I have been frequenting a particular strip club in the South, and from experience, I tend to do the following with dancers:
1. For a new girl giving a dance, I ask her what her rules are? Usually it has been the obvious "Do not touch between the legs, but anything else is ok.", along with a different one sometimes from each girl.
2. For girls I have danced with before, I confirm if the rules are still the same as last time? To give her an opportunity to let her be more open to me
3. For girls that explicitly bring up wanting to get hurt(being choked, spanked) during dances, I give them safety signals (tap my shoulder to let go, say "ow" for too much strength, etc). Then, I do the actual deed.
My intention of doing this is to make her known she is respected, be sure of her boundaries, and ensure her safety(mostly for #2). Having said those things, are they still acceptable for me to do? Would I come off as a worse customer (or PL) for asking her those things? Or any other ulterior motive that any dancer may have? To milk more money off of me for less work, or for any other reason?
4. Girls that have given me their numbers (or asked by me in some cases), I ask what her boundaries are, and how often? Half the time, its for anything. Others, it is just for business purposes (to ask when she is in, or she will be working on a certain day)
Mainly, what are your opinions for customers like me? And how can I improve on that?


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