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    We all know if we work in the camming industry we risk it all when throw ourselves out there, right? I stupidly put my Linkedin photo (in 2017) briefly as my camming photo. I maybe did this for about a week, two tops. I totally wasn't thinking anyone would connect any dots, but I'm starting to think I was found by a previous customer of mine, perhaps?


    I had a regular when I cammed, back in oh let's say 2015-2016 time. He was overseas, worked in I.T. and was a whale to me. He had a pregnant fetish at the time and was talking about how him and his girlfriend were trying to conceive a child. I had an insanely good memory when it came clients, especially the good ones.


    Fast forward to late 2017, I get a random person messaging me on Linkedin about a job offer. It sounds suspicious as hell because, he's overseas. I reply back and we get to talking. He is from Europe but he's a temporary interim executive. I completely find this creepy as hell and I keep some distance. Him and and another executive both schedule a phone interview. All seems legit and I'm ready to see what this job has to offer. It's completely 110% perfect to my vanilla career. Like too good to be true perfect. It was a damn dream come true to be honest.... We do the phone interview and all seems too good to be true. A week later I got offered a job from this executive (to whom I've never met in person yet!) and I'm set to start after Christmas.


    Now comes the day where I'm scheduled to start the job. I have this gut feeling he found me through camming or somehow knew I was a cammodel BEFORE he reached out to me. I just know it. I can feel it in my gut deep down.


    In my first week on the job, he pulls me into the conference room alone and we go through some coding stuff. He uses his personal Macbook to tether to the large flatscreen and all seems alright so far. Nothing too creepy. Nothing out of the ordinary. Until he gets a popup for an online gentlemen's club email. He plays it cool and acts as if nothing happened, but of course turns really red. *what guy wouldnt though?* I still have that gut feeling that he knows what I did before he hired me. I go about my week and act as if nothing happened.


    So here I am, hired for this job at this company after camming off & on for a mere 6 years. I ended up falling in love with the job, the company and my coworkers fairly fast. I felt very complacent.


    Throughout the job there, I felt he dropped a lot of hints about how he felt towards me. I just felt that he felt something so deep down, I couldn't even explain. It was something I've never felt before. I'm married, so I'm not saying this is a typical boy-girl love story. He was extremely protective of me, and wasn't afraid to both speak it & show it immensely. He told me several times he had to "protect me". I wasn't naive, I just didn't have concrete proof to know if he was a former client of mine.


    He was however acting a bit strange when it came to putting anything work related on MY PERSONAL LAPTOP. He didn't mind anyone else putting work related matters on their personal laptops, but he had a beef against me using mine. It was I picked up the cue he knew I was previously a porn star... I just had that hunch.


    Now here is where it gets interesting... hold on....


    Upon leaving, I went through a terrible targeted hacking with my personal emails, websites and other various online accounts that I had. My boss took is very, very personal I left. It felt like a true bf-gf breakup. He decided to go through my Instagram and unlike any photos he had liked before. He unfriended me on social media and ghosted me as if I never existed. Let's just say it fucking hurt. He knew what he was doing though. He was treating me as some girl that dumped/rejected him. It was awful.


    That's just the beginning....


    The ultimate kicker? My previous boss was a hacker, was known for teaching hacking in Europe at universities and was quite skilled at it that he worked in bank security right before he found me. It dawned on me that I had a regular whale of mine back before I started this job that was in that same country, same first name and overall same profession. Maybe it was a coincidence. Maybe I am paranoid. However, I did get hacked upon leaving my job. All my camming stuff was in those emails, so of course i'm 100% positive he eventually found out what I did if he didn't already know. If you're wondering if I used my personal email at work, NO I DID NOT. I did however, stupidly connect to the wifi on my phone at work that had the email that connected me to just about everything. Talk about stupid stupid stupid. He brought hacking gear right before that to sniff the network (maybe to spy on the workers). There was about 40 of us total at corporate. It was a pretty big company. I hadn't realized what he brought until I googled what they were. Which turned out to be a Pineapple Wifi. lol!!! You can google it yourselves.


    Upon reviewing analytics after leaving the job, it dawned on me that another executive in the company (the one that cohired me) along with my boss, had most likely purchased videos of me back on C4S in 2016. It was from a small tiny town in the middle of nowhere in Europe where the company had its headquarters based over there. I eventually realized why he always gave me that "you're familiar" look when I worked there as well. Also, the following week after leaving the job, I reviewed my Google Analytics and saw that a certain person was a regular visitor from this very small Bavarian town where my boss was currently residing. Talk about another crazy scary situation.


