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    Mind Blowing HELP!! I need to cam full time for the sake of my mental health!

    For multiple reasons I'm desperate to quit my vanilla job and cam full time.
    I've been increasingly depressed the past few years and even with making $15/hr at my vanilla job and TRYING to find the energy to cam when I'm childfree/after bedtime, I'm barely making ends meet and basically losing my mind at this point.
    I KNOW if i just had the available childcare i could make enough money (if not more!) camming full time...even though its scary to consider quitting my job to cam full time when I'm as broke as I am...
    I have two kids, one it's not yet old enough to attend school and DHS pays a portion of her daycare costs right now.
    I wanted to know if anyone has had experience getting approved for Child Care hours applying as if you are self-employed (I will use the cover up gig, not telling DHS im a cam model)
    In order to report that I am self-employed I have to estimate the amount of hours I am working and also turn in my proof of income, which I will be using my streamate check stubs and my bank statements for...but how can I get approved for as many hours as possible?

    ...sorry if i was rambling...just cammed a bit, its 1:21am and gotta be up for work and out the house with the kids by 645 am at the latest.

    TIA for replies

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    Default Re: HELP!! I need to cam full time for the sake of my mental health!

    Honestly if you are going to cam full time as your only job you are better off not dealing with DHS.

    Could you marathon and cam as many hours as you can before you quit, save up a month's expenses as a cushion and then quit? If you are camming full time you can probably pay your bills and child care fine. With the full time cam income you probably won't qualify for the child care anyway.


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    Default Re: HELP!! I need to cam full time for the sake of my mental health!

    don't quit yet. Not until you have a savings (at least 3 months) and an emergency fund --- bare minimum.

    Ask HR if you can work part time or telecommute.

    Ask for a raise or promotion.

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    Default Re: HELP!! I need to cam full time for the sake of my mental health!

    Yeah, it might best that you create a money cushion for at least three months. There's no need to rush to quit your job yet. It might be a bit hectic, but you could just cam as many hours as possible until your deadline for quitting (if that's what you really want). Even if you can't qualify for Child Care later on, if you're making a comfortable income, then what's the prob?

    I would just say don't rush yet in quitting. Make a plan by having at least 3 incomes stashed away while you transition.

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    Yeah I agree. Make sure you have like 6000$ minimum stashed away in a bank account. Camming can be very insecure and especially with a child a steady income is important. I dont know if you have a partner? Maybe find a part time vanilla job and cam on the side? I have different side hustles too and many girls here do.

    I have no idea what DHS is but if its like CPS I think you should reconsider even camming at all for the upcoming time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    Honestly if you are going to cam full time as your only job you are better off not dealing with DHS.

    Could you marathon and cam as many hours as you can before you quit, save up a month's expenses as a cushion and then quit? If you are camming full time you can probably pay your bills and child care fine. With the full time cam income you probably won't qualify for the child care anyway.
    I'm trying to hold on to my sanity and do that.
    I work a pretty physically and mentally demanding job and then I'm a single mom of 2, so sometimes I'm just dead exhausted by the time theyre in bed and I have the freedom to cam.
    I'm trying my hardest to build a foundation with camming that will allow me to cam full time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AuroraJade View Post
    Yeah I agree. Make sure you have like 6000$ minimum stashed away in a bank account. Camming can be very insecure and especially with a child a steady income is important. I dont know if you have a partner? Maybe find a part time vanilla job and cam on the side? I have different side hustles too and many girls here do.

    I have no idea what DHS is but if its like CPS I think you should reconsider even camming at all for the upcoming time.
    DHS isnt like CPS in that they dont strictly deal with child welfare...DHS handles state assistance like medicaid, food stamps, and in this case help paying for daycare. I'm considering a part time vanilla job (my job now needs me FULL TIME and is very physically/mentally demanding)

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    Default Re: HELP!! I need to cam full time for the sake of my mental health!

    Here's another thread on it that might help - https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...&highlight=DHS
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    Quote Originally Posted by naomi_doll View Post
    Here's another thread on it that might help - https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...&highlight=DHS
    Thanks! I found that thread last night and thought it was helpful but was wondering specifically about childcare assistance. Thank u!

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    Do not quit unless you have a decent chunk of money saved up and put away.

    What might happen is you will make too much money on cam to qualify for Medicaid and benefits at your state but make too little to support you and your family.

    Im kind of in your position extremely unhappy with my day job but I don’t have a kid. Try and get your job to make you part time or find another part time vanilla job. Camming doesn’t offer a 401k or healthcare benefits and you need to take that into account.

