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    Okay! So I just worked my first night last night...it痴 such a relief that it痴 finally over and i actually did it! I知 starting at this divey club to get my feet wet. My friend and I both got the job! She has had experience, dancing at another club in Brooklyn a while back. So, overall I made about $300 - my personal goal was $500 and I知 a little disappointed. My friend, with experience, ended up making $530 and sold 2 private rooms. I made all my money on stage and with $20 lap dances (we keep the whole $20). I知 trying not to compare, but it痴 really hard. I don稚 want to be too hard on myself but idk what I did wrong. We both look very different, I知 more Glam (hair & nails ALWAYS done, makeup perfect) and she is more grungy? Like didn稚 even paint her toe nails before work or do her hair 😩. We are supposed to go back tonight, and I know there are good and bad nights, but idk if working from 8pm-4am is worth another $300. House fees are $100 on weekends, btw. So, i know I should probably suck it up, since I知 the only one to blame for not making more money, maybe I didn稚 hustle hard enough. But I致e been reading hustle hut and trying to prepare so much before my first night and I feel like a failure. So I知 debating on whether or not i should go back tonight. I feel like I know what I need to work on, I知 just scared to have another bad night. I mean is that normal for a first night? Maybe I shouldn稚 be too hard on my self. Just wanted to vent here...any feedback/insight is appreciated. 💕

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    Being too hard on yourself could sabotage your success in the future

    Don’t compare to others just focus on yourself

    Good looks does not always equate to more money

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    Yes, you’re right. Trying to stay positive before heading back in again tonight!

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    Default Re: My First Night...idk if I知 going back

    Your friend and you have a different hustle, and you'll find your unique style as you keep at it. $300 isn't bad for your first night!! I find that sometimes guys (esp. in a divey bar) are more intimidated of me if I'm extra glam, so I have to work harder at being super sweet and approachable. I also have an easier time just being down to earth the less fancy I am, which (again, in a divey bar) makes dudes wanna spend more time & money on me. I think there's a misconception that the more glam you are, the more money you'll access. That may be the case in some clubs and areas of sex work, but I think it's all about the hustle and your personality. Good luck! you got this!

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    Thank you so much for your advice!! Your positive words make me feel so much better. I will definitely take the level of glam into consideration. I decided to go back tonight...I’ll keep this all in mind. Thanks again. ��

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