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    I had something pretty bizarre happen to me on my shift last night. There are two girls who walk around on the floor selling massages to customers. Until last night, I never really gave them much thought or noticed/cared if they also sell dances. Once or twice in the past, I've had customers ask me for a massage on the floor when they saw other guys getting one, and I did so with no issues.

    So, last night a high spending customer had already given me $400 for 30 minutes of just talking on the floor. Once time is up, he asks me for a massage for an additional $150 for 15 minutes. I start massaging him and a couple minutes in, one of the massage chicks directly interrupts and says "Um you can't do that. There are only two girls here who are designated massage girls and no one else is allowed to give them." I haven't worked at the club all that long so I wasn't sure if she was lying, though I admit it was a bizarre sounding rule. I didn't stop at her command lol and she then says "If you don't believe me you can ask management" to which I said "I plan to." I decided to stop the massage in case she was in fact telling the truth, and when I went to collect the money she had the audacity to say "you can't collect money for that." I said "I can collect money for my time" and snatched it. (It was only $40 because it was only a few minutes at this point). She then went on to say "I'm actually being really nice about this, you could get in huge trouble." I replied "I'll talk to management, if I did break a rule then I apologize. I do find it really strange though, aren't you allowed to do dances?" To which she flat out said "no." Later when I talked to the bouncer, he said she was full of shit and he had seen her do dances plenty of times. So, I told the house mom what she did (this is a small club where we're supposed to report things like this to management, obviously in a place like Vegas or something this petty BS would never fly). Apparently there are designated massage girls and dancers can't OFFER to give them, but it's ok to give them if asked. So the part about us not giving massages wasn't a total lie, but she was majorly exaggerating and stepping on my toes.

    I just feel it was really rude of the girl to interrupt me directly, and then take over the massage the way she did. Even if I was breaking a rule, talking to a bouncer seems the obvious way to handle the situation rather than causing a scene. Anyways, the drama has passed, but I'm curious if it's worth telling the girl not to interrupt me again or if I should just let it go? I feel it might be a little silly to drag the drama into my next shift, but I didn't feel like causing a scene last night when there was still other money to be made. However what she did was so disrespectful...though to be fair, I already told management. I'm not sure if they said anything to her or not. She did directly take money out of my pocket by interrupting and I don't want her thinking I'll put up with it going forward.

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    Default Re: How would you have handled this?

    I'm sorry to hear this happened. But I wouldn't say anything to her. And the next time you're giving a massage and she comes up to you tell her excuse me but I can't speak to you now. Please leave and I can speak to you later. But afterward don't seek her out to talk to her about it. Also, replying to her or initiating contact will just cause more drama. I experienced a similar instance recently. But I kept my mouth shut. And I'm so glad I did because the person moved on to bothering someone else. And I now know that she wouldve made my life a living hell there if I kept the dispute going because she's been at the club for 20 years. She's a bitter hater and she's close with the owner. So I might've been fired. I think if you just ignore her then she will move on to another victim. And I think thats best for you.
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    I think you did the right thing, if a customer asks again take them into VIP or the lap dance room; not on the floor.
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    Default Re: How would you have handled this?

    I had the exact same thing happen to me! This bitchy massage girl at my club yelled at me bc a customer asked me to massage him. She was like you’re not supposed to do that, that’s for me only. I pay house fees...I’m like bitch so do I!! It’s what the customer wants that matters! I don’t see the purpose of having a massage girl at the club, work at a spa or massage parlor and stay out of our business! But to answer your question, you handled it perfectly. I did the same thing, told her not to yell at me in front of the customer and then brought the issue up with management who took care of it.

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    Default Re: How would you have handled this?

    is this just me? I dont totally understand the idea around designated massage girls at clubs. Seems natural that a customer might see massages happening around him and then want one from the girl we connected with/had dances from.

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    Default Re: How would you have handled this?

    My club is like this. I convince my guy that we can do an erotic massage in where you are topless or nude but it needs to be in the vip room. You can even use that he can even massage you (if your comfortable with that idea)

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    Typical club employee thinking they are the shit. You are the entertainer and can do anything that is legal, I would do as others suggested and Go in the private area.
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    I don't ever listen to what other girls are telling me unless I know them well and trust them because they could be lying or screwing with you either to take your money or just for fun because they're a bitch and you're new or new-ish. If there's a problem her ass can go tell management and they can talk to me themselves but until then just keep doing what you thought you were supposed to do. I wouldn't have ended the massage I would have just kept on working while the girl ran her mouth lol or taken the customer to VIP. If the customer decided to end it because we were getting on his nerves than so be it, I don't wanna lose the money but I wouldn't have the money anyways if I just let someone run me out of there like that and sometimes you just have to put your foot down so nobody thinks they can push you around.

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    I totally agree about taking the guy to VIP and offered to do so, however he insisted on doing it on the floor. The club takes 1/3 of our dance money and that was his excuse. Regardless, thanks to everyone who replied, it’s interesting to hear that this has happened at other clubs!

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    WTF massage girls? I've never heard of that that's so weird. Do they have someone's Tia going around selling roses too??? lmao
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