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    Hey everyone!

    So about two months ago I got fired at Penthouse in Philly, which I have zero clue as to why it happened as I don’t do extras. I was having a bad day though because I had just got kicked out of my apartment and broken up with... Whatever that’s not my point.

    I auditioned at another club that my (not sane) ex-room mate works at. She’s the one who got me evicted even though she had 4 noise violations, I took the fall for 1.

    So I auditioned, and they said that if it were up to him he would hire me. Which makes no sense. I did get in trouble there for having an “attitude” as a customer one time which was not true. Some guy was handing me ones and I was handing them back off to the dancers and they asked me to leave because I was taking away money from the other girls. Maybe they remembered me? Not sure.

    Then the other day a good friend of mine and a mutual friend of hers, asked my ex-room mate how the auditions were at that club, and she told her to go give it a shot. Next thing I know I get a call from my ex-room mate saying “If she gives me attitude she knows I own that club and I can either make or break her audition. The managers love me and I know they’ll listen to anything I say.”

    SOOOO after she said that, I was kinda in shock and it made more sense that she sabotaged my audition and told them not to hire me.



    Im 5’3, on the smaller side but I have a butt. I get compared to Demi Rose all of the time.

    Im feeling hopeless right now!!! Should I give Delilah’s a shot? I don’t want to be shot down again.



    EDIT: the guy was tipping me while i wasn’t working, i was a customer, but i was not keeping the money! i kept giving it to whoever was on stage.

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    What else is there to do? Keep trying. Maybe expand your area a little. Your ex-roommate sounds like a real work of art. If she’s that bad, I’d try to get out of her sphere of influence. If that failed, maybe try to clear the air with her, but don’t be a pushover… if she makes unreasonable demands… I dunno. Had it been me, I’d fight the bitch. Probably not the recommended practice, though.
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    This is exactly why I don't befriend other strippers, let alone live with one.

    Anytime I've even come close to a type of comradery with a chick at work she alway does SOMETHING to try and sabotage me out of jealousy. It's a joke.

    Just audition at other clubs she's not around & delete all their numbers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AChildOfBoredom View Post
    What else is there to do? Keep trying. Maybe expand your area a little. Your ex-roommate sounds like a real work of art. If she’s that bad, I’d try to get out of her sphere of influence. If that failed, maybe try to clear the air with her, but don’t be a pushover… if she makes unreasonable demands… I dunno. Had it been me, I’d fight the bitch. Probably not the recommended practice, though.
    I've worked with a couple girls who "stalk the club" (have some sort of drive to be Queen Bee) & yes they do sabotage other girls.

    Commute to work somewhere else or cam. In time she will move on and won't be an issue anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    I've worked with a couple girls who "stalk the club" (have some sort of drive to be Queen Bee) & yes they do sabotage other girls.
    I’m not unaware of it. I had to deal with one at the first club I worked at. Not so much that she’d try to sabotage you, but she liked to bully anyone shorter than her, so if course I came under her radar. She tried getting me to go into this room with her one night, then decided to try pulling me in by my hair when I ignored her. By the time the bouncers got to us, her face had been bounced off of two chairs, a door jamb, and had punched a hole in the drywall, and she was on her knees, turning red and tapping on my arm to try to get me to let her out of the chokehold I had her in. I’m a very passive person, but my patience has limits.
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    It sounds like she told the manager not to hire you which is incredibly bad karma. Look for another club.

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    Come by the suburbs. You know where to find me.
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    Lots of girls travel from philly to nyc to dance. I say get hired here, kill it, and shit on her. Lol.

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    You Ladies are fucking awesome!^

    Whoa @ COB, sure don't blame you!

    Btw, I've experienced this type of shit on vanilla jobs as well, which I'm sure others have too.


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    You probably don’t want to work with a manager that plays favorities. I have social capital with my manager but it’s because I’m professional and he’s knows I wouldn’t say, “ don’t hire so and so” unless I had a really, really good reason. You don’t want to work at club where a girl can suck the managers dick and be the de facto manager. Hope you find a better club that cares more about making money and running their club professionally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NYC.Bianca View Post
    This is exactly why I don't befriend other strippers, let alone live with one.

    Anytime I've even come close to a type of comradery with a chick at work she alway does SOMETHING to try and sabotage me out of jealousy. It's a joke.

    Just audition at other clubs she's not around & delete all their numbers.
    It's best to keep to yourself and shut your mouth.

    I got talked to 3 times and fired 2 times due to another stripper telling something basic about me and I was an idiot because I thought they were cool and that we were beyond that level of petty BS. I still think to this day that it was the most ridiculous shit to be fired over. I got talked to one time for saying "they don't like me here" to another girl. I was talked to and told not to say that. Fired the next day because that manager hated me anyways. I keep to myself now. I was talked to numerous times from staff at clubs from some chick gossiping after something I said and I was a moron for being open. Ugh I'm not catty like that, I thought they were cool girls at the time but those girls clearly wanted me out of the club.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lol1337a View Post
    When I started traveling to NYC and making better money than ever, my own frenemy coworker absolutely lost her mind. Then lost it even more when I did so well I could break my lease and move there the next week

    Should've done it years before.

    Anyway, plenty of dancers travel to and from Philly/NYC, like ariel said. Though it seems far more wise to live in Philly and work in NYC to me than the reverse. You can always rotate between Philly, NYC, even Baltimore, north Jersey, and the suburbs. If you live close to an Amtrak station in Philly, your commute can be around an hour.

    I know several (vanilla) NYC expats who moved to Philly but kept their jobs in NYC. It can be a bit pricey and annoying to get home late at night, though. May as well get a cheap air bnb if you commute to NYC for work and don't drive.
    I knew a couple girls who commuted to work in good clubs in New England from NYC. I've personally taken the train in that region, it's not that bad.

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