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    Duh thinking about quitting the game.....

    hey girls im only posting here cause I dont have anyone in real lofe to talk to so feel free to post some advice if you want
    ive been dancing for almost a year and a half. my first 8-9 months i made GREAT money then ended up getting fired from my home club and never made money like that ever again. its been 8 months and ive been broke ever since. there are very few clubs in my area im currently living in nepa and ive basically tried every club in a 100 mi radius and im just over it. the very few clubs in the area with money i cannot work at for some reason they all give me the run around of some sort. i find myself every night hoping i walk out with at least 50$ after house fee. and every night i have the fear that i wont make anything and i never used to feel that way. the last time i made decent money was in may and june (we are now in december almost) ieven had to go get a real job for afew months because i wasnt making shit im honestly burnt out but it wouldn't be so bad if i was actually making money it would be o. k. im currently thinking about giving up stripping why am i making less taking off my clothes than i would at a retail job. at first i was thinking it was just the clubs that i've been at but i realize it just could be me. everywhere is too far to drive to not make money new york is too far so is jersey. whos trying to drive an hour and a half to make 60$ a night ? im tired of hearing other bitches bragging about how much they make because i can barely make my bills every month. i wish i had known it would've been like this i would've never started stripping in the first place. theres TWO clubs in my city (i recently moved) one of which gave me the complete run around and the other one hired me months ago before i even moved to this city. I am going to give this club a try (hopefully its good because its 15 min away) never lived that fucking close to a club before so hopefully the nights where i leave with 10$ or less wont be so bad tired of everyone telling me how beautiful i am and how well i dance because that makes me absolutely nothing.

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    Default Re: thinking about quitting the game.....

    There's nothing wrong with taking a break or quitting to do something more rewarding.

    Think of it this way- you're coming out ahead if you find another means of income and build a future.

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    If you're making $10-50 a night, you either need to find a new club or a new job. It's not worth taking your clothes off for...

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    I’d be seeking greener pastures in that situation, as well. Even just moonlighting as a stripper, I’d stay home and keep my clothes on for that amount of money.

    If stripping isn’t working out for you, don’t assume it means you have to settle for a retail job, if you’re willing to think outside the box and get your hands dirty. I work as a heavy equipment operator - certainly not a glorious job by any measure, but the pay is good, and the work’s even fun at times. I feel your pain. My first job after I moved to N.C. was Kohl’s… it wasn’t doing it for me. I’m sure you’d find it lacking, as well.

    I’d encourage you to keep trying, but if you’re up against a wall, it doesn’t leave a world of possibilities.
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    Default Re: thinking about quitting the game.....

    You can take a break for sure. If other girls are making decent money, and the clubs have a healthy number of customers then it’s likely you’re mindset - I’ve been there, we’ve all been there and it sucks. But balancing your life out and working on your mental health and outlook, will help your earnings big time. It’s the reason why a lot of us have a great first few months, bc our mindset and expectations are still fresh and clean from negative expectations.

    You can take a break tho in the meantime bc it sounds like that’s what you’re leaning towards. Just follow your gut to make that choice. You could supplement by doing camming or even phone sex (yes, you can still make very good bank with phone sex). At the end of the day though, if you’re mindset sucks and you live in fear and lack, you’ll be broke no matter what job you choose, because that’s what you’re attracting.

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    Yeah 8 or 9 months isn't just a slump it's a lifestyle...I would be looking for a new job. I think even a job flipping burgers would pay better. It doesn't mean you can't try stripping again but it should not be your main source of income right now.

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    exactly what im saying everyone saying find a new club but this business is dying down itself

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    i fucking hate schedules getting a job now will just further my depression ����♀️ i feel caged in and like my life isnt advancing

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    Default Re: thinking about quitting the game.....

    Do webcam or even try doing phone sex and save the gas money if you don’t want to work a schedule. Or just find any other freelance job(Uber, online gigs, delivery service) bc that’s not enough money to be doing this for.
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    no computer right now to do camming i have cammed before and got tired of all the other girls bragging about the thousands they make while i never made more than 150$ in two weeks. also phone sex is very uncomfortable to me i cant even pretend i dont even know how to be sexy in real life. will get another dead end job though....really have no choice at this point. i fear i wont have time for sewing ( i have a custom clothing business thats just starting up) my last job had me there all the time and all i wanted to do was sleep when i wasnt there. i also lose a ton of weight when i get regular jobs because i cant eat as much as i usually do when im home all day and often have sleep for dinner. hopefully i find something.

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    ^I feel your pain. I think I’d be horrible at phone sex. I’m much too dry and blunt for that. I could see it now…

    Him: “I’m pulling out my 12 inches”

    Me: “Umm… sure. I believe that”

    Have you looked into WIC and programs your state may have for to make technical schools available to those who may not otherwise be able to afford it?
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    no i haven't looked into technical school but not sure thats the route i even wanna go. i just know stripping is no longer for me. i am excited to quit tho its totally disgusting grinding on these nasty little shrimps ....

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