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    I'm sorry I had to look twice at this thread....camming for mental health? I usually have to take a break from camming to sustain my mental health. Don't get me wrong, I love camming, but sheesh some days it just wears you down, especially on the very slow days. Camming is great money, but you have to work at it just like any other job. Good luck to you in whatever you decide to do. I kept my part time vanilla job for my sanity, I just can't do cam full time.


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    Me too. Having camming as your only source of income is very hard. Thats why I am going to quit and going back to university. The insecurity is too hard for me personally.

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    Are your kids fathers helping? If not, you could ask them and/or report them to get them to help financially with child care

    Also consider some stress reduction techniques to help you improve your mental balance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by babymama View Post
    For multiple reasons I'm desperate to quit my vanilla job and cam full time.
    I've been increasingly depressed the past few years and even with making $15/hr at my vanilla job and TRYING to find the energy to cam when I'm childfree/after bedtime, I'm barely making ends meet and basically losing my mind at this point.
    I KNOW if i just had the available childcare i could make enough money (if not more!) camming full time...even though its scary to consider quitting my job to cam full time when I'm as broke as I am...
    I have two kids, one it's not yet old enough to attend school and DHS pays a portion of her daycare costs right now.
    I wanted to know if anyone has had experience getting approved for Child Care hours applying as if you are self-employed (I will use the cover up gig, not telling DHS im a cam model)
    In order to report that I am self-employed I have to estimate the amount of hours I am working and also turn in my proof of income, which I will be using my streamate check stubs and my bank statements for...but how can I get approved for as many hours as possible?

    ...sorry if i was rambling...just cammed a bit, its 1:21am and gotta be up for work and out the house with the kids by 645 am at the latest.

    TIA for replies

    I wouldnt quit to cam full time right now. Summer can be the slowest time of the year for camming and a lot of performers are struggling right now. Cam isnt guaranteed income

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    I for sure would not let the government get involved if I am a sex worker. next you know they are trying to take your kids and you are doing nothing wrong...not sayin, just sayin. They always want to knwo way too mcuh about your life. You can do this without them, there has to be a way!!!

    I do understand where you are. I have been there and back a few times. The ladies here speak 100% truth on every point.

    I do understand how difficult it can be to save a money cushion when you don't have the time time or energy, I honestly do know where you are right now.

    So, I can say with absolute certainty, I regretted quitting my job going ft cam without listening to this forum and getting myself prepared for the transition..... I just jumped.... and my world tumbled into a downward spiral. I was not prepared to be my own boss nor was I ready to realize how fickle cam money was going to be. Now I have to maintain a

    And yes, summer can be slower and you can over come this, but you need to be on your game to do it.


    So..... game plan.......

    Do you have vacation days you can take to cam?
    Do you have someone who can watch the babies on that day? Can you do some sort of trade with someone for a few days?

    You have to have at least 2 days off a week right? Can you cam in the wee hours on those days? I get it, I am unable to work all day and then come home and get on cam. I am an accountant and I am spent at teh end of the day. But I made myself very valuable at work and threatened to leave unless they moved my schedule around to fit me (which is when I cam now) I do 4 - 10 hour days.

    Take this money and pay your rent ahead a month or two. Pay as many bills as you possible can -- I cant save money so I pay things ahead.. it is an awesome feeling to boot. Cam is fickle..... unless you have perfected your hustle and discipline, don't quit your day job


    Not having the energy... yup, having a desk job took it out of me. However, I have learned a trick.... I learned to meditate and control my thoughts because my thoughts become reality. When I am going on 5 hours of sleep I hate it but I tell myself in the morning - WOW YOU ARE NOT EVEN TIRED! Although I am, I don't feel it. Your thoughts are heavy.... this is depression weighing you down for sure. Depression itself takes it out of you. Only you can change your thoughts. I laid in bed for 40 hours straight once in an episode.


    What is your vanilla job (you don't need to answer that, just getting the gears turning). What is the next level on your career path? I have found when I am ready to jump levels I go to temp services and let them find me a permanent position with more money and the next level.

    Hell, they can even get you pt jobs so at the very least your roof and internet is getting paid for. And for $15 an hour? I see a lot of at home customer service jobs for this pay - look into Rat Race Rebellion, they have legit leads on these jobs from big companies. You could at least cut down some costs of living that way with a commute right? I personally would LOVE to work for American Airlines at home reservations and get free flights to boot lol.

    I hope this got your wheels turning... think about all of your options, even if they seem crazy at first because you never know what thoughts they will lead you to. Once you find a way to get you bills ahead and you have perfected your craft, then jump. I have been doing this since 2010 and I would never go cam ft again unless it was only for a few months and I had a solid plan. The monotony sets in from cam and I loose my mind.

