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Last edited by PaulDrake; 03-18-2019 at 08:25 PM.



There is a huge difference between 'I am not yet ready for the dance' -- in which case, don't pull the girl back there right away and then get pissy when she tries to do what you're paying her to do -- and straight up being an argumentative prick as we were discussing in that thread.
I am a bit inclined to call bs on some of this, though. You say you're not comfortable with touching right away ... yet feel entitled to touch us yourself in the interest 'of getting comfortable'. Does it occur to you that maybe your dancer doesn't want your mitts on her back or 'outer thigh'? She has every right to tell you to keep your hands to yourself, and she should, if she isn't comfortable with it; likewise, so should you, if you're not comfortable with a particular kind of contact. Use your words, and most dancers will try to accommodate you. We are not mind readers.
You're the only one who's uncomfortable with your lack of erection, I assure you. And if you're having trouble getting dances from someone after tipping them -- properly, as in more than $5 -- for an extra song that you didn't have them dance for, then either you're not tipping as well as you think you are, or you're doing something else wrong.





Paul, don't try to spin all of that as something many guys need. It's just you, on a desert troll island all by yourself.
If you aren't ready for a lapdance, then just don't go into the LD area. Simple.
Did you seriously just spin that it is painful if you don't get an erection, of course right after claiming that you need a few minutes of free lap action and leg fondling to be ready? Yup, a desert troll island indeed, lol.





I'm sorry..
The kit pic is very cute!
But. As soon as I read, "I'm friends w/a lot of dancers", my eyes glazed over.
Also, didn't/don't we have/had an identical thread, very recently?
Done
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt




Or maybe you could just talk to them before you go to get a dance
Or maybe you could, as a strip club regular, figure out when songs end and, like time it
Or maybe, as a strip club regular, you could understand that one half of one dance is not the biggest deal in the world
Or maybe, as a strip club regular, you could use it as one measure of 'would you get dances from this dancer again' whether she chats and waits for the song to start before dancing
Painful to not get an erection, uhhhhhh, yeah, ok





If I remember correctly, some (most prob.) club DJ's cut the song @ 3 minutes or so?
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt
First time posting, but this post is so ridiculous I had to comment. Your painful limp dick theory doesn't even make sense. It would be far more painful with a erection then limp..... Or there is something seriously wrong with your dick you might want to get checked out.



I've never had this issue.
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