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    Default Is the grass greener? \ The love & hate relationship with SW. Help!

    Hi Ladies,

    This is a feeling I've been struggling with a LONG time. And something I now feel I need to make a decision about and I know many of you have been at this industry a hella long time, so you better to get advice from? (P.s I have been in this industry myself 3-4 yrs)

    My first issue & question is, is the grass greener on the other side?
    After feeling quite fed up with the sex industry as a whole, I have spent the last 6 months researching other ways to start making income online (mainly passive) and researched into blogging/Amazon FBA/ E-book/course making/ Affiliate marketing you name it.
    I found MOST of these people are making way more money than your average SW (I'd say average being $3k-$5k a month) these people are not only making more but aren't having to deal with annoying men.

    So my questions are. Is the grass greener outside the sex industry, are we potentially working the same hours and earning less money than we could be doing something else? If so, why aren't more girls getting on this?

    My second question is. It feels really hard to make big money in this industry now, big money enough to do big things like buy a home (With no mortgage) and live a wealthy lifestyle. Or is my view of this scewed?

    I have a very love hate relationship with this industry now. When I am doing it, after a few months I hate it. Then I think to move out the industry and do something else and then I miss the idea of doing this industry.
    Is that normal, does it go away?

    I guess really my biggest overall question is, why do you still remain in the sex industry as opposed to other online earning opportunities?

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    Default Re: Is the grass greener? \ The love & hate relationship with SW. Help!

    Yes and no. The grass is just different. The main difference between sex work and the vanilla work you're talking about is that you can jump into sex work without any experience, without building your own platform, learn as you go, and make money. With vanilla work, it takes a lot more effort to earn ANY income at all.

    I do both. I started doing sex work over 10 years ago (fuck I'm ancient), and I will probably never stop, because I have found niches for myself where I enjoy my work (femdom, fetish, indy cam). I have boundaries where I do not tolerate disrespect, and I have a lot of freedom and independence. I also do vanilla work online, where I have a different persona and am able to show a completely different side of myself. Sex work rewards me financially, vanilla work rewards me spiritually.

    Why not do both? Have the best of both worlds.

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    Default Re: Is the grass greener? \ The love & hate relationship with SW. Help!

    Also yes, it's totally normal to want to escape sex work, but also dream of going back to it. There are sooo many threads here on that exact same subject. You're not alone

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