How do you ladies like treating yourself? Daily? Weekly? Monthly? Yearly? I'd love some ideas![]()


How do you ladies like treating yourself? Daily? Weekly? Monthly? Yearly? I'd love some ideas![]()



I love massages but that's usually reserved for when I do well/work a lot a lot. I also lurv to eat!




Bubble baths (I love Lush bubble bars), massages, fresh flowers in the house, allowing myself time off if I'm in a bad headspace, VS 2 for $40 sleep shirts, splurging on nice bedding, having a maid come 1x month, doing yoga, eating healthily, oh ...and Starbucks.
I'm not really into super extravagant things but I will occasionally have a spa day at a nice hotel or go on vacations. I'm very much of a homebody and my home is my sanctuary so I mostly treat myself to creature comforts.





It really depends on my mood. It can range from a nice quiet horseback ride to a day at a spa to heavy metal and hardcore punk shows where I get the shit knocked out of me in the pit, but it’s all good as long as I can say I put up a good fight.
I still get real bad episodes of survivors guilt sometimes after what happened in A-Stan and feel like I don’t deserve to treat myself at all, and at these times, taking care of our two ‘refugees’ and working with the small shelter I work with to me has sort of a windfall benefit of treating myself by letting me feel like I’m doing something to deserve to not have died that day.
Written on the walls at the house of sorrow
You can find the names of those who burned
Greater yet, the pain in little drawings
I could not remain in that room



FOod. Get my nails done and waxing including massage at the salon. Going shopping to add some quality items to help me feel more beautiful and look better. Travel-- I dont really do much to treat myself.
Last edited by yaya_cash; 12-02-2018 at 08:49 PM.
I treat myself to a glass of wine and really savour it because I don’t drink as often as I used to.
If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it , change your attitude. ~ Maya Angelou ~





Commitment to eating healthy.
Massage every 1-2 weeks . Swims / Yoga.
Spa visits and Restaurant Visits
I am the master of hedonism and splurging . Haha. Ask anyone who knows me.
Also : tea houses / small weekend trips / movie outings.
Last edited by carmen_b; 12-15-2018 at 11:45 AM.
I'm on a budget, so I treat myself using my trusty dildo and vibrator! Wish I could for a back massage though LOL.





Premium coffee and masturbation....



... Treating yourself to some dick, that takes you shopping...? (Laughing.)
A nice dinner at one of my favorite restaurants, a new vibrator, a new lingerie outfit, and my favorite perfume.





^ loovveeee

Sims 4 expansions and hair dye



When I have lived on my own, a nice (but modestly priced) dinner out once a week was always a favourite treat.
Starbucks peppermint mocha on my way into the straight job.
I also have a weakness for Godiva.




With the new year I’m going to kick my Starbucks habit and start drinking water. I like bubble baths. Getting my Botox and fillers is fun. Watching Samantha Bee. Working out and shopping at Whole Foods.





I havent done this in awhile mostly because my go to spot is too far away. I use to have girl dates with my besties. There's a tiny shopping center/office park that has a nail shop, a high end sushi joint AND a sex toy spot. They had stripper clothes too. We would get pedicures, a foot massage, saki and sex toys every two weeks. I miss those dates. These days its just a pedicure and a good book at a park. I bought myself a ps4 and a cuisinart griddler a few weeks ago. The crib has been lit ever since.


I'm cheap. If I can DIY I won't come out my wallet. I hate owing and spending money.
Treating myself usually includes....
New hair products because I do hair
Bubble baths and candles (I make them)
A rare bottle of wine (spirits and liq are dirt cheap in my country)


Wine, incense, a deck of cards and/or books/YouTube. I stay away from vodka unless it is the weekend. Wine I can control the amount because I need to make sure it is early enough to drink because I have a 12-10 hr rule before work.
Incense and the cards are almost nightly.
Also perfume myself up a lot too before sleep.



Shopping at dolls kill, buying new dance clothes/ shoes, otherwise I honestly like 2 save my money . lol. oh and postmates*fuck the free delivery menu, gonna splurge...I'll pay the xtra $7 for some KFC LOL*
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Like ifyouseekamy, I like splurging on sculptra injections or lip fillers 😂🤷🏼♀️ Hey, they're worth it to me.
Otherwise, a good pedicure with the hot stones and wraps and exfoliation. A bath with oils, Epsom salts, and designer goat milk soaps( a lady I know makes , they're so moisturizing)
Sushi.
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