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    Default Re: Can't compete with the high standards - Low self confidence

    2k on nf is the bomb! Tell me your secrets!!! I wish i made that much there. Seriously just camming on aw and nf will get you what you want. How about real time domme?

    Ps just message cam_model_jess about the verified camgirls private group
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    Default Re: Can't compete with the high standards - Low self confidence

    So this is an interesting thread...From my personal experience, it's all about finding a niche. I class myself as a sensual domme, as I personally find guys prefer the teasing, yet dominating type. It has worked well...but what has worked even better is finding my niche. I have 1-2 whales and a mini whale because of it. The thing is, I'm faking it all. I beat myself up constantly. I wish I was hotter, better, smarter, braver. I don't quite know how to milk guys, the way a lot of other dommes do. But I've learnt to stay in my lane and not compare myself to anyone else, but just try to improve and test new things out.

    I don't get many vanilla shows as I'm not one of those super hot girls and that's okay with me. Just try to find what works best for you and once you have - tripple down on it. Don't compare yourself to others as nobody knows for sure who makes what in this industry. You are unique - don't ever forget that.

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    Default Re: Can't compete with the high standards - Low self confidence

    Quote Originally Posted by sexysusie View Post
    I'm sure with time you'll get back into the swing of cam. It's certainly more lucrative than the other adult options. To be honest i don't think you could make 6k per month with phone and content alone. If you add in another couple of work from home jobs and manage your time VERY well maybe.

    If it's any help to you i have anxiety too and am a total mess the majority of the time lol. it's a real pain to get presentable enough both physically and mentally to cam but i manage it and do a lot of domme. I'm not even remotely dominant really but they still come back again and again.

    In the private section btw we are talking about a couple of other ways to make money aside from camming.

    You can do this x
    Thanks for your input. Two questions: How could I get invited to the private sections (like what you've mentioned, and could you elaborate how a more submissive personality becomes a domme.

    I'm sitting here wondering....in my real life, I have a soft empathetic heart. I don't want to hurt people or humiliate them, which is why I've avoided domming. BUT....on the other hand, I can become very impatient and annoyed with men, especially passive men. I honestly have little respect for men who come across as weak, indecisive, or "beta." So that would make me a good domme, right, or naw?

    Sidebar: I'm realizing this is my 'daddy issue': weak, indecisive "betas." They REALLY get my blood boiling!

    And to the original poster, AlyssaJane, thanks for sharing your authentic truth about how you feel. I also feel like I wish I had a rulebook, something to show me how to do this "right" and get the cash flowing.

    But I'm new to this, so I'm still figuring things all out.

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