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    This bitch is fucking with my money now. I met a guy who knows that I cam. He even came to my room and showed his support (even though that’s hardly necessary. I’m going to cam whether or not some man is cool with it or not.) Mind you, I’m in a weird space with my bf/ex so I’m not looking to dive into anything serious right now. ANYWAY. I missed this new guys call twice, he texted me and I responded back. I guess the next day he felt like we needed to make up for the lack of communication the previous day so he tried to skype me out of nowhere but of course I missed that shit. He texted me late at night but I was asleep so, again, he probably felt all ignore or whatever. I’m a mom of 3 kids under 8 years old and when I’m not fully involved with them then I’m on cam. It’s that simple. Unless you’re going to pay one of my bills (he’s not) then How tf can I help you, sir?

    Today he texted me 5 times in a row, called me on Skype, and clearly tried to hunt me down on cam because seconds after me blocking him on SM he emailed me demanding to know why I’d blocked him. This dude created a new username, pretended to be a potential customer, and said something like:

    Idiot: Can I ask you a question?
    Me: Ooh I love questions lol. What’s up.
    Idiot: Why are you blocking me?
    Idiot: ????
    Idiot: Why are you blocking me?
    Idiot: [uses my real name in public chat]

    I was so startled that my first reaction was to be scared. I missed out on a good morning shift just because I couldn’t stay logged in after that. I was afraid to begin any sort of conversation with these guys, wondering who I might “really” be talking to. Now I’m pissed! I missed out on a good shift because I let an entitled asshole run me out of my job. This is my job, dude!

    He’s still emailing me. I had to delete my skype even though I make my money through Skype shows also. The paragraphs of text was just too fucking much. We haven’t even screwed and he’s acting like this. How would you respond?

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    Stage 5 clinger cement block his ass on every level and move along. Do not let him kick you off your game again.

    When you logged off, I feel you proved that he indeed did know you when he said your name. In the future, stay logged in (if you can handle it) and lie "I'm sorry, that's not my name. I think you have me confused with someone else." and then silently block.

    This guy cannot have power over you if you do not let him. He's not paying your bills so it doesn't matter if he knows you on or offline. BLOCKITY BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK.




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    Block and ignore. Ignore. Ignore. If he doesnt get the hint in a day or two see if you can get a restraining order and look into what the stalking laws where you live. Better to have the cops go to him and say, cease and desist or else then you doing it. Dont acknowledge him in anyway. Guy is an entitled ass wipe.

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    It's like I know what advice I would give a friend if she were in this situation but apparently I needed to hear it from someone else. Thanks guys. I hate how much he threw me off. Like, damn. I'll be damned if I don't log on tonight and redeem myself. I appreciate the solid advice. Get on with a straight face and ignore his ass. He's already been blocked from Heaven and Earth at this point.

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    Email SM about this issue, so they can suspend his ass. Msg Liz and make sure support actually blocked him ass from exposing you online. That's unacceptable. Tell them he has multiple accounts (that's against the rules and considered fraud). They should he able to block all the credit cards he used.

    Block, block, block him on other platforms.

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    ^^ That is a great advice and a great point! Good for all of us to remember this JIC.

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    I love what you said “I’m going to cam whether or not some man is cool with it or not”.

    Amen to that sista. But really, just block. Give no attention because that’s exactly what he wants.
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    Quote Originally Posted by euro_princess View Post
    Email SM about this issue, so they can suspend his ass. Msg Liz and make sure support actually blocked him ass from exposing you online. That's unacceptable. Tell them he has multiple accounts (that's against the rules and considered fraud). They should he able to block all the credit cards he used.

    Block, block, block him on other platforms.
    Awesome!! I did this right before making this post and included about 4 screenshots of his comments, him stating his own first name, and him stating mine so it’s good to know that this IS a case that SM has rules against. I feel a lot better knowing that and I hope they gut his ass.

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    I block EVERYONE who knows me offline.. I have had many come to cam sites and they get blocked.. to bad, so sad.. you are not holding anything over my head and fucking with my income.

    Quote Originally Posted by NitaBaby View Post
    This bitch is fucking with my money now. I met a guy who knows that I cam. He even came to my room and showed his support (even though that’s hardly necessary. I’m going to cam whether or not some man is cool with it or not.) Mind you, I’m in a weird space with my bf/ex so I’m not looking to dive into anything serious right now. ANYWAY. I missed this new guys call twice, he texted me and I responded back. I guess the next day he felt like we needed to make up for the lack of communication the previous day so he tried to skype me out of nowhere but of course I missed that shit. He texted me late at night but I was asleep so, again, he probably felt all ignore or whatever. I’m a mom of 3 kids under 8 years old and when I’m not fully involved with them then I’m on cam. It’s that simple. Unless you’re going to pay one of my bills (he’s not) then How tf can I help you, sir?

