is maintained. I only log in 10 hours a week and I'm on the front page.

    This is not a dis or an insult to anyone. If anyone interprets it as such please ask yourself why.

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    Here's what I discovered today at our local Hy-Vee.

    I actually went and looked at the magazine rack and I did find Republican porn. Literally the entire top two rows were various firearms magazines. Now I understand she wasn't joking.

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    No,again,it is not only conservatives or religious people.It is people who realize what is happening around them and realizing that this is bad just as slavery was bad-That this kind of degradation does affect us all. That the risk for rape is higher today than it was in the past and that the risk of being raped like in porn is something more likely to happen because men get access to violent porn at a mouse click.
    Yes,we need to push back. A good way of doing that would be by speaking up,by telling women that it is ok to have boundaries and by telling women(some actually enjoy being slaves) to question their preferences.Why they feel the need to be degraded? Why they feel the need to feel pain? Why they can no longer feel sexually stimulated unless there is heavy pain involved? Humans seek pleasure not pain,so if these women chose pain,something did happen to them.
    I was a neglected child and i did allow in the past for men to take advantage of me,i did not have the boudaries that i have today and i allowed men to persuade me to do things that at that moment didn't think would affect me but they did.
    And those sick predators who prey on vulnerable,unknowing women and girls must be called out too. Nobody should desire to degrade or be degraded by anyone.In case you do,at least admit that there is something wrong with you,don't bring this shit into mainstream and say that those who dare to disagree are some cave-unliberated prudes that want to restrict people's free will.

    Pornographers should not exist at all. What they are doing is exploitation.All their fortunes should be confiscated(and distributed to women in need) and them sent to jail for exploitation.This is modern slavery. All porn should be homemade by women who want to provide this.They should keep 100% of the income. How the fuck is fair for an actress to be paid 5000$ and put to take 5 dicks in all her holes while they get millions of dollars?
    It seems that because you find pornography offensive and/or you're having trouble competing with more hardcore porn, you've decided that nobody should be allowed to watch or produce pornography. If you don't want to do certain types of porn, you're free not to, but why should those women who are okay with it, be prohibited? You're also coming up with examples that are meant to support your argument rather than show an accurate portrayal of the industry. Not all porn producers are getting millions of dollars while paying actresses only a few thousand. There are quite a few porn stars who are millionaires. There are also quite a few producers who are barely getting by, and probably some who have gone bankrupt.

    The fact that men can get access to porn at a mouse-click reduces rape, not increases it. Because men can get off just bringing up a video on the internet makes it less likely they'll go out and sexually assault or rape women. This isn't just a hypothetical statement. Over the past 23 years, since internet porn became widespread, sexual assault in the US has decreased 44%. There have also been studies done in other countries where porn was once illegal, and after porn became legal, incidences of rape decreased, not increased. Not only did incidences of rape decrease, but so did child sexual abuse. Studies have also shown that sex offenders watch less porn than most men, not more, so all of you porn-stars and cam-girls in this forum are doing everyone a public service by keeping perverts off the streets and in front of their computers or TVs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by winnipeg View Post
    Youtube has started censoring "violent music" by taking down videos which *apparently* promote it, didn't they already have this debate in the 90s? Next they'll be coming for us and taking down sites/content of a sexual nature.
    one of my friends just got his youtube suspended indefinitely...sucks for him--he created it to promote his comic/magazine and he creates crazy videos about Hollywood--I'm sure he can create another one but he had his youtube for years--and yes his videos were risque but not "porn" he is an artist and a writer
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jassi View Post
    one of my friends just got his youtube suspended indefinitely...sucks for him--he created it to promote his comic/magazine and he creates crazy videos about Hollywood--I'm sure he can create another one but he had his youtube for years--and yes his videos were risque but not "porn" he is an artist and a writer
    Tell him to set up an account with pornhub. Its becoming the preferred community for rejected youtubers who have content that toes the line.

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    I don't think that porn is the reason for school shootings. Why is no blame placed on the parents or parental figures of these children who become shooters? I think that the destruction of the family plays a major role. Many kids are growing up in broken homes with struggling single moms, deadbeat dads, families broken up by divorce, no structure or anyone teaching them or setting a good example. The traditional family structure of the 1950's with a happy stay at home mom whose only job was to take care of her kids, husband, and the home isn't reality anymore. More and more single moms are having to work several jobs just to support her family, leaving little time for her kids. Kids are feeling neglected and like no one cares for them and becoming angry, sad, or depressed. Kids unsupervised will give in to peer pressure and want to try to fit in somewhere that they feel loved and accepted, to make up for the void that they feel at home. That's why some kids get involved with gangs, because they feel a sense of family and belonging there. On top of it mental illness such as depression and anxiety has increased among people. It can be situational due to poverty and the stress that comes with that but it can also be genetic as well. Since there's so much stigma towards mental illness many people might not seek the help that they need. They could be too focused on making money just to survive that they don't see the signs in their own children. Video games have become more violent. Movies have become violent. Tv shows are violent too. All of those mediums are desensitizing our children to violence. Violent porn doesn't help either but I do not think that it is the sole reason for school shootings.

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