    Long story short to sum all of this madness up...


    If you cam, you will get eventually outed. Especially if you're working in the vanilla field. I happened to have a huge fan-base in Europe, so I didn't realize I would work for a company one town over from me that had 3 European executives. SMH!


    Anyways, there is much, much more to this than I can type up in a post. I just love finally being able to talk about it without worrying or being too upset about going through all of this.

    For those wondering what I could do about a hacker, there isn't anything I can do to prove who did it. It was just a big coincidence that it happened, and most smart hackers go behind VPN's so they don't get caught.

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    This is why I shake my head when people ask how they can cam without revealing their identity or people finding out. There's sites out there that have recordings of all cam shows - even those cam girls that were just sitting there chatting while fully clothed. There's HUNDREDS of hours of me on one site that will not comply with DMCA, it's literally videos of me and my husband chatting, somewhere I play with my cat (not in a sexual manner, just being silly with my actual cat), it's just every single thing and it's all there.

    I had someone see me at a restaurant and email me about it asking if it was actually me. It was across the street where I used to live and we drove there, so he could have gotten even more info on me by getting my plates or following me. I mean, what were the chances I'd see someone that knew me near where I lived?!
    My husband had a friend from another country find us on cam as well. This was someone from a very small town 3,000 miles away!
    I even had someone find my apartment address and then full name and try to blackmail me, he had very serious issues and I was lucky he never tried to come to my door, I honestly thought he would.
    I had another regular of mine figure out where I lived down to the street by writing down the places I said I would go to, they were all in the neighborhood and though they were not all locally owned places he still managed to figure it out. There were only 3 apartments where he guessed so it wouldn't have been hard to find me.

    At some point everyone slips up. You say something that is a giveaway, you accidentally show a letter or address, you share too much information, you use the same photos or email as your personal stuff, your personal social media isn't on complete lock down, etc.

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    yup ^ i always thought i'd be ok since i only really work private based sites. but once a guy on aw after a few privates started dropping hints that he knew me. i played completely dumb of course but we had met alright, and through a very niche hobby we both have. turns out we have LOTS of mutual contacts so this would not have gone well had he decided to run his mouth. fortunately he didn't as i think he was just genuinely stoked to find a camgirl he knew from 'real life'. i blocked him though regardless. as far as i know over all these years he's the only one. But yeah, you WILL be recognised by someone at some point, pretty much guaranteed.

    sorry you had to deal with that shit hun x
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    Wow, I'm glad that you left! That would creep me out to my core. Especially the way your boss acted so immaturely, unliking pics on your social media. Talk about crossing professional boundaries.

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    Someone a while back found my old vanilla fashion blog I wrote as a teenager and I guess visually I haven't changed a lot, I just dyed my hair and don't looks so miserable, anyway the guy decided to be super creepy and sent me an email claiming to be a teenage girl with strict parents who wanted advice on how to dress in the way she wanted. I emailed back a couple of times then it started feeling a bit like something was kinda off, I had some life drama and didn't get a chance to email this "girl" for about a week and a half and came back to half a dozen increasingly odd messages where the facade started to slip, which ended eventually with him admitting he was a guy who wanted me to be his Dom. Like if he'd just been honest from the start I'd have considered.

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    I guess it depends how much you give away. I see some models travel and are so open about where their next destinations are! Its actually pretty stupid, despite being open as theres some complete and utter crazies out there. Even the smallest things can give some away............

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    I really loved these responses! It's great to have some feedback and makes me feel not so crazy & paranoid. It felt good talking about this because I just wanted to explain my experience. We should never ignore our intuition when it comes to men. Because most of the time, it's true.

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    Ellie thank you for posting this. Its great info about what can happen and that if it does happen you can live through it. New girls really need to know this.

    As soon as you post an image of yourself on a cam site Google has your image. You have a personal account somewhere else with the same or similar image, lets say FB, the FB algorithm links that cam image of you to people who have clicked it who also use FB and they will receive a "maybe you know this person" post on their FB profile. It happens all the time. It will happen to your family and friends and your clients cause they are in the market of advertising so this is all advertising for them. I use a picture of my cat who died back in the 90's on my personal accounts and I use them only for family. I also use a fake name so if I pop up on any clients info they have no idea that its me.

