
Originally Posted by
Aiden1000
Dona you lost me at hello. I mentioned a few times now I’d be willing to consider a payment if the circumstances were right but would prefer to work up to that. I also mentioned I’d provide shopping sprees, upscale hotel accommodations, shoe shopping, wining/dining out, spa days, salon stuff, travel arrangements all sorts of gifts. All of that has considerable value.
Trips to Jimmy Choo, the shoe department at Saks, Agent lingerie, a suite at The W, designer, a spa day at Ancient Airs, a nice wine n dine’ at Scalini Fedili, designer hand bag shopping in Soho... none of this is Mickey Mouse stuff. Its real service from a slave with good taste.
I was also very open about serving a woman I met on this site for a year in which I did provide consistent payment and gifts. Actually there was 2 woman on here I did this with. One more than the other but again... demonstrates real slavery and service and that I am willing to provide straight $ if the situation is right.
I’d also like to make a quick point about domestic and personal services like running errands, food shopping, cooking, chauffeuring, laundry, chores, cleaning etc. For woman who've never actually had expeirnce owning a slave I could see it being easy to underestimate the value of these things but you’d be wrong to do so. If your slave is chauffeuring you door to door to work everyday (something I’ve done in more than one previous arrangement) or chauffeuring you anywhere you know this is a big value Vs. paying a Uber/Cab or taking the dreaded public transportation. In one of my previous arrangements I chauffeured a woman to and from work every single day... On time with her Starbucks in hand, opening car doors, driving her door to door. And I wouldn’t dare be late because for every second I was late I was given that many lashes with the whip. 60 seconds late = 60 lashes. Really. I was 10 minutes late once. Yes 600 lashes for it given out over the course of a week or so. Tough week to say the least. Shredded raw; every inch of my body covered in whip marks, real torture. It’s easy to assume guys with fetishes look at any punishment as a reward. Yes sensual stuff maybe, but when you are in a real arrangement with a woman and who can give you the ultimatum of accepting your punishments or being discarded for good you take it all and realize quickly the only thing you can do is work hard and obey.
My point is saying that is there is value in that too. There value in real slave training, torture and punishment as it allows you to really mold yourself an efficient slave that you can count on. Do u think I was ever 10 minutes late again chauffeuring her? Good slaves with the strong desire to serve can become great slaves with proper training. It is truly incredible and in some cases almost disturbing the type of transformations I have seen and experienced myself first hand. And of course very life changing for the woman being served.
Lastly I’d like to clear something else up.... if your slave cooks you dinner do you think he’s going to ask for $ for the food? Lol. Silly come on. He’s going to pay for it’and pair it with a nice bottle of wine. Likewise if your slave is running some errands, doing a little food shopping or picking up your laundry..... I will have that covered a lot of the timer too. Good cleaning can also never be underestimated .... I have spent hours upon hours on my hands and knees scrubbing every crevice of an apartment/home, doing landscaping, yard work; cleaning pools, washing cars... I can go on and on,. Having a slave at your disposal for an afternoon or entire evening to do whatever you want with him ... again considerable value in it.
I have been very transparent and direct on here. Maybe too open and direct for what some woman can handle or how they are “used to being approached” but I’d rather be upfront way so I don’t waste their time or my own. At the end of the day if my offer is not up your alley, it is perfectly okay by me. This only works for me if it works for you. There is certainly no attraction in serving a woman who doesn’t want to be served.
With regard to your comments about bdsm sites. I do not bother with sites like fetlife or collarspace... not a lot of quality woman on there. I can honestly say I have successfully found my own ways to seek out woman interested in this dynamic. A woman does not have to be a pro domme or even a lifestyle domme to successfully keep a slave. I have served a few of them but the majority of woman I have served were regular woman with the interest and right qualities. Anyway just throwing it out on here to see what comes back. I must say it is an interesting bunch on here this go around.
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