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    Default Re: A little Motivation - $150,000 ! virtual relationship - She got him to take out l

    I suspect one of my guys has taken out a loan for me and I am starting to feel really bad about it. So on one hand this is inspiring yes, on the other it's a reminder that actually some of these guys are really vulnerable. If you're not a skilled findom who can help them manage their money properly so they don't spend what they haven't got, then you are potentially causing them and their family a lot of damage I'm struggling with how I feel about this right now.
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    Default Re: A little Motivation - $150,000 ! virtual relationship - She got him to take out l

    Well hmm, doesn't really motivate me.

    I try to target wealthy men not idiots like that who are going to quickly reach an expiration date.

    Wealthy men are more fun to play with too - they aren't so stressed and worried. also don't like the fact that she was promising to meet the dummy, something I don't ever do, not necessary to pretend you're going to meet these guys to make tons of $ from them.



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    Yeah no, I like the fantasy and all but I don't want to actually put anybody into debt. I'm super, super careful with findom, I like to really make sure the actual human being I'm taking money from has it to give, I know what debt is like I don't want to inflict it on anybody else and I certainly don't want to fuck someone's wife and kids over by proxy.

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    There is that balance of this is the job and I will do whatever it takes to stay in character and make money.


    I am also reminded constantly in therapy it is not my job to solve their problems. so if they want to get stuck in the rabbit hole I just remind myself that they are adults and it is not my job to fix them.
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    Default Re: A little Motivation - $150,000 ! virtual relationship - She got him to take out l

    Idk what to say, he actually got what he deserved, you know? When you invest exxagerated money in a virtual relationship and neglect your actual family, karma doesn't sleep. If he wanted to have affairs, he should have divorced first, or control his spendings, to not put his family in danger.
    As a camgirl, I can't babysit a grown up man. I would never promise meetings or marriage, but I can't stop him spending if he keeps coming around.
    Afterall, as I said, theese are grown up people who expect to be trated like functional human beings, with brains and logic.

    The banks won't babysit you, if you're taking loans and you're not being to control your finances. They simply take your home without a bat of an eye. They won't come and tell you: "You know, we reduce the bills per month (or spare you a few months), because you lost your job and we wanna make it easier for you". They just kick you out.
    Also, the stores, if you have a shopping addiction, or you're giving everything you have for an Iphone or expensive car. Nobody comes to tell you: "You shouldn't buy my product if you can't afford it, that would put your future months in danger".


    I am really sorry for his wife, as a camgirl, I am only looking to do my job. I need to listen to all the interview, to see if she had any access to his bank account, to see how money were dissapearing and where.

    Anyway, apparently it wasn't even a camgirl, it was a dude who pretended to be a camgirl. So that makes that guy even more idiot.

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    https://www.clickorlando.com/news/fl...estigators-say

    Some members are crazy i swear. I know it isn't the cam girls fault for him beeing out of his mind. But if I was her, i would feel like shit because a fucking stupid ass fuck killed some people & i was somehow involved without wanting to. We need to put limits , boundries, evan when it comes to findom-ing, to make sure they got the cash to spend somehow. I don't evan know how we could avoid nuts people like this guy.

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    I don't find this motivating at all... if you watch the Dave Ramsey video, it wasn't even a camgirl, it's a girl who lied and scammed money out of a guy, having an emotional affair with him. The whole video is the wife talking about how devastated she is.

    Yes, there are men who drop large sums of money, and I am there to happily receive that money. But as a camgirl, and as someone who'd rather not have a guy take out loans and ruin his finances... I feel kinda gross after watching this.

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    Default Re: A little Motivation - $150,000 ! virtual relationship - She got him to take out l

    Not a popular opinion here but I disagree with most of you, the exceptions being the OP and Cutie101. I dont care shit about these guys emotion status or financial status. I am not "scamming" anyone. My prices are clearly posted and for extra gifts, either material or financial, that is 100% their choice. In the video posted the guy who was borrowing the money would have had to tell the financial institutions what his reasons for borrowing were. If he had said the truth, that it was for his online GF overseas, they wouldnt have loaned him the money so he must have lied and said it was for something else. That means he was aware that what he was doing was wrong but he did it anyway. That is his problem not the problem of the person asking for money.

    Also in my life I learned really early on that there is no such thing as "loaning" money to another person. If a person asks you to borrow money just assume that you will never see that money again.

    I sleep like a baby at night cause I dont give a fuck about how another person is spending their money or living their life. I couldnt change it or help them even if I did care, its their life and their journey and the mistakes are their own not mine. Also I would never put myself in a position where my husband could do this to me. I monitor all out accounts just like he does and we are both aware of every penny the other person saves or spends. If you leave yourself at the mercy of another person like that then you are also responsible for that decision. It comes with risks!

    I really dont get why some of you would feel badly about it. Even the guy who murdered his family. They through in the "cam girl" thing cause its click bait but she probably has no idea that this guy murdered his family and stole all their money (btw, how did he steal it? did they keep it in their mattress? chances are they "loaned" it to him and he never paid them back). This guy is mentally ill and this cam girl is probably unaware of his actions and has only had the passing thought of "I wondered what happened to my whale". It has nothing to do with her they only mentioned her cause it adds more sensation to the headline. In the end its just another sad story about a mentally ill man who was taking prescription drugs which list things like, murder and suicide on their list of side effects. Sad but not related to a cam model and doesnt make me feel like I should worry about it in my life.

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    Yes, I also agree with this notion as well.I do not feel sorry for these customers who choose to believe in whipped cream lies and put their families in financial danger. Also, I will never understand why women want to stand by men who put their whole household at risk behind stupid crap like this? That woman in the video should have divorced her husband as soon as she found it that he spend 150,000 dollars on another woman. Just saying, I would have filed for divorce papers as soon as that happen.

