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    Hi ladies.
    I’m looking for some honesty and advice today. I want to start by telling you I’m not a troll, and yes, this topic is related to penis size.
    so I fully understand how hard it can be for women to deal with societal expectations about body type and appearance, so I’m hoping you all can relate to my personal concern. I’ll just get straight to it here so I don’t waste too much of your time.

    first off, i, like a lot of men, am concerned about wether or not my penis is up to the job. I’ve dated a few people who have been real assholes that gave me a complex about it. My wife who I’ve been with for 10 years assured me my penis is definitely not small, and she tells me she loves it and also tells me it’s the nicest looking one she’s ever seen. But of course, to someone with a personal anxiety about their body, it’s still hard to get past.
    Neither my wife or I have been with a lot of people. She did tell me two of her exes were bigger but only by 1/2” or an inch. Yes we have honest discussions about everything.
    Mine is 7” long and 6” around, getting up to 6.5” around towards the base. Is this realistically going to feel any different to a woman between the 2 sizes? Do you think I’m a good size, or is it small? I’m looking for honesty so I can either come to terms with having a small one, or finally believing it’s not small and moving on.
    I’m sure you can relate here with body image, I’ve had it drilled into my head for 30 years now by society and urban myths that if it’s not huge, it’s no good.

    My my wife said I can reach her deep spot with no problem. And I know she’s happy with me because she told me outright I give her the best sex she’s ever had in her life. So based on all the “science” I know my dick does the job. Im just trying to be happy with what I have here one way or the other.

    Feel free to ask me any questions related to this. And yes I know this seems like a silly thing to worry about, but for men, as ridiculous as it sounds, we’ve been trained to see it as the only thing that matters.

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    Default Re: Guy here looking for advice

    Lol I feel like i'm reading the script for one of those late night penis enlargement pill commercials.

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    Lol I can see why it reads that way. That’s literally what guys are bombarded with our whole lives.

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    Dude here, don't sweat it... Some ladies are size queens, I personally am not compatible with them... When I do get worried I read this thread:

    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...on-taking-dick

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    I don't know what it is about me that says "wife me up." Everyone wants to choke me or date me. Or both. This job is weird.


    Originally Posted by Nocturnelle
    ... Kittens are assholes but they're just so darn cute.

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    Cfnmh44,
    Thanks for the link. Everything else about myself I really am happy with. It’s just that over the years this complex kind of popped up and it’s something I’m working on for myself. I appreciate the insight.

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    Default Re: Guy here looking for advice

    Try to look info , about that!

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    Learn to use your tongue well and she will be very satisfied. Men rely far too much on thinking their dick is magical.


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    Just be at good around the house like fixing minor auto issue, basic plumbing, good with tools, give gifts and have a stable well-earned job. Do manly things and treat her as she's everything to you. It's very simple really.

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    Default Re: Guy here looking for advice

    Now you return the favor - go to Forum - customer conversation and post about something you can give advice on.
    Where Am I? Missing NYC

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    I totally agree with you. Another very important point is more with her. Do not forget the girls love the ears. They like to hear compliments. I tell my girlfriend every morning how beautiful she is. By the way, we met at a dating site

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    Learn to use your tongue well and she will be very satisfied. Men rely far too much on thinking their dick is magical.
    .... Wait... it isn't magical?!

    But seriously, every woman is different, some need clit stimulation, some are more G-spot, usually fingers and tongue will do the trick. The few that need 9 inches, well, either join the swing lifestyle or admit that certain body types don't do it for you as well...
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    I don't know what it is about me that says "wife me up." Everyone wants to choke me or date me. Or both. This job is weird.


    Originally Posted by Nocturnelle
    ... Kittens are assholes but they're just so darn cute.

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    Default Re: Guy here looking for advice

    So true.
    I, personally, hate clit stimulation!


    MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP

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    Default Re: Guy here looking for advice

    Personally I don't give a shit about a guy's dick size as long as it isn't too small to feel anything. Anything above 6" is fine with me and in fact gets too big after about 8.5 or so - then it hurts. But that's just me

    Just like guys say they don't really care about boobs/butts being huge (some do but not the majority) same goes with women and penis size. It's more of a social thing to discuss than something we actively give a shit about.

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    Default Re: Guy here looking for advice

    You're not small. Statistically, you are above average.

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    Default Re: Guy here looking for advice

    I charge 200$ on manyvids to get a dick rating. Pay me first troll!

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    Default Re: Guy here looking for advice

    This literally does not belong here.

    If you are married then you shouldn’t give a fuck about asking anyone about this other than your wife, wtf.

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    The relationship of a man and a woman is an intimate relationship.

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