    Today he texted me 5 times in a row, called me on Skype, and clearly tried to hunt me down on cam because seconds after me blocking him on SM he emailed me demanding to know why I’d blocked him. This dude created a new username, pretended to be a potential customer, and said something like:

    Idiot: Can I ask you a question?
    Me: Ooh I love questions lol. What’s up.
    Idiot: Why are you blocking me?
    Idiot: ????
    Idiot: Why are you blocking me?
    Idiot: [uses my real name in public chat]

    I was so startled that my first reaction was to be scared. I missed out on a good morning shift just because I couldn’t stay logged in after that. I was afraid to begin any sort of conversation with these guys, wondering who I might “really” be talking to. Now I’m pissed! I missed out on a good shift because I let an entitled asshole run me out of my job. This is my job, dude!

    He’s still emailing me. I had to delete my skype even though I make my money through Skype shows also. The paragraphs of text was just too fucking much. We haven’t even screwed and he’s acting like this. How would you respond?

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    I block EVERYONE who knows me offline.. I have had many come to cam sites and they get blocked.. to bad, so sad.. you are not holding anything over my head and fucking with my income.
    How do you do that without them entering your room first? I could block a geographical location but I’ve heard that that only half-ass works.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NitaBaby View Post
    How do you do that without them entering your room first? I could block a geographical location but I’ve heard that that only half-ass works.
    geoblocking is better than nothing, IMO. I block my hometown, my current city, and the bordering small towns/suburbs that I frequently visit. Haven't had any issues since i turned that on. I am also extremely selective about who I tell my job to, mainly for reasons like what you're dealing with. I had two close friends who knew I cammed, and they didn't necessarily use it against me, but they took it as an opportunity to casually bother me, as if my cam persona was just another form of social media. Like coming into my cam chat when I didn't respond to their text, to ask if I wanted to go out that night. Like, dude, I'm working here. Inappropriate as fuck. Had to block their accounts then sternly remind them that I don't want them bugging me at my job. It's not "support" if they're not paying. And even if they are paying... Well, frankly, I don't want to know if you're someone I know. It makes me uncomfortable. Keep that shit a secret. Once you tell me you know me, I block. I don't care if you want to pay and legitimately watch my shows. You can do that without disclosing your identity and making everything awkward.

    I've had two occasions where someone has entered my room and basically typed my real name (not full name, just my first name) in public free chat. It freaks me the fuck out but I don't show it outwardly. I either flat out don't respond or say "nope, not me... apparently I have a lot of doppelgangers in the world." Then block. If it persists, I report all the offending usernames to tech support and let them know the person is creating multiple accounts.

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    I've been outed so many times by crazy exes or people that know me.You dont get used to it.You just block and make sure you dont show a reaction ,when they say your name in free chat just block and don't even acknowledge what was said.

    SOmetimes ill answer questions that was never even asked to divert the convo into a different direction.For example if somebody said "oh shit judy is that u?" .Ill block and just laugh out loud in the room and say yes daddy i love getting my ass tongue fuck . Who wants some groceries or facesitting yall ??? Usually the guys in my chatroom will start with some crazy statement. Works every time.The trick is to not show emotion or reaction.

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    ^ yes! responding to questions that were never asked is such a good diversion tactic, and also a great way to make your room seem busier when its actually completely dead. Lol.

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    Update. SM emailed me today and said “sorry” but there is nothing they can do. I was advised to geo block after considering the potential impact to my earnings. Are we sure the multiple accounts thing is a policy breach? They flat out don’t care.

    SM email:

    “Hello,

    Unfortunately, there's nothing we can do about the account, and we see you've already blocked them.

    We recommend you continue reporting accounts that are harassing you.

    An option you can try is blocking that region from seeing your page, however, this may potentially cause you to lose revenue from that region.

    Thank you for contacting support. Please let us know if we can assist with anything else!

