Hi all! I recently went to a new club and met a dancer that I really connected with. She gave me a very romantic hustle (which is exactly what I was after), and we exchanged numbers. We texted a bit the next day and I dropped back by because she said she was working. On that visit, she spent most of her shift with me just hanging out at the table. We had a few dances, and I told her repeatedly that she was free to go mingle at other tables if she wanted to make some extra money. But she seemed content to just sit and cuddle.
I’d love to see her regularly (1-2x a week), but I couldn’t help feeling like I was costing her money on my second visit. I’m not a high-roller: the first night, I probably gave her $200 for about an hour of time; but the second night was something like $300 for almost four hours.
Should I limit myself to trips on slower days? Should I wait for her to text me an invite back to the club before just showing up? What’s your preferred “regular” etiquette? I know she can decide for herself whether she prefers to sit or hustle, but she’s also young and claims to be new to dancing. So I guess I’m asking for advice on how to make it a mutually beneficial situation.
Thanks in advance!


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