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    Dizzy My first night - the good and bad!

    I had my first night of work last night! I figured I'd write up a detailed report of the evening for any newbies wondering what might be in store for them. I went to the SC around 8:30 pm - it's a full nude bar with a bikini bar right next door. That way, people can drink at the bar and then head over to the SC with a buzz on. I went with a girl I met at another audition - she worked at this SC a couple years ago. We go to the front desk and tell him we want to audition, he gives us applications and then the manager comes in and talks to us briefly. We change in the DR and are put into the lineup to dance pretty quickly. I did my two dances onstage and it was pretty fun - there were about 10 customers there and the stage is quite long and pretty wide, so there's plenty of space to get your dance on. I did get some tips. Afterwards, the manager tells us we're hired. My friend is hired across the board and I am hired to do day shift for now until I get more experience and I said that was fine. I was allowed to stay that night.

    My friend wants to start the night getting a drink at the bar so we cover up a bit and go over there. We start talking to a guy and I quickly figure out he's the kind of guy who has his ego wrapped up in not paying for dances. (All night I kept seeing the archetypes of guys discussed on here - I am so grateful for all the reading I did on SW!) But then he tells me he's really into white girls (I'm white) and would I ever consider escorting? I tell him no, that's not my thing. He says what about for $200? I could have died laughing, honestly. If I'm not into escorting, I'm DEFINITELY not into it for $200.

    I go back to the SC and start talking to people and I get my first dance within ten minutes or so. I'm talking to two really friendly guys, I tell them I'm new, and that I literally don't even know where the lapdances take place or how that happens so I get one guy to show me how it works. He shows me where the lapdance area is and how to work it, then I get to dancing and he said it was good. I didn't feel awkward, but it did feel ... idk, this will sound stupid, but very sexual. I might need to find a way to make my LDs a little LESS sexual because honestly it was exhausting.

    I go back out on the floor, I talk to another couple guys, one guy tells me he's waiting for the 2 for 1 deal. Oookay. I talk to another guy and after a couple songs I realize he's a classic time waster. He literally just wants to show me photos of all the concerts he's been to. I eventually figure out how to get out of there and I will avoid that guy from now on because also he smelled terrible. Then we all get called back stage for a THREE FOR ONE deal. The manager comes back and assures us that it's only gonna be 10-20 seconds longer than the 2 for 1 deal. So we go out and Pussy Parade across the stage. I go up to the guy who said he'd been waiting for the 2 for 1 deal and he says, "Can I suck your tits?" I'm like... no. Like first of all, no you cannot suck my tits. And second of all, you're so cheap you wanna suck tits on the 3 for 1 deal??! I politely said no and walked away. I'm frequently too polite.

    I don't end up selling a 3 for 1 deal, which is fine with me. I walk around and talk to people a little more, I sell my second dance. The dance goes well and this time I remember to ask for a tip if he liked it and he gives me a couple bucks. I go to the DR to freaking breathe for a second and decide I need to go next door and sit at the bar and have some dang water. I was not prepared for how dehydrated all this made me. I go over to the bar, I've just sat down and gotten water, and the managers come over to me and tell me that the guy I just danced for complained to them that I cut the song short. I told them that I really don't think I did - there's this countdown clock thing where you put the money in (it's a relatively high-tech club) and I looked at it. I'm baffled because like - why did the guy tell them that when he could have just told me if he thought that was the case? He knew it was my first night. I don't think I cut it short, but if I did, tell me, don't tell my manager. But he was like a 20 year old Brock Turner looking white kid so he's probably used to running to daddy with all his problems.

