
Originally Posted by
PrincessC
Please don't beat yourself up for doing certain things just for the coin. This is a job, after all. Of course money will be a very important factor in most of our business, if not THE most important factor. I've absolutely been in that position before and I've felt the same way and experienced the same high's and low's. Since I'm newer, I gauged mine more based on weeks. I've had weeks where I've made incredible money and I've had weeks where I've made nothing. And it's so weird 'cause while I'm experiencing a low, I logically know that a high must be coming sooner or later based off of pattern recognition alone lol. And yet, I still find myself feeling like crap because I think I'll go broke. I so understand.
But I'm learning to overcome that. I'm learning to look at overall averages and find the best ways to gauge income and success in an insanely unpredictable industry. I'm trying to put as much focus as I can onto building my audience and netting the biggest regular-base I possibly can. On the topic of femdom, unlike a lot of women in this scene, I really try to avoid owning slaves and things like that. I kind of try to apply a vanilla business model to my actual femdom business. For instance, I'd rather have 10 regular customers who only give a fuck about me within the context of content-purchasing than 2 "slaves" who are obsessed with me and tribute nonstop because I feel like those close relationships only breed a shift in dependence (I start assuming that this whale will always be around and then when they're not, I feel the loss of their purchases) and stress for me since I subconsciously end up trying to please these people in particular. Nothing wrong with catering to your paying clientele, but as I'm sure you know, in this particular niche, it's a bit redundant for the men to have that kind of power. So really taking this into consideration - that it seems far more attainable to lure in 10 guys who will pay $10 for the things I wanna do rather than 1 guy who will pay $100 in a sea of men who hate the things I wanna do - has really helped me relax in terms of income stability. The more exposure I get, the more customers I'm likely to get, and the more customers I'm able to get, the more stable my income will be.
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