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    Hi there,

    I need to change my life and did not find any job, at my age nobody hires me, I tried.
    I still look good and decided to video chat, camming. I am 55 yr.
    I need your advice please to know what to do in front of the camera and what not to do.
    One important issue is that I do not know what site to use to have success at my age.

    Thanks very much for your precious and kind help!

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    Default Re: 55 yo start camming - a little help please

    You can find a lot of info in the "Starting Place for New Camgirls" thread at the top of the forum.

    If you're nervous about camming, I'd suggest getting into phone sex instead. Niteflirt has a ton of traffic. You'd have to do your research and learn the ropes, but it can be a great alternative with really great income.

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    Hi, there's quite a few of us mature camgirls out there. Which country are you in?

    There isn't really a what not to do, it's more about what would you like to do? Have you looked at any sites and profiles of other girls to see what they do?
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    Hello BFX and welcome! I am a mature cammodel as well. There is a wealth of information on this forum!

    Camming is what you make it for the most part. You set your boundaries, your schedule and your hustle. It's all up to you.

    There are many sites of course but the private based sites may be more up your alley. Chaturbate and MyFreeCams tend to have more of a public show vibe to them and are very intricate to use. Private based sites (streammate, Cams, etc..) you don't really and aren't really allowed to do anything overtly sexual in Free Chat and most of it is done in private. Streammate does record shows and put them on porn tube sites so be careful there....

    Also, as Seashell said, phone sex is another good option and a good way to get your feet wet before having to broadcast on cam

    Shoot me a PM if you would like and I will be happy to provide guidance

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    There is way less competition than if you are 19 where there is plenty.
    I'm almost 50, some of my friends are 50 plus and do very well.
    Making money is easier now than it was when I was younger.
    Video blogs on Camming industry & how to succeed at camming.

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    I'm 51 and have been a fetish/adult model for 8 years now. Older women are pretty hot in this industry..no reason you can't make good money

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    Loooove it! I'm 52 (but Jess Ryan is 47) haha, Sam's right, less competition when you're older. I had no idea there was such a nitch for MILF and mature cam-models.
    I do well on all 3 of my sites, Chaturbate, Streamate and BongaCams.
    I used to display my true age, but then it was an endless...how old are you? really? you can't be THAT old? blah blah it just went on and on, so much it drove me crazy...so I settled for 47 and don't get the age
    questions quite as much.
    I do get an occasional troll and it's always about being an old hag, or dried up gran-ma....I laugh and tell him/her that this old hag is laughing all the way to the bank ;-) cha ching $$


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    I was 49 when I started, 57 now
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    Thanks a lot for useful tips. On what site to go, please?

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    Im turning 40 this year and this thread makes me feel so much happier about that

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    Quote Originally Posted by DeepThoughts View Post
    Im turning 40 this year and this thread makes me feel so much happier about that
    Absolutely. I'm hitting 30 in the next couple years and all the younger cam girls who make YT videos have said "you can't cam forever in this industry." Then I see posts like these and I'm like, actually if I put the work in, I can >

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    ^^^ projection. I’ve been guilty of the same thinking, but it’s a market driven industry in a capitalist society. (I’m stealing that from someone on here, but I can’t remember her name....hmmm....Sam?)

    Im sorry you’re saying no one will hire you? Ageism is that bad?

    My friend taught at a beauty school and said because of her age no one would hire her as a professor! I’m just shocked by ageism. It made me feel a little less alone. It doesn’t matter what industry you’re in.

    Let us know how you are doing.
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    I started at 26 yo and am 43 now, looks like i am going to cam for some more years considering i cant work something else anymore as i wanted and planned even i have qualifications, not outside the house anyway (reason is health issues) so if i work at home why not camming?
    As long i can still make enough money for my needs i'll continue to cam.
    Call me granny in a few years

    (Edited to add: in this paragraph below I am talking about vanilla jobs not camming and I refer to my country only)

    Regarding ageism, yes it's bad if u dont have a solid career behind you and even then looking for a job at a certain age is going to be difficult to get, at least here in Europe in my country. They want young people willing to work hard and long hrs, have the energy and less demands as salary.
    Sad but true, if u over 40 u already not desirable anymore unless as i said, u really are a good specialist and have a solid career behind u.

    Edited: in the last paragraph I talk about vanilla jobs not camming.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CamChik View Post
    Hello BFX and welcome! I am a mature cammodel as well. There is a wealth of information on this forum!

    Camming is what you make it for the most part. You set your boundaries, your schedule and your hustle. It's all up to you.
    I love this so much! I find myself telling people this on a regular in regards to other things like ethnicity and weight. I won't deny that stigmas exist but when I'm online I can be whomever I want to be. I imagine mature models must channel that same sort of energy? In fact I think by working online for so long it's helped me with salesmanship and projection in my mainstream life. I don't walk away from opportunities because I'm afraid I may be too whatever. I use to do that, like talk myself out of winning. It's amazing what you can get done once you get out of your own head and just do it.

