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    Default Private room and lapdance advice?

    Been in the dancing for about 2 months now so I’m still fairly new to the game. How do you give a lapdance to a guy to make him want to buy more than one..when I lapdance all I do is twerk I hate turning around being face to face with the guy it just makes me feel awkward..I always see girls in my club sell multiple lap dances to the same guy and I’m wondering what I should do? Also what should I do to convince a guy to do a private room with me and what should I do in the private room?

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    What kind of club is this? Mixed or urban? What level of contact is allowed at the club you are at?

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    Default Re: Private room and lapdance advice?

    if you want to sell more dances, youre gonna have to make the guy think youre interested in him. you have to make eye contact. guys will notice that youre not comfortable.

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    Default Re: Private room and lapdance advice?

    Quote Originally Posted by raakashock View Post
    if you want to sell more dances, youre gonna have to make the guy think youre interested in him. you have to make eye contact. guys will notice that youre not comfortable.
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    This. You don't have to lock eyes the whole dance but make sure to face them sometimes.

    Also sometimes guys want to chat during the dance, that's hard to do if you're just twerking away from them the whole time. Generally guys who buy private rooms want an entertainer- so giving a sexy dance is great but you have to be able to hold their attention for an hour or however long, which definitely involves building some rapport.

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    Have you watched what other girls do in your club in a lap dance?

    From your other posts it looks like a club with white/mexican guys. I can see a lot of them not wanting a lap dance of just twerking. A lot of them are going to want grinding.

    Past that I would recommend getting into character, think of it like acting. Pretend you are on a date.

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    Yup. You are gonna need to give a little face time. The illusion of intimacy is one HUGE way to sell multiples. You don't have to give tons of eye contact, but sitting straddling them with your boobs at eye level with hands on their shoulders, standing facing them so your whole torso is at eye level, slow wiggle with smiles while facing them etc, goes a long way. Someone once told me to look at them in the spot right between their eyes instead of into their eyes. It feels like eye contact to them apparently, but saves you the unwanted intimacy of the real thing.

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    Twerking and air dances are not going to get you more dances. There has been some good advice given already. Close to the end of the song you need to give him a reason to want another dance. Hands on his shoulders breathing heavy on his neck and ears. Seductively ask if he wants another dance. Make him think you are into him and alude to him getting a little more next time. Grind on his lap, let him touch a bit. Make him think he is going to get more in VIP.

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    How do y'all deal with the intimacy of the lapdance? I just had my first night last night and facing a guy, grinding - it feels like sex. And I know there's a difference between sexY, and sex. I can't figure out if I'm doing it wrong or what. Or maybe I just need to get better at detaching? I sold one guy four dances so I know I'm good at making them feel the intimacy, but I don't want to feel it myself.

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