
Originally Posted by
SimoneGray
Hooo boy...this thread is fucking hilarious. Here's what's up though.
I've been camming for about 5 years now, and the amount of offers I get that are like yours, on a daily basis is staggering.
Here's what we all know, that you seem to think we don't: This doesn't benefit us in any way. It benefits YOU. you're doing this because you're hoping one of us is inexperienced enough to let you live and be around us for free, so that you can indulge your fantasy and fetish of servitude, on your terms. YOU want to be around a beautiful dominant woman, YOU want to get off to the fact that you're there, YOU want her time and presence.
She doesn't want any of that. Those of us who are lifestyle dommes and keep slaves, definitely do not even consider men like you, for a second. It takes YEARS to establish that type of relationship, in a way that is truly beneficial to both parties. It takes a deep, nuanced understanding of the D/s lifestyle as well, which you don't seem to have, because once again, you're in this for yourself and just think we don't see it. In fact, if you had any notion of what D/s as a lifestyle entails, you wouldn't even sully yourself by suggesting someone look after your fetish for free.
And before you mention the spoiling and gifts, we already have people who do that for us, without ever being in our way or hair. Escorts, Sugar babies, Camgirls and Strippers alike, all get tipped and spoiled and gifted on a regular basis without having to have anyone in our personal space, why on earth would we even factor that in?
You feel that this might be alluring to us, because once again, you think we don't see what you want. You use that as a front to justify your desires. You might be able to pull this shit with inexperienced sex workers and women who are not from this world, but right now, you're in the wrong place dude. You seem to think you can provide for us, when what you actually can do, is obtain trinkets and cash favors, things that we are more than capable of getting ourselves. Not to mention, a lot of us have partners who do those things for us already, so once again, your "dynamic" is redundant, its not for us, its for you.
Also, to equate 90% of customers as scummy, shows how little knowledge you have of this industry or how anything works.
You have two options, either you educate yourself, and throw yourself fully into lifestyle D/s, but the real version, not your silly pay-for-play-for-free-fetish bullshit, or just go and date a woman who is very strong and domineering, have her put you in your place and spoil her gratuitously. This will work out a lot better for you than trying anything else.
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