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    Thanks.
    On what site to go for mature ladies please?
    Only one person told me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BFX View Post
    Thanks.
    On what site to go for mature ladies please?
    Only one person told me.
    try out a few of the major ones. you never know what's going to be a honey hole! While I don't think there are any milf and gilf specific cam sites, I honestly can't think of any who point blank discriminate. take a scroll through the first couple pages on here and you'll find a few sites worth trying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BFX View Post
    Thanks.
    On what site to go for mature ladies please?
    Only one person told me.
    Any site! It doesn't matter. Trust me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    I love this so much! I find myself telling people this on a regular in regards to other things like ethnicity and weight. I won't deny that stigmas exist but when I'm online I can be whomever I want to be. I imagine mature models must channel that same sort of energy? In fact I think by working online for so long it's helped me with salesmanship and projection in my mainstream life. I don't walk away from opportunities because I'm afraid I may be too whatever. I use to do that, like talk myself out of winning. It's amazing what you can get done once you get out of your own head and just do it.
    Honey, as long as you take care of yourself, you can stay in the adult industry forever.

    I read an article about a porn star who's 80!!! Yes, 80. She makes good money and is having a blast. She also has several younger bfs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KatM View Post
    I started at 26 yo and am 43 now, looks like i am going to cam for some more years considering i cant work something else anymore as i wanted and planned even i have qualifications, not outside the house anyway (reason is health issues) so if i work at home why not camming?
    As long i can still make enough money for my needs i'll continue to cam.
    Call me granny in a few years

    Regarding ageism, yes it's bad if u dont have a solid career behind you and even then looking for a job at a certain age is going to be difficult to get, at least here in Europe in my country. They want young people willing to work hard and long hrs, have the energy and less demands as salary.
    Sad but true, if u over 40 u already not desirable anymore unless as i said, u really are a good specialist and have a solid career behind u.
    Where are you getting this stuff, "if u over 40 u already not desirable anymore"..not true.

    At least in this industry it's not. MILF and cougar are two HUGE categories.

    I will also say, although I'm 51, I have no trouble finding guys, either. I always thought once you hit a certain age ppl will ignore you on online dating sites. That is certainly not true.

    In my 40s I mostly dated younger guys. When I was 40 I dated a 23 yr old for 4 yrs. My most recent l/t thing was with a guy 20 yrs younger than me. The only reason it didn't work out is because he wanted kids.

    Stop buying into the sexist idea that if you're a woman, you should just go kill yourself once you hit 40. It's totally NOT true, and you can see all these celebrities who look great after 40 and 50. Halle Berry..Demi Moore..Nicole Kidman..JFC, even Sophia Loren looks amazing at her age.

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    Quote Originally Posted by caramelcraze View Post
    try out a few of the major ones. you never know what's going to be a honey hole! While I don't think there are any milf and gilf specific cam sites, I honestly can't think of any who point blank discriminate. take a scroll through the first couple pages on here and you'll find a few sites worth trying.
    Most cam sites have a MILF or a cougar category. Dunno if they have GILF. I don't consider myself old enough for that yet even tho technically I COULD be a grandma. Thank goodness I never had kids. I don't think I could stomach some rugrat calling me granny! lol

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    I'm just going to leave this here. Something to ponder.
    I didn't start camming until I was IN my 50's. I don't have anything to compare it to, because camming was good to me from the very first day I turned on my cam 8 years ago.
    The only thing I regret is not trying it several years earlier.
    And because of pre existing health conditions, my stamina isn't great.
    Other than that, it's all good.
    If I were to suggest anything, it would to be to be strong in sales techniques.
    Thankfully I am, so I don't need to be on cam that long.
    * You can also lie about your age.
    Nobody believes I'm as old as 35 as it is. So I just keep it in a range that's not going to have guys just talking about that all day.
    Whatever you decide to do, best or luck.
    Please keep us posted.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misspandora View Post
    Where are you getting this stuff, "if u over 40 u already not desirable anymore"..not true.

    At least in this industry it's not. MILF and cougar are two HUGE categories.

    I will also say, although I'm 51, I have no trouble finding guys, either. I always thought once you hit a certain age ppl will ignore you on online dating sites. That is certainly not true.

    In my 40s I mostly dated younger guys. When I was 40 I dated a 23 yr old for 4 yrs. My most recent l/t thing was with a guy 20 yrs younger than me. The only reason it didn't work out is because he wanted kids.

    Stop buying into the sexist idea that if you're a woman, you should just go kill yourself once you hit 40. It's totally NOT true, and you can see all these celebrities who look great after 40 and 50. Halle Berry..Demi Moore..Nicole Kidman..JFC, even Sophia Loren looks amazing at her age.
    I was talking about vanilla jobs not camming ....

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    Im sure many girls already helped you so i just want to wish you great luck and tell you how amazing you are for trying something new.
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    I personally think you'll do very well. I actually wish I looked more 'milfy'. I'm 33 - but look more like 28/29. I'm kind of in that weird category of not looking quite old enough to be classed as a 'milf' but not young enough to be that cutey girl next door. Just a tip, fetish taboo content works well if you're down for making clips on sites like clips4sale.

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    I find that whatever you may get rejected for in the real world is what you’ll get celebrated for in the camming world.
    How wonderful is that?!

    There’s a huge fetish for milf/gilf. At 55, you’re a built in fetish 😊
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