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    I feel like I'm having a hard time balancing my personal life and my stripper life. There's this guy I'm kinda into and I think that I'm ready to take it to the next level. But I feel like when I'm in a relationship and working, I make less money. I feel like I'm making a decent amount of money right now because I'm genuinely horny and craving male attention and haven't had sex in longer than I'd care to say. During my last relationship, I would never want to go into work, I'd just want to curl up on the couch and hang out with my boyfriend. And when I did make it into work, I felt weird working, like I'd just rather spend time with my boyfriend. So now I don't know what to do. I really want to continue making decent money, but I feel like if I ended up having sex with this guy, I'd lose my stripper spark. IDK what to do!

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    I plan on being single forever. Stripper or not. Anyone who is not adding value to my life is just a waste of time (girls and guys).

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    You're just horny. Bust a nut and forget about him and get your money. Unless he is furthering your career and your goals, he is baggage, and not good baggage.

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    Default Re: Being a single stripper

    Guy: I would love to take you out sometime.

    Me: Oh, I typically don't meet anyone outside of the club. Besides I'm not seeking to date anyone currently, sorry.

    Guy: Is it because you're a dancer? Because I totally wouldn't mind it, you gotta make your money. We should totally go out, come on give me a chance.

    Me: I choose to not date while being an entertainer because I personally view it as being morally wrong. I understand that other dancers may have significant others which work out, and that's great for them, but I don't think that I personally could have a successful relationship doing the same. I wouldn't be able to shake the feeling of being disrespectful to my partner because I do entertain men for a living. Now, I understand that you're okay with the concept, but I am not. Again, it is my choice to be single because of my own personal morals. (Essentially this is what I say but I usually condense it)

    Guy: But, I don't mind, really. Give me your number and I'll take you out for dinner.

    Me: ... ... ... (Why the hell do I even bother? I'll just give him the number to Hungry Howies so he can at least order a delicious pizza to ease the rejection)


    That's just my take on it!
    But you ladies probably shouldn't end up like me, I haven't dated or been intimate with anyone in 3 years...
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    I have not had a relationship be successful while I was dancing. No, it was not because of the job. It was because of the guys. God bless the girls that are lucky enough to have decent, honest guys at home during their dancing years, but my personal experience is, it's not worth it.

    Guy can't keep his mouth shut about your job, expects to have bragging rights because he has bagged a stripper, won't stand up to his mates on your behalf when they shit talk you and your job. Use it as an excuse for their own jackass behaviour. That's if the relationship even gets that far, after you tell him you're a dancer ... when you go out on a limb trying to be honest, you're the one who gets shat-on if he ends things because he can't stomach dating 'someone like that'.

    Maybe best to have a nice, no strings, one night stand whenever you need to get things out of your system.

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    Default Re: Being a single stripper

    The hardest thing is the schedule. If he works 9-5, it's so hard to balance. Does he possibly work any nights by chance ( so much easier ).

    Or if he works 9-5, would he be ok only seeing you a couple times a week ? It's actually very hard to strike a good balance with dating and stripping so don't be too hard on yourself.
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    IMO strippers who do maintain good LTRs are private about it because 1) privacy is golden and 2) usually someone you know wants to steal your mate. The adult industry is full of people who love "eating off of someone else's plate."

    I had some ho try to fuck up my LTR when I was full time dancing. She was a (wannabe) bdsm sub type and thought me and my ex would treat her like a baby. Of course this caused tons of drama b/c me and my ex are not the type of people who allow parasitic people to just roll up and crash a good thing.

    You don't have to be tacky or violent to protect your LTRs if you are in adult work. You just can't let other people mess with your head.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ifyouseekamy View Post
    I plan on being single forever. Stripper or not. Anyone who is not adding value to my life is just a waste of time (girls and guys).
    This.

    I'm happier, more productive and have a better life without some asshole riding my coattails, using me for money or acting like I'm beneath them.

    Besides, most men my age are single for a reason.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kirakonstantin View Post
    This.

    I'm happy more productive and have a better life without some asshole riding my coattails, using me for money or acting like I'm beneath them.

    Besides, most men my age are single for a reason.
    Ha...guys my age think I’m lame. Yeah, buddy because you must be a real winner
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ifyouseekamy View Post
    Ha...guys my age think I’m lame. Yeah, buddy because you must be a real winner
    Guys my age see me as a meal ticket or a surrogate mom. If a guy is single at 40, something is severely wrong. Committment issues, immature, substance abuse, irresponsible... Something is going on.

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    I met mine ITC as a 21 year old virgin, duly relieved him of said virginity and the rest is history.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jalena View Post
    I have not had a relationship be successful while I was dancing. No, it was not because of the job. It was because of the guys. God bless the girls that are lucky enough to have decent, honest guys at home during their dancing years, but my personal experience is, it's not worth it.

    Guy can't keep his mouth shut about your job, expects to have bragging rights because he has bagged a stripper, won't stand up to his mates on your behalf when they shit talk you and your job. Use it as an excuse for their own jackass behaviour. That's if the relationship even gets that far, after you tell him you're a dancer ... when you go out on a limb trying to be honest, you're the one who gets shat-on if he ends things because he can't stomach dating 'someone like that'.

    Maybe best to have a nice, no strings, one night stand whenever you need to get things out of your system.
    ^^^^ totally agree with the one night stand thing. Most times “liking” someone is just lust in disguise. I’d say focus on stacking your money. I’m at the point now where I just want consistent GOOD dick lol, nothing more nothing less

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