    Write out your plan and stick to it!

    Best wishes dear... sorry it was so long and I hope you can learn from my mistakes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JackAlexander View Post
    I for sure would not let the government get involved if I am a sex worker. next you know they are trying to take your kids and you are doing nothing wrong...not sayin, just sayin. They always want to knwo way too mcuh about your life. You can do this without them, there has to be a way!!!

    I do understand where you are. I have been there and back a few times. The ladies here speak 100% truth on every point.

    I do understand how difficult it can be to save a money cushion when you don't have the time time or energy, I honestly do know where you are right now.

    So, I can say with absolute certainty, I regretted quitting my job going ft cam without listening to this forum and getting myself prepared for the transition..... I just jumped.... and my world tumbled into a downward spiral. I was not prepared to be my own boss nor was I ready to realize how fickle cam money was going to be. Now I have to maintain a

    And yes, summer can be slower and you can over come this, but you need to be on your game to do it.


    So..... game plan.......

    Do you have vacation days you can take to cam?
    Do you have someone who can watch the babies on that day? Can you do some sort of trade with someone for a few days?

    You have to have at least 2 days off a week right? Can you cam in the wee hours on those days? I get it, I am unable to work all day and then come home and get on cam. I am an accountant and I am spent at teh end of the day. But I made myself very valuable at work and threatened to leave unless they moved my schedule around to fit me (which is when I cam now) I do 4 - 10 hour days.

    Take this money and pay your rent ahead a month or two. Pay as many bills as you possible can -- I cant save money so I pay things ahead.. it is an awesome feeling to boot. Cam is fickle..... unless you have perfected your hustle and discipline, don't quit your day job


    Not having the energy... yup, having a desk job took it out of me. However, I have learned a trick.... I learned to meditate and control my thoughts because my thoughts become reality. When I am going on 5 hours of sleep I hate it but I tell myself in the morning - WOW YOU ARE NOT EVEN TIRED! Although I am, I don't feel it. Your thoughts are heavy.... this is depression weighing you down for sure. Depression itself takes it out of you. Only you can change your thoughts. I laid in bed for 40 hours straight once in an episode.


    What is your vanilla job (you don't need to answer that, just getting the gears turning). What is the next level on your career path? I have found when I am ready to jump levels I go to temp services and let them find me a permanent position with more money and the next level.

    Hell, they can even get you pt jobs so at the very least your roof and internet is getting paid for. And for $15 an hour? I see a lot of at home customer service jobs for this pay - look into Rat Race Rebellion, they have legit leads on these jobs from big companies. You could at least cut down some costs of living that way with a commute right? I personally would LOVE to work for American Airlines at home reservations and get free flights to boot lol.

    I hope this got your wheels turning... think about all of your options, even if they seem crazy at first because you never know what thoughts they will lead you to. Once you find a way to get you bills ahead and you have perfected your craft, then jump. I have been doing this since 2010 and I would never go cam ft again unless it was only for a few months and I had a solid plan. The monotony sets in from cam and I loose my mind.

    Write out your plan and stick to it!

    Best wishes dear... sorry it was so long and I hope you can learn from my mistakes.

    I love you for this response and I'm taking notes on all of it.
    I was able to drag myself out of my funk enough to make it to work a half day today...I realized beforehand what you said about positive thinking. M thoughts have been very dark the past few days.
    Sorry if I dont reply to everything you stated but like I said I WILL be taking notes. Especially about the working from home deal definitely gonna look into that.

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    I agree with miss.a.p. Ask to have a meeting with the manager/ owner and explain that you need a raise. Tell them you've been searching for other jobs with better pay lately because you need at least $x amount. If they don't want to lose you, they will give you a raise. Dentists can afford to pay their assistants properly.

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    Default Re: HELP!! I need to cam full time for the sake of my mental health!

    I tried to respond to your post last night but the site kept logging me out when I hit "submit reply".

    I am a sufferer of severe depression and feel qualified to respond to your question. My suggestion is that you do not quit your Vanilla job. It important to your well being. Once you start losing structure, like schedules, expectations and routines it becomes too easy to start making excuses for not being able to get out of bed and for sitting around wasting time on things you enjoy doing much more than being on cam. Your psyche will hype you up to the idea of "freedom" when actually that freedom becomes your prison. Camming to a depressed person is increased isolation and increased exposure to negative attention. You have to maintain balance.

    Just don't do it. Stay active with other people and with your community and keep the ties you've forged with the people you have been routinely interacting with. It's a very important part of your well being.