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    Geo block doesn't work especially if someone knows your direct cammodel url.
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    I checked my SM dashboard just now and he created another profile to message me through. I see that I’m going to have to either use the advice I’ve been given and muscle through this bat shit crazy situation or maybe see if SM will let me open a new account under a different name? I don’t know

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    Quote Originally Posted by NitaBaby View Post
    I checked my SM dashboard just now and he created another profile to message me through. I see that I’m going to have to either use the advice I’ve been given and muscle through this bat shit crazy situation or maybe see if SM will let me open a new account under a different name? I don’t know
    Don't jeopardize your account by making a new one and starting all over; it's likely he will find you again. If he is opening multiple accounts, that is FRAUD. Contact someone higher up on the Streamate support ladder (Liz) and tell them that he is creating multiple accounts and harassing / threatening you.

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    How do I contact this person, Liz?

    Oop. Nvm, I did a search like a big girl, I'll email her now. Thanks for the suggestion.
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    Damn... I hope they kicked this bastard off the site and that you're ok. This is one reason I hadn't got too deep into camming, til now... one time, this dude was throwing money at me, kept talking about how handsome he was and how much I'd love to see what he looked like. I played into it cuz I thought 'oh, it's just a body worship type-thing'... NOPE. Dude sent me a picture. It was a fucking SUPERVISOR AT MY DAY JOB.

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    Quote Originally Posted by XO_Alice View Post
    Damn... I hope they kicked this bastard off the site and that you're ok. This is one reason I hadn't got too deep into camming, til now... one time, this dude was throwing money at me, kept talking about how handsome he was and how much I'd love to see what he looked like. I played into it cuz I thought 'oh, it's just a body worship type-thing'... NOPE. Dude sent me a picture. It was a fucking SUPERVISOR AT MY DAY JOB.


    Ohh myyy goddd lmao. He would have been blocked so freakin fast. Is it a big enough company that he isn’t YOUR direct supervisor but one that you recognized?

    I emailed Liz yesterday and she emailed me back saying that he’s been banned. The original SM support rep that I was emailing kept the same rhetoric. She/he was like “he’s making too many accounts and it’s difficult for us to catch them all”. I told that rep to not strain themselves because it’s been fixed now.

    Thanks for the suggestions y’all - and especially the one to contact Liz. I’ve been floating ever since she responded to me.

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    Ohh myyy goddd lmao. He would have been blocked so freakin fast. Is it a big enough company that he isn’t YOUR direct supervisor but one that you recognized?

    I emailed Liz yesterday and she emailed me back saying that he’s been banned. The original SM support rep that I was emailing kept the same rhetoric. She/he was like “he’s making too many accounts and it’s difficult for us to catch them all”. I told that rep to not strain themselves because it’s been fixed now.

    Thanks for the suggestions y’all - and especially the one to contact Liz. I’ve been floating ever since she responded to me.
    I'm so glad Liz got back to you -and that you posted about this cuz cam sites are so damn hard to get any support from sometimes. HAHAHA! well... I definitely shit a brick when I saw his photo and immediately snapped it to my friend, who was his direct subordinate. She said 'hell no, he's flaming gay and on vacation with his bf!' I think another coworker somehow found me online and lifted our sup's image off the company page. Sent it to me to see how I'd react. People are awful that way, sometimes.

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    This sort of thing happened to me on CB (Chaturbate). I blocked the person immediately and contacted the site rep with screenshots. They responded that they banned him from the whole site.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NitaBaby View Post
    I checked my SM dashboard just now and he created another profile to message me through. I see that I’m going to have to either use the advice I’ve been given and muscle through this bat shit crazy situation or maybe see if SM will let me open a new account under a different name? I don’t know
    i have been in this exact situation, only it was my brother in law stalking me after he found out i was doing this, you can ask liz too just change the name in your account (so its not so easy to find you, and your not in his computer history anymore, maybe also take new pictures in your profile and change your country?), dont make a new account and start over. she does not block people completely, she told me to go to the police if he was stalking me. i just had a clear conversation with him, and it was over. hope you figure something out xxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovely_charlie View Post
    i have been in this exact situation, only it was my brother in law stalking me after he found out i was doing this, you can ask liz too just change the name in your account (so its not so easy to find you, and your not in his computer history anymore, maybe also take new pictures in your profile and change your country?), dont make a new account and start over. she does not block people completely, she told me to go to the police if he was stalking me. i just had a clear conversation with him, and it was over. hope you figure something out xxx
    Yep, I gave an update. Liz got back to me and said that they "banned/blocked" him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NitaBaby View Post
    Yep, I gave an update. Liz got back to me and said that they "banned/blocked" him.
    Oke great!! about 2 years ago she did'nt, glad that they are looking after us now! Xxx

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