



Dude you really should be paying everyone in this thread to read this. What is your email so an invoice can be submitted to you?
All that slave training did not work (you need to prove your worth first not the other way around) and words on a computer is not going to cut it.
Also, you need to be honest with yourself. Go back and read your posts, You are looking for a relationship.

I am not serving anyone here so Its not possible to top from the bottom. When I meet a woman with the right qualities for this and make a commitment to serve her the chances of me tryin to top from the bottom are pretty low. But I will be honest it has happened before and very successfully. I have no reservations about admitting that either.
But 90% of the tome I have no interest in doing something like that. And if the woman is savy enough and smart enough to keep me in line it wouldn’t even be a thought or possibility. As I said before I have my own slaves gurls I have been training for years so there is no need to do that. Even with all the slave roles I have been in I actually consider myself more of a dominant but there is still a strong desire to in submit to that one sophisticated naturally dominant woman deserving of it. That’s not that unusual.
As far as my real relationships are concerned.... most of them don’t involve any of this stuff at all. They are completely vanilla and I consider “my gf my equal”. If they do involve any of this it is alwsys me being the dominant and/or requiring my slaves to serve both me and my gf, which was the case with my last gf. My slaves had a responsibility to obey my gf just as much as me and were required to do anything she requested of them. They were legitimately terrified her and worked there asses off for her. If there was any disobedience on their part I’d see to it that they were punished and tortured hard. Same exact thing that I had to go through as a slave. That’s how it works. And yes I’d like to add that it was amazing having slaves serve us both. Theres nothing quite like having a slave or two serve you and your gf drinks, cook dinner, clean, being used as sex slaves, and subjected to your sadistic whims and desires all night.
My guess is this info is going to be “all too much” for some of you here. Lol. But although this may sound very “different” to you, that’s all it is but there is nothing all that crazy about it.Power exchange exists in almost every single facet of your life, everything you do, everywhere you go, every part of your day to day. Although you may not see it or make the direct connection it is there all the time. With that said, do you think it is that unusual that it would be component of your personal and sexual life? It’s really a very natural order, especially for some people.The people who are capable of looking at this, I’m going to go out on limb and say it is far more exciting and in line with the structure of society than it is “taboo” or “out of line.” My point... if you can’t come to terms or accept that you should be someone else’s slave, I suggest you at least consider being served cause it is a natural order that is their to compliment your life.... you are definetly missing out.
Respectfully,
-slave aiden





Have you thought of working w/sleep disorder people, as you're soon boooorrrringg!
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MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt




And now the juvenile text speak comes out. Tryin. Gurls. And he's a slave trainer now, LMAO. Words of a little kid who watched 50 Shades of Gray and thinks he knows something.
Bitch, I worked the Hellfire Club before you were born. I have to have an insurance rider for the expensive trinkets my slaves bought me. Tribute from one slave for one month paid the down payment on my house.
Don't try playing here, son. You're out of your league. And I won't bother reading any of your diarrhea of the keyboard because we ALL know you're full of shit.

Believe it or not I have more experience as a dom/master than a slave. Unfortunately I don’t see much of a chance serving many of ladies here with the exception of a couple. But for many I would the enternain the idea of you being my slave. For many of you, like Whirlgurl that is the only role now. And believe me some of you would be in for a particularly rough ride with me. I am a reasonable master and always take very good care off my slaves, but i have high expectations and there is considerable slave training and torture. And sounds like I’d be forced to be particularly cruel and hard on many of you. If you can’t handle it your always free to leave, no locks on the door here but I have never once had a slave leave me no matter how harsh and cruel I am.
Maybe you are taking for granted that there is a mental slavery and attachment that can develop from these dynamics, and believe me it can be a painful road when that happens. You’d learn very quickly the only thing you can do is learn to submit and please your master. I’d love for you to spend an evening watching what my slave gurls go through. It would shock the hell out of you..
You can all be skeptics and have your doubts but it’s the truth. My offer still stands... one deserving dominant woman I will submit to and serve unconditionally, the rest I will consider as servants and sex slaves. Not even joking a little.
And btw I’ve never seen that movie. I heard it is a poor representation of the BdSM world and don’t doubt it. I have been into this lifestyle since I was born... it is part of me to the core.




Bullshit.If you knew thing #1 about the BDSM life, there's a word you'd be using to describe your position in it. You're not doing that, which is likely because you don't know what it is. Because you're not actually a sub, slave trainer or any of the shit you claim to be.
If you were actually a submissive in any way, you'd know what you are and that a slave dictating the terms of their servitude is a joke.
GTFO.

Oh Kira. Come on now. This is about semantics? That’s what’s tripping you up? Because I didn’t use the term “switch”?! Lol. Yes I am technically a switch. Hopefully that makes me more official now.
And with respect to being a switch you know what they say... it takes being on both sides of it to truly understand what it’s all about. I agree with that.




Omg, no. You're not "technically" a switch.
You're also addressing me like you're my equal, which is fucking hillarious.





(S)He just wants to aggravate![]()
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt





You're not submissive. At all. Not even a poorly trained submissive. Therefore, you cannot be a switch.
You're not actually into BDSM, as Manhattan has a crazy fetish scene and you'd be involved in it if you were interested. It's not like a mistress is hard to find. Even one that has the time and patience to deal with something like you.