    Quote Originally Posted by babymama View Post
    For multiple reasons I'm desperate to quit my vanilla job and cam full time.
    I've been increasingly depressed the past few years and even with making $15/hr at my vanilla job and TRYING to find the energy to cam when I'm childfree/after bedtime, I'm barely making ends meet and basically losing my mind at this point.
    I KNOW if i just had the available childcare i could make enough money (if not more!) camming full time...even though its scary to consider quitting my job to cam full time when I'm as broke as I am...
    I have two kids, one it's not yet old enough to attend school and DHS pays a portion of her daycare costs right now.
    I wanted to know if anyone has had experience getting approved for Child Care hours applying as if you are self-employed (I will use the cover up gig, not telling DHS im a cam model)
    In order to report that I am self-employed I have to estimate the amount of hours I am working and also turn in my proof of income, which I will be using my streamate check stubs and my bank statements for...but how can I get approved for as many hours as possible?

    ...sorry if i was rambling...just cammed a bit, its 1:21am and gotta be up for work and out the house with the kids by 645 am at the latest.

    TIA for replies

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    This is two of us who are saying the same thing is different ways. I urge you to go back in your thinking. Just turn around and stay far far away. Find a second income that has more positive interactions and rewards. Are you creative? Turn your dark energies into something that shines brighter than your daughters smile. Put your stories into quilts and sell them on Etsy. Paint your emotions and put them up for auction on jasper or eBay. Just don't sell your mental health to your cam. You'll go backwards if you do.

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    So, I can say with absolute certainty, I regretted quitting my job going ft cam without listening to this forum and getting myself prepared for the transition..... I just jumped.... and my world tumbled into a downward spiral. I was not prepared to be my own boss nor was I ready to realize how fickle cam money was going to be.

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    I think this is the worst time to go into camming full time, the summer months are always the slowest although you may bypass the summer slow period by being new but like others have echoed, make sure you have something to fall back on because money from this industry is up and down.

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    This site is being screwy again, and giving me that weird “You must wait 30 seconds between posts” message out of nowhere...

    As someone who’s jumped the gun and quit jobs before having a new one lined up, I would hold off on quitting if you can...unless you’re already camming part-time, and earning enough from that to quit.

    It’s hard af being an adult, man. I wasted my time taking a bus someplace to apply for temporary cash assistance, and the guy said I probably won’t get anything (or very, very little) since I’m starting a new job. Smh. On top of that, they require TCA recipients to attend some work training program or something. I said um...what’s the point in doing all that when I HAVE been hired for a new job already? SMH. No child support (which was court ordered) received either...
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    Quote Originally Posted by babymama View Post
    For multiple reasons I'm desperate to quit my vanilla job and cam full time.
    I've been increasingly depressed the past few years and even with making $15/hr at my vanilla job and TRYING to find the energy to cam when I'm childfree/after bedtime, I'm barely making ends meet and basically losing my mind at this point.
    I KNOW if i just had the available childcare i could make enough money (if not more!) camming full time...even though its scary to consider quitting my job to cam full time when I'm as broke as I am...
    I have two kids, one it's not yet old enough to attend school and DHS pays a portion of her daycare costs right now.
    I wanted to know if anyone has had experience getting approved for Child Care hours applying as if you are self-employed (I will use the cover up gig, not telling DHS im a cam model)
    In order to report that I am self-employed I have to estimate the amount of hours I am working and also turn in my proof of income, which I will be using my streamate check stubs and my bank statements for...but how can I get approved for as many hours as possible?

    ...sorry if i was rambling...just cammed a bit, its 1:21am and gotta be up for work and out the house with the kids by 645 am at the latest.

    TIA for replies
    What made me go full-time camming in 2004, was that I was making more then my day job paycheck, but that was based on working 8 hours at that job and coming home pulling in another 8 or more hours.

    there was no gap in between getting paid from when I quit my job and cammed full-time. I had small savings and I have no children. So all I had to do was focus on work and work. but being full-time and not planning working and a social life so i can balance off a happier well being wasn't a plan at the time so overtime i burnt out. You pretty much have to make a new routine for yourself if you want to go at it full-time and full-time self employed you almost need 1 year emergency funds.

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    Default Re: HELP!! I need to cam full time for the sake of my mental health!

    Thank you everyone for your honest opinions and guidance!
    I really truly appreciate the advice because I know you ladies are more in tune with what I'm going thru not only camming but some relate as mother or relate in having another vanilla job.
    I've had a very tough past few weeks and I obviously wasnt thinking this through enough.
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    All in all I will continue soldiering on with my day job (the office is corporate owned btw...its not just some cheapskate dentist lol I love the dentist I assist for though which makes life SO much easier bc I've dealt with some real dicks..pun intended ), while camming part time and keep building my cam experience, quality, and schedule.

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