    This is a great post cause its not just a warning that it could happen its pretty evident that it did happen! I hope the job paid well despite the creepy invasion and Im glad you're in a good space now. Thank you again for posting! Things like this should be sticky!

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    Scary stuff!
    I'm about 90% positive one of my doctors knows I'm a camgirl. I completely lie about my profession, I don't say jack that would hint I cam. He's said a few offhand things, while still professional, lead me to believe he knows. My gut says he knows too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EllieGold View Post
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    We all know if we work in the camming industry we risk it all when throw ourselves out there, right? I stupidly put my Linkedin photo (in 2017) briefly as my camming photo. I maybe did this for about a week, two tops. I totally wasn't thinking anyone would connect any dots, but I'm starting to think I was found by a previous customer of mine, perhaps?


    I had a regular when I cammed, back in oh let's say 2015-2016 time. He was overseas, worked in I.T. and was a whale to me. He had a pregnant fetish at the time and was talking about how him and his girlfriend were trying to conceive a child. I had an insanely good memory when it came clients, especially the good ones.


    Fast forward to late 2017, I get a random person messaging me on Linkedin about a job offer. It sounds suspicious as hell because, he's overseas. I reply back and we get to talking. He is from Europe but he's a temporary interim executive. I completely find this creepy as hell and I keep some distance. Him and and another executive both schedule a phone interview. All seems legit and I'm ready to see what this job has to offer. It's completely 110% perfect to my vanilla career. Like too good to be true perfect. It was a damn dream come true to be honest.... We do the phone interview and all seems too good to be true. A week later I got offered a job from this executive (to whom I've never met in person yet!) and I'm set to start after Christmas.


    Now comes the day where I'm scheduled to start the job. I have this gut feeling he found me through camming or somehow knew I was a cammodel BEFORE he reached out to me. I just know it. I can feel it in my gut deep down.


    In my first week on the job, he pulls me into the conference room alone and we go through some coding stuff. He uses his personal Macbook to tether to the large flatscreen and all seems alright so far. Nothing too creepy. Nothing out of the ordinary. Until he gets a popup for an online gentlemen's club email. He plays it cool and acts as if nothing happened, but of course turns really red. *what guy wouldnt though?* I still have that gut feeling that he knows what I did before he hired me. I go about my week and act as if nothing happened.


    So here I am, hired for this job at this company after camming off & on for a mere 6 years. I ended up falling in love with the job, the company and my coworkers fairly fast. I felt very complacent.


    Throughout the job there, I felt he dropped a lot of hints about how he felt towards me. I just felt that he felt something so deep down, I couldn't even explain. It was something I've never felt before. I'm married, so I'm not saying this is a typical boy-girl love story. He was extremely protective of me, and wasn't afraid to both speak it & show it immensely. He told me several times he had to "protect me". I wasn't naive, I just didn't have concrete proof to know if he was a former client of mine.


    He was however acting a bit strange when it came to putting anything work related on MY PERSONAL LAPTOP. He didn't mind anyone else putting work related matters on their personal laptops, but he had a beef against me using mine. It was I picked up the cue he knew I was previously a porn star... I just had that hunch.


    Now here is where it gets interesting... hold on....


    Upon leaving, I went through a terrible targeted hacking with my personal emails, websites and other various online accounts that I had. My boss took is very, very personal I left. It felt like a true bf-gf breakup. He decided to go through my Instagram and unlike any photos he had liked before. He unfriended me on social media and ghosted me as if I never existed. Let's just say it fucking hurt. He knew what he was doing though. He was treating me as some girl that dumped/rejected him. It was awful.


    That's just the beginning....


    The ultimate kicker? My previous boss was a hacker, was known for teaching hacking in Europe at universities and was quite skilled at it that he worked in bank security right before he found me. It dawned on me that I had a regular whale of mine back before I started this job that was in that same country, same first name and overall same profession. Maybe it was a coincidence. Maybe I am paranoid. However, I did get hacked upon leaving my job. All my camming stuff was in those emails, so of course i'm 100% positive he eventually found out what I did if he didn't already know. If you're wondering if I used my personal email at work, NO I DID NOT. I did however, stupidly connect to the wifi on my phone at work that had the email that connected me to just about everything. Talk about stupid stupid stupid. He brought hacking gear right before that to sniff the network (maybe to spy on the workers). There was about 40 of us total at corporate. It was a pretty big company. I hadn't realized what he brought until I googled what they were. Which turned out to be a Pineapple Wifi. lol!!! You can google it yourselves.


