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    Default I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    Im 20 and not new but still not really experienced... this one guy saw me dancing bar stage and liked me i made tips off him when it was time to come down and he was talking to me, i already got the vibe he was going to be weird. south american older thinking id actually go for him in real life. I played like i could not understand what he was saying due to the language barrier and his accent and excused myself. hid in the locker room and then the bathroom for almost an hour since we werent busy came out when i thought it was safe and then he pulls me over to the side because he was still there. again I disappear for an hour. By the time i come back hes still there and just asks me for a lap dance off the bat, asked about longer ones, i only sold shorts because i did not like him and he unfortunately started buying them back to back. So i gave him a lap dance. like ass on the lap lap dance not facing him it was all good. then front facing lap dance he keeps trying to pull me directly onto his crotch and im pulling myself down away from it, which is causing an annoying jerking motion i literslly hated him. i lean up with space between us because i wasnt feeling him, i look down and my fucking heart stopped his ugly weird pathetic d*ckhead skin and all was peeking out of his pants. i stood up and freaked out and could not tell if he did that in that moment where i caught it and stopped or if he did that while my ass was on his lap and i just hadnt known. i cant tell if it touched me or any part of my vagina, granted my thong is more of a cheeky and not a g string thank god. I eas patting my crotch when i walked away to make sure i couldnt feel my own skin down there and i couldnt i feel like i was covered well, but would i have felt it if it touched me? Is there a chance it did and now i have stds. I was angry the whole night and woke up mad about this.......

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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    You would know if it touched you. The unwanted touch of gross dick skin is something you never forget. I know from experience.

    Anyway, you don't have an STD. I'm sorry you had to go through that, though.

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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    Something very similar happened to me, but I was in the executive room with him when it happened.
    I'm almost positive that you didn't catch anything but you can always get tested just to ease your nerves.
    I'm sorry that happened to you :/

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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    He is a creep and should, at the least, be reported to management so they can revoke his admission privileges. In the future though, Listen to your intuition. If a dude gives you creepy vibes/overly aggressive during vip then do not force yourself to do business with him.

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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    Quote Originally Posted by Winged Dinghy View Post
    You would know if it touched you. The unwanted touch of gross dick skin is something you never forget. I know from experience.

    Anyway, you don't have an STD. I'm sorry you had to go through that, though.
    Jesus sorry about your experience too, thanks for the response I realized after I posted this that I would of seen it when I turned around to face him so I probably caught it right when it happened but god what a creep.

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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    Aww, thank you! It was a long time ago, and I've gotten counseling.

    What infuriates me now is how nobody takes sexual assault seriously when it happens in the club. If that happened to you anywhere else, the guy could be prosecuted. But getting a club manager to press charges? Never going to happen. I hate that we exist in a legal gray area where we aren't fully protected by the law.

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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    I would journal some more about what happened in detail if you can. Journaling right after a traumatic event or talking about it helps the brain file it away so it doesn’t become pstd.

    Yes! It’s absolutely crazy he didn’t get arrested and prosecuted. Unfortunately it’s normalized in our industry.

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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    I'm so sorry for this happening to you but in reality I'm sure we can all tell a similar story. The first time that happened to me was my second or maybe third night dancing. I told the bouncer that was watching the room and all that dirty bastard did was laugh and say "it happens honey" . I found out later that he was a club regular and he was not going away any time soon. Thank God he moved away several weeks later.

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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    delete.
    Last edited by m1nx; 11-02-2018 at 01:26 PM.

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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    It doesnt seem safe to work at clubs that normalize that behavior cause what else they letting slide?

    https://criminal-law.freeadvice.com/...posure-law.htm
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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    He is a creep and should, at the least, be reported to management so they can revoke his admission privileges. In the future though, Listen to your intuition. If a dude gives you creepy vibes/overly aggressive during vip then do not force yourself to do business with him.

    Exactly. Or if someone gets back in dances with you and THEN they get creepy (I've had this happen, normal dude turns weirdo), MAKE HIM SIT ON HIS HANDS! Do not let him grab you or touch you, try and play it off as teasing but be confident in your boundaries so shit like this doesn't happen.

    Unfortunately I think after you've dances for over a year at least, we've all seen some level of accidental gross penis at work, guys can be sneaky f*ckers

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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    And honestly, IMO for the OP.. anytime you sense a customer is creepy weird or "wanting more" seriously just tell them to fuck off, don't go downstairs and miss making money! WTF. Make him leave, if it doesn't happen to you it will to someone else. If a customer seriously give you bad vibes and you notice him just being a total creep I would honestly go tell management he is trying to find a prostitute and won't leave you alone and you need him to leave. They usually will have no problem kicking him out before he does this to other girls. If it doesn't happen to you, it will be someone else, these kinds of customers are cheap AF and need to be kicked out asap. IMO.

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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    Another option is giving the guy an air dance. You already have the money, whether he likes the dance or not.

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    Default Re: I am f king furious a customer pulled his penis out.

    Quote Originally Posted by NYC.Bianca View Post
    And honestly, IMO for the OP.. anytime you sense a customer is creepy weird or "wanting more" seriously just tell them to fuck off, don't go downstairs and miss making money! WTF. Make him leave, if it doesn't happen to you it will to someone else. If a customer seriously give you bad vibes and you notice him just being a total creep I would honestly go tell management he is trying to find a prostitute and won't leave you alone and you need him to leave. They usually will have no problem kicking him out before he does this to other girls. If it doesn't happen to you, it will be someone else, these kinds of customers are cheap AF and need to be kicked out asap. IMO.
    100 percent yes to this. I had a guy the other day try to lowball me for a dance, hustled him into 3 at full price while we were back there and ended it after 2 (he was drunk and I sweetly insisted it had been 3) after he straight up asked me “How much for sex?” Pretended all was well and told my manager immediately, and he got kicked out right away. My manager was super grateful too. So, fuck off to those guys but also if you can tolerate it take their money first.

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