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    I could be wrong but most they guys with money don’t spend it and if they do spend it they want sex or OTC. I worked during an investment meeting with warren buffet type of clients. Dude all these guys did was just stared at us and did not tip us $1. Seriously! The other night a lawyer guy comes in and makes it rain, but I was surprised. A lot of rich men are familiar with sex work and know to keep asking they will eventually find OTC. You’d think as a stripper I’d like rich men, but i really don’t get along with CEO type of men. I’ll dance for them sure, but eventually they get pissed because I’m not an extras girl. Even if it’s not extras, they tend to want a phone number or lunch or something to spend big money. I’m really firm with my boundaries on OTC. I might miss out on money, but I also have cut all the drama out of my life because I keep work at work.

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    Preach it!

    I also don’t count on rich customers necessarily being the ones who’ll drop money like it’s nothing. I have a couple regulars who do, but they’re not the most frequent for being there. Whereas younger military personnel in their first year, its their first time being on their own for many of them, they know they’ll still have a roof over their head and three squares a day, regardless of their financial situation, and they want to party like it’s 1999. A lot of the other dancers completely overlook them, and that’s always been to my benefit. Being a vet myself, it also makes it easy to relate to them. Those are some of my best customers.
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    You’re definitely right about rich & wealthy men wanting otc. Either they want it then and ask you out or in their mind they’re playing the long game and will keep seeing you with the goal of getting you to date them/ be their side piece. They are also the most frugal in my opinion. Blue collar guys will only have 100 bucks to spend of disposable income but will spend everything on a girl in the club. A man could be worth millions but will get one or two dances.

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    Every time a bouncer points me at a guy who has a fat stack in his wallet, they NEVER spend it. Sometimes the ITC extras girls can get it, but not always.

    I think a) they go by the motto of "how I got rich wasn't by blowing my money" and b) they're used to using it to get whatever they want, so they don't care what the rules are & will push for OTC.
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    Men are like dogs, esp male customers. Gotta train them right and not spoil them for bad behavior. I'm willing to bet some desperate/naive girls gave them way too much in hopes of...

    Such as giving them free time, etc....

    Non-spenders need to get ignored if they can't respect a girl's time and compensate.

    Treat all these men the same.


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    Rich guys don't get rich by throwing money around. Plus, their mindset is different from regular Joe's and adult virgins when it comes to women.

    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    Men are like dogs, esp male customers. Gotta train them right and not spoil them for bad behavior.
    I wish it was that easy to train men to spend in the club.

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    It probably depends on your definition of “rich”

    Technically any dude with some disposable income to comfortably spend is rich.

    There are some rich assholes but there are more rich generous men who value a woman’s time and effort and have realistic expectations. Be willing to walk away - mid sentence if necessary - from the former

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    Quote Originally Posted by 305gurl View Post
    Rich guys don't get rich by throwing money around. Plus, their mindset is different from regular Joe's and adult virgins when it comes to women.


    I wish it was that easy to train men to spend in the club.
    The simplest thing is NOT to give them free time. Like if the club is slow and he is the only one there... if he's not paying leave. I'm not talking 2 or 3 lapdances and a drink... no no no. Bounce.

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    ^ the problem is in a lot of clubs there is no general agreement among girls to not give guys above x amount of time for free. There is no agreement to not entertain for free. No agreement to not do extras etc. If there was a general consensus among all girls and they followed it always- I do think it would be easy to train these guys. I just don't see it happening though.

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    I’ve always made most of my money off of a few Average Joe Americans. Random guys, throughout the night, who each spend $100 here and there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by random stripper View Post
    ^ the problem is in a lot of clubs there is no general agreement among girls to not give guys above x amount of time for free. There is no agreement to not entertain for free. No agreement to not do extras etc. If there was a general consensus among all girls and they followed it always- I do think it would be easy to train these guys. I just don't see it happening though.
    If you work in a smaller club, sometimes the girls will work together.

    I was lucky enough to experience this at the last club I worked at (and retired from).

    We had six to eight dancers on day shift and we would share information about customers. The best part was that our female manager didn't force us to go in stage over and over for men that weren't buying or tipping.

    Each one of us would approach and talk for a few minutes, but if they didn't buy a drink, dance or tip, we left them alone to contemplate an empty stage and no company.

    After allowing them to sit alone in the dark for some time, we'd take turns going back. Some would 'get it' and spend, the others would make a shame walk by all of us sitting at the bar on their way out.

    There was also the idea that no one wanted to be tied up with a non spender if a good customer came in.

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    ^I wish I could find a small club with such sensible girls. That sounds wonderful

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkMinx View Post
    If you work in a smaller club, sometimes the girls will work together.

    I was lucky enough to experience this at the last club I worked at (and retired from).

    We had six to eight dancers on day shift and we would share information about customers. The best part was that our female manager didn't force us to go in stage over and over for men that weren't buying or tipping.

    Each one of us would approach and talk for a few minutes, but if they didn't buy a drink, dance or tip, we left them alone to contemplate an empty stage and no company.

    After allowing them to sit alone in the dark for some time, we'd take turns going back. Some would 'get it' and spend, the others would make a shame walk by all of us sitting at the bar on their way out.

    There was also the idea that no one wanted to be tied up with a non spender if a good customer came in.
    Love this^!


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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Love this^!
    I hate when people then write an online review talking about how oh, I came there with like over, $500 and no one talked to me what a terrible club. It's cause you're a cheap bastarf who wastes girls time.

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    What does OCT stand for?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MysteryGirl44 View Post
    What does OCT stand for?
    Outside the club. Means any kind of activities that is conducted with a male, a customer in our case, and dancer. Usually dating and/or sex, compensation or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkMinx View Post
    If you work in a smaller club, sometimes the girls will work together.

    I was lucky enough to experience this at the last club I worked at (and retired from).

    We had six to eight dancers on day shift and we would share information about customers. The best part was that our female manager didn't force us to go in stage over and over for men that weren't buying or tipping.

    Each one of us would approach and talk for a few minutes, but if they didn't buy a drink, dance or tip, we left them alone to contemplate an empty stage and no company.

    After allowing them to sit alone in the dark for some time, we'd take turns going back. Some would 'get it' and spend, the others would make a shame walk by all of us sitting at the bar on their way out.

    There was also the idea that no one wanted to be tied up with a non spender if a good customer came in.
    I don't understand managers and DJs putting entertainers constantly on stage for a person or people not tipping or spending and not sure wheater paying a entry is an issue?
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