What the flying fuck is wrong with some of these degenerates? I hope to God they go and fucking kill themselves so I don't fantasize about offing them myself.



What the flying fuck is wrong with some of these degenerates? I hope to God they go and fucking kill themselves so I don't fantasize about offing them myself.



Lmao same. Relateable


Sometimes I can't even believe i'm the same species as some of them lmao



^word
I don't know about your specific case, but I find myself asking the same thing about some customers that I come across.




i concur. I hate to be sexist but i swear women are smarter than men 100% 95 percent of custies are dumb as fuck OR they think we're dumb af
Your body is your temple.





Always consider that none of the guys are being checked for felonies. So trust that there are rapists present, pedophiles, wife beaters, etc. Never get so trusting as to think that these are mostly normal guys. It's totally random. Sometimes you get nice customers and frankly sometimes you get a psychopath. Y'all know one of the World Trade Center bombers was a customer at a long established Jersey gogo bar? You never know who you are dealing with. Take care ladies.
“What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE





True story- when I was a newbie I dated a strip club bouncer who basically said what OP said. At the time I didn't understand it. Now I do.
(Disclaimer- retirement has dulled my rage against these kinds of guys)- my theory is the strip club experience gives these creeps free reign to dump hate and negativity on people without real consequence. (Occasionally they do tangle with security or staff but that's another discussion.)
One of my most eye-opening life experiences was when a handicapped customer got really nasty/cruel with me because I was having issues with the house girls- right up until then he was polite and then he turned on me because (suddenly) he wanted to see me cry. What a pig! I did learn to stop feeling guilt over what I could get out of being sexy and hot- basically "don't judge a book by its cover."
Side note- some people who are total shit never get a criminal record. I have a relative who has a spotless record because she was so adept at draining other people's resources to survive in life, she never had to hustle or have conflict to get by. Others either live off the grid or are good at playing the system (example- killer cop/psychopath Drew Peterson was coasting into retirement until his missing wives drew attention from the Law.)





You, know, truth..
I'll never forget reading about a dancer, finished a day shift at a small club, talking to a long time regular outside as she waited for a ride..
When her ride showed up, she was gone, never seen or heard from again.
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt










Yes sadly the Golden State Killer WAS a cop during some of his crime spree, it was part of how he picked victims.
& I honestly am upset about that- my experiences with LE in California were mostly good (I mean as good as you can expect given the circumstances.)
That's the sad thing about the bar business, that we all have to work and live with this pall of paranoia and fear over us about being assaulted or worse.




I remember when they caught him. I'm honestly not surprised he was a cop. I'm glad youve had good experiences with them but like I know myself and others have never had a positive experience with cops thus why i'm not surprised. It's the perfect cover and people would have "trusted" him as he was in a position of authority . As we all know, people in positions of power tend to abuse it sadly.
You just can't trust people in todays world.
Your body is your temple.




Bullying is an American past time. We as a marginalized group are very vulnerable to these perpetrators because they think they can get away with it.
We are a scapegoated group.



Dear lord,
I hope when I go back to work I don't feel the need to murder any men or bust somebody's nose like I did last time I was at work. I really don't want to get fired for my hair trigger temper.
Amen.





What’s more worrisome than patrons in the club are the lurkers who wait outside the club. It’s fortunate the club owner has the entire building, including a section which isn’t considered part of the club. It gets used for another business of theirs, but also as our check-in area for anything we keep on us but can’t actually have in the club proper. So, at any point up to entering the building and any point upon leaving the building, aside from being escorted, I also have pepper spray and a handgun on my person the entire time.



ACAB
Never trust any one of these men. I had a long time regular who came in daily for 2 years. Thank gods I never gave him genuine personal info. He ended up stalking several dancers.





IDK if anyone else interested, but I also carry a personal alarm, 130db
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt



Ugh some of these so called "customers" really make me want to commit a felony against them.
I really only dont do it because I dont wanna go to jail![]()




Right. I swear they're getting worse lately..
"You mean i have to pay to see you naked? Fuck that"
"What? But i don't have any money. Can't you just flash me real quick?"
"Im not paying 10 dollars to see your pussy"
"I thought this was free"
I just want to scream ARE YOU FUCKING RETARDED? IN WHAT FUCKING WORLD DO YOU THINK HOT BITCHES SIT AROUND ALL DAY GETTING NAKED AND RAMMING THEIR HOLES FOR FUCKING FREE YOU FUCKING IDIOT
Your body is your temple.
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