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    Default Letting the lies fade away over time...?

    Like many of you I have a dancer persona with some fake details about my school/career. One thing I have struggled with is with the few long term regulars I have had deciding whether to keep the lies going or not.

    So far with regulars I don't dislike I just let the bullshit fade away over time. For me personally it is really hard not to become more honest with someone you talk to regularly for months and months. So I tend to stop talking about my fake career plans and then if asked about them I say I am putting them on hold. That has worked well for me.

    How do you guys deal with this?

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    Default Re: Letting the lies fade away over time...?

    It depends on the specific regular. With some custies it is VERY IMPORTANT to keep up your ~fake persona~ in order to keep them as a customer and with others they just wanna hang and/or are very willing to send you money or gifts for real, non sexy problems so you can drop the persona and relax around them (obviously keeping enough info personal for your own safety).

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    Default Re: Letting the lies fade away over time...?

    Keep them lies going.....most people can't handle the truth

    Plus it's not like they are going to become husbands or anything.

    The chances of that are 1 to 850,000 = very rare.

    In the rare even honesty is required it can be explained that acting is part of the job.

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    Default Re: Letting the lies fade away over time...?

    Nope, I just keep the persona going for years. Look, these guys are not owed any explanation at all because you are just a dancer....not their girlfriend nor wife.
    Wolves may lurk in every guise / Now as then, 'tis simple truth / Sweetest tongue has sharpest tooth.

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    They're not lies,they're part of your character you created and are what your customers are paying for.

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    My tits are fake enough. My customers know that I have a boyfriend and that I'm a demagogue in training. One guy asked if I was lying to him. "Why should I lie? Only ugly people and politicians lie. Plus I don't care enough about your feelings to deceive you."
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    Default Re: Letting the lies fade away over time...?

    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    "why should i lie? Only ugly people and politicians lie. Plus i don't care enough about your feelings to deceive you."
    very good!!

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    The best thing to do is mix the lies with some truth ime. If I'm hustling a guy who wants to be wowed by my non-stripping accomplishments, I'll mix in a few of my own and a few of a close friend or SO's, for better bullshitting ability/being able to draw from experiences that are likely to impress that customer specifically. But I always keep it vague under the pretense of not wanting to mix up my 'businesses.' In reality I chill at home with my hubs and chinchilla 90% of the time I'm not at work. Not quite what guys who want conversation in the club are going for.. lol.

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