    I sit at the bar drinking my water, I see a guy sitting alone and ask if I can sit with him. He's really nice and was just planning to drink at the bar, not pay to go in the SC, but before long I've convinced him to get some money out of the ATM, go in the SC, and get a LD from me. We do two and he tips me $20. I keep talking to him for a while because he REALLY likes me. Like I have already cultivated a new regular. He wants to know when I'm working. He has a full-blown crush on me. It's wild. I knew I can make guys fall in love with me but it was crazy to use that to my financial advantage. I can see now how when you get the right person, the money comes easy. Unfortunately this guy was a student so not exactly deep pockets but I convinced him to go back to the ATM and buy some more dances from me. Before we can do that though, the DJ asks me to go back onstage even though I'm not even supposed to be on rotation. He literally just calls my name and I don't even have time to pick songs or go to the back. So I get up, I dance to two songs, my one friend gets the guy she's sitting with to tip me extra which was nice. Then, I do 2 things that were stupid. 1) I get back off the stage the way I got on - the stairs at the front. The manager comes over and tells me I'm not allowed to do that and I have to always exit to the back and be clothed on the floor. Love getting admonished about two different things on my first night. Then, 2), I CAN'T FIND MY BOTTOMS. I fucking kicked those bitches straight off the stage and now I only have a top on, on the floor where I'm supposed to be clothed. I sit on a chair and ask the guy I've been with for the past hour to find my bottoms for me. He finds them and we go do two more LDs. By this time it's like 2:30 am, and he leaves, promising to come back soon. I go back on the floor and talk to a couple people, one guy wants to rub my back a little and I know I should have gotten tipped for it but honestly I was so exhausted I just let him rub my back for free because I just needed it to become 3am so I could leave. I'm not even used to staying up this late, much less after expending all this physical and emotional labor. I'm so tired. Finally it's 3 and we get to cash out. Ultimately I leave with $120. It's my first night and everyone said it was a slow night so I'm not too worried about it, though if I'm gonna do this long term I gotta make more money than that for it to be worth it.

    So - how did it feel? For me, the stripping on stage was the easiest part. I don't have all the fancy skills of the other girls at the club yet, but I didn't mind taking my clothes off. Everyone else is doing it. The talking to guys wasn't that hard. The selling dances wasn't even that hard. DOING the dances though... that's the hardest part for me, by far. If anyone has advice on how to make LDs less emotionally and spiritually taxing, I am all ears. I hope this play by play was helpful to other newbies! Don't forget to ask for tips, and don't kick your bottoms off the stage!

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    Not sure what you’re doing during lapdances but if its so much effort...just try less. Maybe go slower too. I’ll get a guy back there and we’ll wait for the next song. All our couches also have a chair across from them so I’ll tell the guy to sit on the couch and I’ll sit in the chair. I’ll take off my shoes while I’m waiting for this (I like to stand on the couches at some point during a LD and guys seem to love seeing my real height). When the song starts I’ll get up slooowly, just kinda slowly twirl around and touch my body. Slowly start to take my top off (we do topless LDs). Then I honestly kinda have a routine that I repeat almost every time. You’ll figure something out. If I get lucky and get a dude who thinks I’m funny I honestly waste a ton of time just sitting on his lap topless and talking.

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    Not bad for a first night !

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    Quote Originally Posted by LunaMae View Post
    Not sure what you’re doing during lapdances but if its so much effort...just try less. Maybe go slower too. I’ll get a guy back there and we’ll wait for the next song. All our couches also have a chair across from them so I’ll tell the guy to sit on the couch and I’ll sit in the chair. I’ll take off my shoes while I’m waiting for this (I like to stand on the couches at some point during a LD and guys seem to love seeing my real height). When the song starts I’ll get up slooowly, just kinda slowly twirl around and touch my body. Slowly start to take my top off (we do topless LDs). Then I honestly kinda have a routine that I repeat almost every time. You’ll figure something out. If I get lucky and get a dude who thinks I’m funny I honestly waste a ton of time just sitting on his lap topless and talking.
    This is really helpful, thank you! I feel like it's hard to figure out what to actually do in LDs because every video I can find shows some heavily choreographed "dance for your man" or something. I'm definitely going to take it slower!

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    Not bad for a first night !
    I'm glad to hear that, thank you

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    I had my second day of work on Saturday and now I'm allowed to work night shift too. Things got so much easier! I implemented the LD advice I got on here and started to charge for touching and I walked out with $570 - way better than my first night.

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    That was an entertaining read. You sound like a very smart woman and a great writer.

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