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    Are these guys that will flash you like $800 or $1500 etc that don't spend any of it or much of it in the club trying to get otc or what is the deal with this shit? I've seen this a few times in my couple of months dancing.

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    They want attention without having to spend. They want the girls to try to woo them but in the end they’re non spenders. I.e. I always think they’re just flashing their rent money ..


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    They want to trick girls into thinking they have money and will spend on them otc. They won’t and if they really had money spending in the club wouldn’t be an issue.

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    yah seriously avoid these kinds of guys. Guys that will spend on you will typically do it sooner than later, they won't sit and talk about it forever.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kawaiidoll View Post
    They want attention without having to spend. They want the girls to try to woo them but in the end they’re non spenders. I.e. I always think they’re just flashing their rent money ..
    ^^

    This- they bring a big pile of visible cash so girls hopefully spend a lot of time entertaining them while they ocaaaaasionally pull singles off of it.

    Avoid anyone who makes a show of money, the real spenders just do it and don't talk about it/wave it around.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kawaiidoll View Post
    They want attention without having to spend. They want the girls to try to woo them but in the end they’re non spenders. I.e. I always think they’re just flashing their rent money ..
    Lol yep I always assume it's rent money too. Same when they post a picture of their cash on social media.

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    Like said above, men who actually spend real money do not flash their cash. Totally ignore the ones who flash cash or have a big pile just sitting on the table for a long time. When I was new and naive I would try to hustle these guys. Most of the time they would just put a dollar or 2 in my bra. I think I might have made $20 once off of one of these guys. They just want to attract girls and show off their cash but not really part with it.

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    Yeah, I don't waste much time on these guys because I am fast to demand money from them because they annoy me. I just notice the ones that always make a big show of it don't really spend like you guys said.

    Thanks for your insights!

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    Most of the time they never dip into that stack of cash. Others are trying to get OTC action. I think it's funny how many have mentioned that it's "rent money" cause that was always what I thought.

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    I haaaaate this. I truly believe that guys that do this for free attention take that money back home and pay a bill with it instead. LOL

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    I once saw a guy who got sooo into flashing his money, he placed a bill on each empty stool at the bar. When the dancers went over to swipe the bills he got upset and said, "you bitches only want my money."

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    With these guys I've noticed that SOMETIMES they'll spend but only if I act like they ain't shit. Like I don't need their $ and they're lucky to talk to me. But it's too much work for me and like a 30% success rate so I don't bother with em
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    Showing off money like that is almost total red flag for me. I've met an old nasty dude who will show hunderd dollar bills while just trying to talk shit and grope you as much as he could for free. I believe it was not his rent money, but he was just putting down girls by flashing money around and not spending anything.
    Another red flag for me is "I'd rather spend on you" -when you are offering VIP to a dude and he opts for just regular dances. Usually they will try to push your limits for cheap. Guy who wants to spend on you -he will spend on you without BS

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    Guys who flash cash are desperate looking for a girlfriend. Watch out. They show you all this money to try and get you hooked on them, will get ur number and try to promise you things. STALKER VIBES.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sirocco View Post
    Showing off money like that is almost total red flag for me. I've met an old nasty dude who will show hunderd dollar bills while just trying to talk shit and grope you as much as he could for free. I believe it was not his rent money, but he was just putting down girls by flashing money around and not spending anything.
    Another red flag for me is "I'd rather spend on you" -when you are offering VIP to a dude and he opts for just regular dances. Usually they will try to push your limits for cheap. Guy who wants to spend on you -he will spend on you without BS
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    Yes- any guy who has truly been concerned about the club "taking money" from me has included a nice tip to make up for the VIP cut.

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    Ive feel for the pile of cash trick too many times...never again. I just walk by them, or I’ll do be obligatory chit chat pop the question and leave. Playing games hardly pays off for either party.
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    I had some guy do that over the weekend. "I get it you have tiny dick syndrome."
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    They are trying to show off and portray a lifestyle that they don't actually have, or else they'd be spending some of what they brought in.

    I remember an old dancer friend of mine danced for $150 worth of songs for a guy and at the end, he refused to pay her a dime. He knew the owner, so I guess he thought he could get away with it (which he did, it was a shitty club).

    So I go with her to confront the guy about not paying her and she's like, "are you broke or something?" And he's like, "bitch I'm far from broke," and proceeds to fan out about $800-1000 or so. So I said to her, but really so he could hear me, "it's OK girl. That's clearly his rent money and he might be facing an eviction for all we know. Let's go." He felt so stupid he didn't even have a comeback.
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    I loathe this kind of guy. It seems to be a common douchebag type of customer in Detroit. The money probably is for rent like everybody else suggested or for a bill or something stupid. These guys tend to like to play the, "Prove you're worth my money by jacking me off/sucking my dick first(or whatever stupid bullshit these guys come up with) and then I'll give you the money." They don't plan on spending anything. They just get off on teasing to see how far you're willing to go for them in order to get the money that's not even their's in the first place, therefore they cannot give you any of it. I see this behavior more common among the younger to mid 20's and early 30's crowd. I hate that age group as customers anyways.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DonutMilkshake View Post
    I once saw a guy who got sooo into flashing his money, he placed a bill on each empty stool at the bar. When the dancers went over to swipe the bills he got upset and said, "you bitches only want my money."
    Dam right y0 lol
    When I was a dancer haha, I remember this asshat coming in sat at my stage & I took my big ass & literally sat on his stack and smiled as I slowly moved my ass off the tiprail bar dragging $500-$600 with me It was all in hundreds too, then when he whined that I'd stolen his $$ I remember saying welp don't put your $$ on the rail idiot coz I will take that shit
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    The first time I saw one of these guys when I first started dancing, something seemed off to me. They had a stack of hundred in ones piled on the table. Time went by and that stack was still the same.


    There was a young guy (early/mid twenties looking) last weekend that held on to a wad of ones and wouldn’t part it. At one point he took a picture of himself with all the money lol. I never approached him, but my customer (who was spending) and I were sitting in the table next to them, and I heard from other girls that he wasn’t tipping at all. He called me over a few times but I didn’t go near.

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