I would have posted this in life support but I know this area gets more traffic. My world has been practically destroyed. My marriage was always rocky but getting better. The other day a woman my husband had slept with messaged me on social media showing him texts of them hooking up a year ago. It really matter as it was before I was even dating my husband. What upset me was that I’m very hard to find and know no one in the area so essential she had to stalk me. I have no idea why she contacted me since the convo is a year old... like that’s a long time to wait to get revenge. Long story short... my husband tells me this person is trans. He said the typical things of being ashamed and what not about it. However, he slept with her twice! He also had slept with multiple trans escorts in the past. He said trans escorts are cheaper than cis woman... I have no idea... I would have thought they be more expensive.
The past is the past and he says he isn’t attracted to that anymore. I don’t believe him. I think he has a huge closet fetish for it which is the problem. I feel like I’ll never be able to get really satisfie him and really be what he wants now. I think he is denial about liking trans people or just can’t completely come out. I’ve read so many forums about this topic now and feel like all the guys who get caught doing this are huge liars. They say they will never do it again and a second later they are back to the trans porn and escorts. Now mind you idk if my husband was seeking out trans escorts while we were together. Before I left I asked him to let me see his phone but he kept going on about looking at it together for some odd reason. That only adds insult to injury of why I don’t want to be with him. Cheating is cheating... doesn’t matter if it’s a cis woman, trans woman, man, whatever. I just feel like his attraction to trans woman is probably stronger to cis gender woman and I don’t want to be with him for that. As I said above too I feel like this fetish is going to get ahold of him and he won’t be able to hold himself back from seeking out a trans woman.
He is begging me to come back saying he will let me hold all banking info, go through his phone every day, etc. I hate for it to end this way but I’m super freaked out and scared. Please help



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