    Upon reviewing analytics after leaving the job, it dawned on me that another executive in the company (the one that cohired me) along with my boss, had most likely purchased videos of me back on C4S in 2016. It was from a small tiny town in the middle of nowhere in Europe where the company had its headquarters based over there. I eventually realized why he always gave me that "you're familiar" look when I worked there as well. Also, the following week after leaving the job, I reviewed my Google Analytics and saw that a certain person was a regular visitor from this very small Bavarian town where my boss was currently residing. Talk about another crazy scary situation.


    Long story short to sum all of this madness up...


    If you cam, you will get eventually outed. Especially if you're working in the vanilla field. I happened to have a huge fan-base in Europe, so I didn't realize I would work for a company one town over from me that had 3 European executives. SMH!


    Anyways, there is much, much more to this than I can type up in a post. I just love finally being able to talk about it without worrying or being too upset about going through all of this.

    For those wondering what I could do about a hacker, there isn't anything I can do to prove who did it. It was just a big coincidence that it happened, and most smart hackers go behind VPN's so they don't get caught.
    It is total shit to treat people like this trying to pay bills.
    Exactly why I never cammed or did porn. Considered it BUTTTT.....nahhhh not worth the aftermath. I hate it when girls say "oh nobody found out about so and so doing it".......YET.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MxtressValleycat View Post
    Someone a while back found my old vanilla fashion blog I wrote as a teenager and I guess visually I haven't changed a lot, I just dyed my hair and don't looks so miserable, anyway the guy decided to be super creepy and sent me an email claiming to be a teenage girl with strict parents who wanted advice on how to dress in the way she wanted. I emailed back a couple of times then it started feeling a bit like something was kinda off, I had some life drama and didn't get a chance to email this "girl" for about a week and a half and came back to half a dozen increasingly odd messages where the facade started to slip, which ended eventually with him admitting he was a guy who wanted me to be his Dom. Like if he'd just been honest from the start I'd have considered.
    Creepy ass men.....so glad I deleted all my old blogs and social medias. It was also freeing me mentally tbh. No more pressure to have real life dudes and girl friends of mine asking if I have fb, insta etc I could just simply say "no, have deleted them all" without to lie. I have a camgirl insta and twitter but my insta is inactive, and my twitter I removed many pics with my head in it. Feels much safer.

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    People have found me multiple times. Last month someone I know found me on Streamate. He was really vague in free chat saying he’s fantasized about me, but refused to say who he was. In free chat he asked me to meet him for dinner at a specific place. I said “You want to buy me dinner, but you can’t get a private show and you can’t tell me who you are?” So he took me to private where he had me get naked and then wrote out my full first and last name, but still would not say who he was. I started sweating I was so uncomfortable. Later I checked my personal and private Facebook where he messaged me. I told him it’s ok and I will keep his secret safe and he needs to just understand I am only camming because it helps me financially since my job does not pay enough. He said he understood, but he kept coming into my cam room! Finally I had to tell him to stop coming into my room completely and that it was not healthy to fantasize about me and get me naked online when he knows the real me. There’s a reason we have stage names! He agreed not to and so far all is good!

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    This certain guy and I go way back to 2015 if he's the one I'm thinking of. I actually did a little more research and found his little town has been visiting my c4s since 2015. It could be someone else who lives in this super small niche city, but I had a feeling he's been watching me for some time now before he reached out. Girls, I aint being paranoid. My instincts tell me he knew I cammed BEFORE he offered me a job. Talk about crossing paths because he was from thousands of miles away who ended up becoming an exec to a company just miles down the road from me.

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    Hasn't happened to me yet thankfully but then again I don't have any social media accounts for adult work whatesoever due to this s maybe I'm just lucky. I also move around alot & haven't really been camming on main sites much. I say deny, deny, deny. Which social media accounts aren't linked to each other? Is twitter pretty safe if say you show your body & not your face much?
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    Everyone knows I cam so there's nothing to out. The only people that matter are those that add to your happiness or bank balance. It's your life so don't let anyone tell you how to live it.

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