Actually, you're correct but let me go much deeper than you did. Men get shamed for promiscuity but only when other men do not approve of their behavior. To be honest, Hugh Hefner and Kiss are not great examples of this. Because they did not get shamed for their sexual adventures and they also married adult industry professionals. They knew their places and people really did not give them flack. Gene Summons, Hugh Hefner, and Paul Stanley married chicks who could handle their exploits. For example, Gene Simmons married Shannon Tweed, 80s Queen of Cinemax porn and Erotic thrillers. So, I believe they are evenly match. Men have nothing to fear from super sexually active men who marry girls apart of this industry.
Now, Don Juans and Casanova types are completely different as they mess up the Status quo.They fall out of line with how men view themselves. Men who want to keep the status quo do not like men who behave differently.
You see, you can be an stud only if men respect you actions and look up to you. But as soon as that man becomes more than an stud than he becomes problematic. Because Casanovas and Don Juans often go hand and hand with women's free will. They offer women sexual and romantic freedoms unlike any other type of men.
For example, Giacomo Casanova was hated because he seduced women from all classes.He did not believe in caging up women's sexuality and a lot of stuff that would be super liberal even today. So, people punished him in his later years for his sexual freedom and not settling down.Meanwhile, women who keep the status quo intact hate Casanovas and Don Juan because they do not like men who do not want to settle down for marriage. Sexual jealously and bitterness comes out in how people treat these men This is why Casanovas are called womanizers, fuckboys, and other things. Meanwhile, Don Juans are called emotional repressed crybabies who use sex to hide their loneliness but we all know the truth. People shamed them because they refused to settling down and falling in line. In fact, Don Juanism was classified the male equivalent of nymphomania and many poor men was classified as this. But, their only crimes were having multiple sexual partners and not falling line with other men's standards.

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