I for sure would not let the government get involved if I am a sex worker. next you know they are trying to take your kids and you are doing nothing wrong...not sayin, just sayin. They always want to knwo way too mcuh about your life. You can do this without them, there has to be a way!!!
I do understand where you are. I have been there and back a few times. The ladies here speak 100% truth on every point.
I do understand how difficult it can be to save a money cushion when you don't have the time time or energy, I honestly do know where you are right now.
So, I can say with absolute certainty, I regretted quitting my job going ft cam without listening to this forum and getting myself prepared for the transition..... I just jumped.... and my world tumbled into a downward spiral. I was not prepared to be my own boss nor was I ready to realize how fickle cam money was going to be. Now I have to maintain a
And yes, summer can be slower and you can over come this, but you need to be on your game to do it.
So..... game plan.......
Do you have vacation days you can take to cam?
Do you have someone who can watch the babies on that day? Can you do some sort of trade with someone for a few days?
You have to have at least 2 days off a week right? Can you cam in the wee hours on those days? I get it, I am unable to work all day and then come home and get on cam. I am an accountant and I am spent at teh end of the day. But I made myself very valuable at work and threatened to leave unless they moved my schedule around to fit me (which is when I cam now) I do 4 - 10 hour days.
Take this money and pay your rent ahead a month or two. Pay as many bills as you possible can -- I cant save money so I pay things ahead.. it is an awesome feeling to boot. Cam is fickle..... unless you have perfected your hustle and discipline, don't quit your day job
Not having the energy... yup, having a desk job took it out of me. However, I have learned a trick.... I learned to meditate and control my thoughts because my thoughts become reality. When I am going on 5 hours of sleep I hate it but I tell myself in the morning - WOW YOU ARE NOT EVEN TIRED! Although I am, I don't feel it. Your thoughts are heavy.... this is depression weighing you down for sure. Depression itself takes it out of you. Only you can change your thoughts. I laid in bed for 40 hours straight once in an episode.
What is your vanilla job (you don't need to answer that, just getting the gears turning). What is the next level on your career path? I have found when I am ready to jump levels I go to temp services and let them find me a permanent position with more money and the next level.
Hell, they can even get you pt jobs so at the very least your roof and internet is getting paid for. And for $15 an hour? I see a lot of at home customer service jobs for this pay - look into Rat Race Rebellion, they have legit leads on these jobs from big companies. You could at least cut down some costs of living that way with a commute right? I personally would LOVE to work for American Airlines at home reservations and get free flights to boot lol.
I hope this got your wheels turning... think about all of your options, even if they seem crazy at first because you never know what thoughts they will lead you to. Once you find a way to get you bills ahead and you have perfected your craft, then jump. I have been doing this since 2010 and I would never go cam ft again unless it was only for a few months and I had a solid plan. The monotony sets in from cam and I loose my mind.
Write out your plan and stick to it!
Best wishes dear... sorry it was so long and I hope you can learn from my mistakes.
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