Lol. The ignore button's a great thing!
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt

With all due respect Goddess Kira, I have served quite a few doms and lifestyle mistresss. I am in my mid 30’s, I have been on that scene for years and what I have found is my experiences with woman who desire to own slaves or be in a female led relationship were/are way better than they ever were with woman on that so called “scene”. It is actually night and day. Not even close. As I said before you don’t need to label yourself a pro domme or mistress to be interested in this dynamic or suited for it. That’s sorta like saying the only woman who have sex are prostitutes or the only people suited to teach you anything are teachers and professional educators.
My point is even more valid for female submissives/slaves. Do you think I found my slaves and all the other girls I have trained at some fetish event, on collarspace, or one of those creepy sites? Absolutely not. They are terrified of those sites, terrified of that scene and a lot of the weirdos on it.
Every girl that I have trained has been incredibly grateful for the experience and training I’ve offered them because they know how difficult it would be to find it anywhere else. And many of these woman need it bad... some of them crave it badly, in a way that is almost frightening. They are empty without it on many levels, not just sexually speaking. They need a strong male hand to discipline them & guide them, they need to submit/serve, they need be put in bondage, spanked, used as sex objects, tortured at a mans mercy, some even need to be humiliated. I’m sorry if you don’t want to accept it but it’s true.
I strongly believe Submission and slavery is about a lot more than fetish’s and sex. It’s about helping someone reach there goals and dreams, providing guidance, taking care of them, structuring their life,.... this is part of my philosophy as dom/master.
The other thing, is just because I am here looking for a woman to serve does not mean I am not engaged serving other woman. Just because someone has a profile up on a dating site does that mean they arent engaged in relationships with other woman? I am actually serving a woman right now for quite some time. Still I enjoy seeing what else is out there. and if the right woman came along I’d take steps to see if it is a good fit.
As far as not being submissive, I don’t know what to say to that. It’s hard to see what type of obedience and submission someone is capable of on a forum.
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Lol did a dude lurking a stripper board for free dominatrix services just try to say he is more of a quality guy than the men who actually go out into the real world and pay cover to meet us in the clubs

That’s 100% what I said and I’m offering a hell of lot more than a cut from a cover charge or lap dance.

Come on now Ms. Anachronism, Thats not entirely fair or accurate. Gimme a lil break here. Maybe what I am offering here is a bit of on Unintentional Anachronism if you will? Or even a Culture Anachronism? Maybe its just a little outside the boundaries of what you are used to. Perhaps it is more suited for the Victorian era or something like this, but regardless of where it fits on the spectrum of time and place it is really a genuine offer. I think many of you only want to hear what you want to hear and if you get any disagreeing or a different perspective you view it as condensing and bitchy. When its all said and done I know ill i make one hell of a slave for the right woman and capable of proving i am trustworthy, respectful, obedient, and in it to provide her real value/benefit. Thats the most important thing here.



Why hasn't this thread died already? This dude is so annoying. I stopped reading his posts long ago, and now only read the responses from the pinks. I just can't get over that it's still going on.

This thread can’t die because the intriguiment and interest level is too high. If it was a matter of finding a dominant female here I would’ve given up a while ago but there is too many female slave types here. And my message to those female sub/slave types is don’t fret, I have a very organized and structured plan to your slave training that I have been developing and refining for well over a decade. Lots of torture, humiliation, and beatings but also will take great care of you. In the end you will feel fufulled, content, at peace, sexually satisfied, and you’ll learn a great deal about yourself. And it doesn’t hurt that you will also learn an entire new set of domestic service skills and sexual service skills which is really priceless. As I said before, I will also give you guidance, purpose, support and help you achieve your goals.





Hooo boy...this thread is fucking hilarious. Here's what's up though.
I've been camming for about 5 years now, and the amount of offers I get that are like yours, on a daily basis is staggering.
Here's what we all know, that you seem to think we don't: This doesn't benefit us in any way. It benefits YOU. you're doing this because you're hoping one of us is inexperienced enough to let you live and be around us for free, so that you can indulge your fantasy and fetish of servitude, on your terms. YOU want to be around a beautiful dominant woman, YOU want to get off to the fact that you're there, YOU want her time and presence.
She doesn't want any of that. Those of us who are lifestyle dommes and keep slaves, definitely do not even consider men like you, for a second. It takes YEARS to establish that type of relationship, in a way that is truly beneficial to both parties. It takes a deep, nuanced understanding of the D/s lifestyle as well, which you don't seem to have, because once again, you're in this for yourself and just think we don't see it. In fact, if you had any notion of what D/s as a lifestyle entails, you wouldn't even sully yourself by suggesting someone look after your fetish for free.
And before you mention the spoiling and gifts, we already have people who do that for us, without ever being in our way or hair. Escorts, Sugar babies, Camgirls and Strippers alike, all get tipped and spoiled and gifted on a regular basis without having to have anyone in our personal space, why on earth would we even factor that in?
You feel that this might be alluring to us, because once again, you think we don't see what you want. You use that as a front to justify your desires. You might be able to pull this shit with inexperienced sex workers and women who are not from this world, but right now, you're in the wrong place dude. You seem to think you can provide for us, when what you actually can do, is obtain trinkets and cash favors, things that we are more than capable of getting ourselves. Not to mention, a lot of us have partners who do those things for us already, so once again, your "dynamic" is redundant, its not for us, its for you.
Also, to equate 90% of customers as scummy, shows how little knowledge you have of this industry or how anything works.
You have two options, either you educate yourself, and throw yourself fully into lifestyle D/s, but the real version, not your silly pay-for-play-for-free-fetish bullshit, or just go and date a woman who is very strong and domineering, have her put you in your place and spoil her gratuitously. This will work out a lot better for you than trying anything else.
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