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    Not a popular opinion here but I disagree with most of you, the exceptions being the OP and Cutie101. I dont care shit about these guys emotion status or financial status. I am not "scamming" anyone. My prices are clearly posted and for extra gifts, either material or financial, that is 100% their choice. In the video posted the guy who was borrowing the money would have had to tell the financial institutions what his reasons for borrowing were. If he had said the truth, that it was for his online GF overseas, they wouldnt have loaned him the money so he must have lied and said it was for something else. That means he was aware that what he was doing was wrong but he did it anyway. That is his problem not the problem of the person asking for money.

    Also in my life I learned really early on that there is no such thing as "loaning" money to another person. If a person asks you to borrow money just assume that you will never see that money again.

    I sleep like a baby at night cause I dont give a fuck about how another person is spending their money or living their life. I couldnt change it or help them even if I did care, its their life and their journey and the mistakes are their own not mine. Also I would never put myself in a position where my husband could do this to me. I monitor all out accounts just like he does and we are both aware of every penny the other person saves or spends. If you leave yourself at the mercy of another person like that then you are also responsible for that decision. It comes with risks!

    I really dont get why some of you would feel badly about it. Even the guy who murdered his family. They through in the "cam girl" thing cause its click bait but she probably has no idea that this guy murdered his family and stole all their money (btw, how did he steal it? did they keep it in their mattress? chances are they "loaned" it to him and he never paid them back). This guy is mentally ill and this cam girl is probably unaware of his actions and has only had the passing thought of "I wondered what happened to my whale". It has nothing to do with her they only mentioned her cause it adds more sensation to the headline. In the end its just another sad story about a mentally ill man who was taking prescription drugs which list things like, murder and suicide on their list of side effects. Sad but not related to a cam model and doesnt make me feel like I should worry about it in my life.
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    ^Totally, I would have divorced that guy in a heartbeat. How can you ever come back from that level of betrayal?

    It's not that I feel bad for the men involved here, I just think they're disgusting and I don't want anything to do with crazy people. I often block customers, even if they have been whales. If they're too stupid/mean/crazy/impolite/obsessive, they don't get to be my customer. Not all money is good money. I plan to stay in this business for a long time, and I think it's healthy to have boundaries for what you will tolerate.

    I understand not everyone has the same priorities, just my two cents.

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    Default Re: A little Motivation - $150,000 ! virtual relationship - She got him to take out l

    Money comes from other peoples pockets. Even if those pockets are going into debt and ruining their lives to make you money.

    One thread we got all these big weekly goal threads. Cheering raw raw you want to hit those goals then on the same page threads and threads of complaining it's slow not making money, booo who sad faces forever and whatever whatever.

    where do you think the money is coming from?

    Money is energy that is all, if the source of the money coming to you is taking out a loan to pay for your lifestyle, why stop that energy from coming to you.

    This shows me $150,000 is out there and if you have any blockage at all you won't get it.

    that's how I look at it.
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    This guy was clearly a weak-minded old fool & the person that fleeced/exploited him has to be a sociopath to scam him like that imo - completely lacking in any empathy. Wasn't a so-called findom recently prosecuted for something similar & made to pay back the money she took of him?

    I think it was cruel - he obviously wasn't right in the head to spend that amount of money & most reasonably minded people would've recognized that.

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    I understand both points of view. I am an empath, i would feel like crap if i knew i got money because i ruined peoples lifes. Fuck it, maybe i did already & i don't know it. But at least I DON'T KNOW hahah. I won't think about it further more, i work in fetish and i alreay played with a couple of guys that wanted me to ruin their lifes LOL. Back to work now hahaha

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    I don't think too much where my money comes from. I do my best to get it honestly. I've only cut like 1 guy off because my strong suspicions. Yeah he probably ruined his families finances with another model, but I can't control that. I can control MY actions that are in accordance to my morals. It's really easy to throw out what's right when money is tossed at you, and the whole game of it is to acquire as much money through the easiest routes. Its soo easy to blame them being weak, mentally ill, stupid, and deserving of it. To a degree they are, and willfully. It's beyond easy. Drug dealers, banks, scam artist, rapist, sex traffickers...they love saying shit like that about those they take advantage of.

    Manipulation and desperation does crazy shit to people.

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    I don't mind as long as I don't know. It's more important to be able to pay my full bills rather than cry in a corner at the end of the month because I couldn't make a minimum salary again. I WANT to be spoiled. We all want that. This woman in that video is crazy smart and I wish to know her secret. Wish I was as manipulative as her, but sadly at times I'm too nice to these greedy pieces of shits. I wouldn't try to bankrupt one dude tho, that's a bit harsh, but try to get much money from multiple dudes so I wouldn't have to bankrupt one single poor dude. I mean why is it our fault that men get bankrupt?? Many of them don't have limits and that's not my damn problem LOL Also men don't just get bankrupt on women, also on alcohol, gambling games....etc. That's their own fucking fault as they are supposed to be grown ass men, and they should know how to spend their money more wisely or at least learn to put money aside.

    I might sound like a cold bitch but at times where I sit in my room drinking alcohol and crying thinking that I didn't emotionally manipulate that one certain dude who left to give his money to another camgirl who was able to manipulate him better than me, I feel bad, VERY bad. I learned in this industry to be selfish and have the "fuck you pay me" attitude. Without that we don't survive in this industry. Hope I didn't sound too harsh, but those who struggle financially can probably agree with me on some terms.

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